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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Does she deserve another chance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - This might take abit long. Me and my girl have been dating for year and a half, and she recently started a new job 3 months ago. But the past week shes been acting a bit strange. She was suddenly dressing up for work. Few days ago she had a ...

Why did I have to fall for my friend who is in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - One of my really good friends and I knew each other since high school but we really didn't start talking and getting to truly know each other until this year, which is our senior year. My friend, she's gay, and I really got close, we're so ...

Tricky love triangle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay well i have this BIG problem Its really complicated and hard to explain but its a tricky love triangle basically. Well i'll start from the beginning... Me and my Best friend work at the same place, and theres this guy at work i REALLY...

How do I stay in touch without getting between them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have this guy in my one of my classes.I really like him.BUT He has a girlfriend of 4 years and he's graduating this year and moving to another city. I know, i can't date him, but i'd really like to stay in touch with him beyond high school. How do ...

Do I pick the guy who I have the history with, or the guy who makes my heart skip a beat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - i am torn between two guys. the first guy i have known him for 8 years, we have been friends with benefits on and off for about 6 years, i always felt like he was the love of my life. didn't matter who i was with i always ended back with him. but in ...

Stupid or just plan silly in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am hurt. I recently reconnected with my high school crush. He indicated strongly that he is interested in me. I feel same way about him. However we do not live in the same town. He lives in a smaller town. I recently learnt ...

Boyfriend spending alot of time with this girl and I don't like it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Recently, my long term boyfriend lost a good female friend of his and has since "replaced" her with another girl, whom I know semi-well and also work with. They have been spending a lot of time together and have been going to bars together, are ...

Should I just let the liar fly???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I noticed he was acting strange. He stated that he had to have a meeting with his cousin for their new business in jersey. He tried to leave me to go to new jersey on my birthday... to have a "business ...

Should I attempt talk to him, even out of curiosity???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Basically, I found out I was the "other woman" in about a two year affair. The kid was older and I kept my virginity, thankfully. He had always had a "mystery" to him - he disappeared for three months without a trace and reappeared wanting me ...

I like her but she likes my friend, how do I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - Me and my friends have been hanging out at a bar for a while now and we have been talking to this girl that we have become really good friends with. We have been talking to her for about 3 months and lately I have gotten really close to her since we ...

Does he want her or me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - "OPs own title" I need help! I've been involved with this guy for a few years now. We've hooked up randomly throughout the years, but we've both been in relationships. Now I am single and he's very interested in me. He texts me constantly and we ...

B/f's friend is there for me when my b/f isn't. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - so i've been with my boyfriend for a while now and i love him dearly, i just recently had a miscarraige and ever since then things have just become horrible. it went from almost perfect to a complete disaster, he rarely comes to see me and all i do ...

Sharing a man -- should we live together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - My lover's wife and I have become very close. Somehow we have accepted this shared relationship. I told her I want children (I am the younger of the two) and she told me that I should move in. It will be better for the three of us and the ...

My husband has been cheating with his sister-in-law, and won't give her up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - My husband has been cheating on me for years with his brothers wife. I never could understand why she was phoning him constanly. I even tried to talk to her about it. She later started spreading rumours about me. Telling people, my husband included ...

Are guys bothered by their friends dating their ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - A few years ago, I was "casually" seeing this guy. Long story short, he was a jerk and didnt want a relationship and was just using me so I ended it. A year later, he called and asked if we could still be friends and we hung out once and talked. The ...

His wife does not want to give him the divorce, other problems, need a lot of advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Here is the back-ground: I had an affair with someone several years ago. He (I'll call him Scott) was a very close friend and confided in me that his marriage was over and he was leaving her. We began the relationship then. Well, "scott" ...

"I really like this boy and time is running out"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Okay so here's the problem. I really like this guy. Same old, same old. I'm very, very shy around guy's and have had a few bad experiences. My friend says that he's no good for me. also he likes another girl. this is a well known fact. I personally ...

He wants me in his life even though he has a g/f

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - i know this guy for over 2 years, we hangout everyday he introduced me to his friends i met his mom he met my mom and my sister. he tries hard to make me part of his life. he even told me he likes me but when it comes to actually being together he ...

The guy who is leaving for college, or the guy in my grade?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - i like a guy who is leaving for college when i am only a sophomore...he is my neighbor so i will pry still c him alot...and i also like a guy who is in my grade who i have previously dated...the senior likes me he has told me and i can tell he ...

"How do I stay just friends with a flirting boy?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - "OPs own title" I am extremely confused at the moment. I have an amazing boyfriend, of 8 months, he is 16 (year older than me) and I love him very much :) However, recently I became friends with a fourteen year old (year younger), who keeps flirting ...

Girl of my dreams... still loves her ex. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

24 May 2010 (M) - Ok, here it is. A few months ago I met this lovely girl who I instantly developed very strong feelings for, right from the beginning. We have been texting each other ever since and have since met up once for lunch and we both had a lot of fun. I can ...

I really don't know whether to believe my exes promises and try to give him another chance, or just carry on the way I am, and move on? I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - for starters this will be long, so please bear with me... ok, i met my ex on the internet in july '07, we spoke so much to the point that i asked if he wanted to meet up, so we met up mid aug '07, a few days later started going out, it grew more and...

New boyfriend won't let me see old boyfriend and I don't want to lose either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - Hi, Six months ago my boyfriend, "E" of four months had to move to America after his parents divorce. We initially planned to stay together while he was away, but after two months we agreed to split as the situation was so impractical. I was preg...

Do I tell the guy I love but am not dating about sleeping with another guy when I was really drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - I began dating "H" 5 years ago. We broke up (a few times) but have always stayed in touch. Recently, our feelings for each other resurfaced. We talk as often as we can (he is in the military so he's sometimes out of reach) and I even visited him. I ...

Can't make up my mind between two guys, what is the answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - I'm 17.I'm split in between two guys. Guy 1 [ My ex boyfriend ] whom i know from a year n half and we been together.We broke up in dec and since then he's behind me!!I sort of like him..he says he's realized his mistake and wants me back.I so...

What is this guys game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - Hello everyone Im a very confused person at the moment, Im mates with this guy, well i liked him more as a mate and hae slept with him a few times, anyway he now has a gf and often puts on his facebook pg how they are going shopping for a fe...

My boyfriend's practically dating this girl

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - I'm naturally a brunette but I keep dying my hair and eyebrows red for my boyfriend of over two years. He's pretty much obsessed with red heads and it never bothered me until now. The last five months, he's been hanging out with a natural red-head...

I am confused, he has a girlfriend, but flirts with me, how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - Hi, i posted about this guy some time ago but now truth has been revealed and i am even more confused than ever. First of all it is honest to say that i like him. Very much. He makes me smile and laugh everyday and it was long time ago last time i ...

Do I choose the father of my child or ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Who do I choose, between father of my child who I had helped become rich and turned around and started an affair with other woman he just comes from another town or a man that I met on line and had similar problems and just hit it off but he also ...

Is there any hope for a girl who's been played?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - The title describes itself. If you've followed my questions before, then you'll know the guy who I was so "head over heels" with. Today, I don't think I could've been any madder, or felt any more stupid. I'm feeling so hopeless right now... Any ...

Am I in over my head with this younger lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - hi, i'm in a bit of a dilema, about 4yrs ago i met this guy (A)...he was married going through a divorce and i was in a very unhealthy relationship with guy (B). guy(A) and i became friends working together and he was like a shoulder to lean ...

Does my boyfriend desire my sister?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I am really confused and upset at recent events with my partner of 16 years. I am 37 he is 45. We have had a great relationship and people often tell me how nice my partner is and how much he loves me. He is a big man and is thoughtful and takes ...

Hubby’s neglect driving me towards another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I am in some confussion..... i had a fight with my husband ..NO ...lets say it... he again talked with me very rudely and when i stopped talking and ignored it... he got angry that i am upset...yes i was upset ... i cant smile if someone ta...

Girlfriend cheated now I'm wanting her back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

20 May 2010 (M) - "OPs own title" So i have been with my girlfriend for 1 yr 6 months. I honestly thought she was the one, she took me for who i was and put up with my weirdness most the time. We could tell each other anything without judgment. We where very ...

"I feel second best to my boyfriend's female friend"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - When me and my boyfriend started going out he was texting a girl everyday which i didnt know about. He used to text her everyday before he got with me anyway because they were good friends but he used to really like her and even asked her out before ...

In a relationship, but thinking about another man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now and i love him but we fight alot. I have dreams very often about a guy who i liked even before i got into the relationship and i think about him all the time and im pretty sure he has some kind of ...

His new girlfriend is hassling me thinking I want him back when I am happy just being his friend, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - A split up with my ex 3 years ago in June and a year and a half ago we got chatting again, we've spoken a handful of times in 18 months. Recently I have been seeing more of him as he is still friends with my brother and is doing all the plumbing...

Is it too soon to ask him to leave his girlfriend for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Okay, so There's this girl (let's call her..Rebecca). So a couple years ago, Rebecca started going out wit hone of my close friends (Tommy), and after a month or two him and I got closer. It eventually lead to us kissing, talking, and touching. Th...

My husband's best friend says he is just my secret admirer but I am worried that he might one day ask for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - when i met my husband 2 years ago, he had his best friend whom they have schooled with from high school to college. the friend is married to a a beautiful charming lady who is now my friend. the crazy thing is that this guy(my husband's friend) fell ...

My husband has a secret life.....how do I deal with it all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I just recently found out that my husband of 18 years has kept up with an old girlfriend from college who he has always had strong feelings for the entire time we've been together. She lives 3000 miles away and they haven't seen each other for ...

I want her back so badly despite having an affair with my friend, but she cant decide who she wants to be with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - So I've been dating this girl for 1 1/2 years and shes is the most amazing person i have ever met hands down. My problem is that recently at a party she had sex with one of my "friends". They started texting about personal things behind my back and ...

Was my husband having an affair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - i separated from my husband because he is prioritizing his friends and co-workers, and before that happened i usually noticed him that he always go home late at night and my brother saw him late night that he was doping of a girl in someplace but he ...

Love Triangle! BF & Father's Girlfriend's Son! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - my mum and my dad got a divorce about 4 years ago, since then my dad has had this girlfriend for about the past year, and ive been going to see him regularly, and ive been getting to know his girl friends son. hes only a couple of year older than me ...

How can I move on when I have never felt this way about anyone before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - i left my boyfriend of 7 months for someone i just met. by the way its a girl. She was super sweet. we were talking for a few weeks then i got locked up. well she sent me flowers to show she cared she called me all the time just tell me that i was ...

My life as his second wife is taking me nowhere, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - I fell in love with a married man, who is my hubby now. I'm a Muslim, my religion permits man to marry upto 4 times. I met him 8 years back and had pre-marital sex. He is my only partner, may be this guilt forced me marrying him and not other man. B...

I want our family back together but how I can I do this when there is another woman involved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - he left me a year ago saying his feelings had changed in truth he had feelings for a girl he met at work, he has been unwell since he left saying he is really upset by what happened and is so sorry for hurting me, he has been leading me to believe ...

My fiance and his ex have been exchanging very affectionate messages on myspace

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Well my fiancè and I have been going through alot. Such as his cancer and my depression and now i think he might be cheating on me. Or.. Wanting to. I was on myspace the other day and i went to his page just to post a cute little comment on his page ...

I fancy a guy who fancies my friend and she him. Should I make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I have 2 friends that like eachother but the girl doesnt want to hav a young relationship but still txts him all the time and sends him pics of herself and asks if he likes what she's wearing or her hair. Anyway, i like my the guy who still ...

Should I go with the older man who I feel could take care of me, or the younger one who I feel like I'm insecure talking to??

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18 May 2010 (F) - Hello, I have two guys who I am chatting with on FB and I am interested in both. One is 18 (I'm 19) and the other is 34. I dated a guy who was 8 years older than me for 2 years...so I'm used to the guy being older than me. I feel a lot more ...

I am desperate how can I get him off my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

17 May 2010 (F) - im desperate... i dont know what to do anymore. how on earth can i forget someone that i love so much but cant be with?? i have tried to go out with my friends, have fun, keep myself busy at all times, unfortunately there is nothing i can do to ...