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writes:Well my fiancè and I have been going through alot. Such as his cancer and my depression and now i think he might be cheating on me. Or.. Wanting to. I was on myspace the other day and i went to his page just to post a cute little comment on his page and i see comments from his ex sooo i click over to her page and there are a whole bunch of comments from my hubby and there all in spanish so i get my friend to translate them for me and they all talk about how he misses her and how shes his angel and how he cant live with or without her. Im really confused on that last part but anyways.. I confront him about this and he laughs and says that its her posting alllll of the comments that shes just trying to break me and him up and all this stuff and i tried believing him but i really cant... What do you think i should do..? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): You have gut instincts for a reason. What are yours telling you?
How can she be posting on her page but making it look like it's come from him?? That doesn't even make sense.
Dont back down. Bring it up again and tell him you dont believe him. If you keep on at him then he'll either storm off (to avoid the fight when he knows he's in the wrong and feels awkward) or realise he's not getting away with it and trip himself up. Either way, if you let this go you'll never trust him again.
It's then up to you what you do about it. If he still has feelings for his ex then you'd be best to let him go - you dont want to be second best to anyone. If he begs your forgiveness and you give him ONE more chance then he has to get rid of all the social networking sites/ANY contact with her and accept that you are going to be suspicious for a while - till the trust builds up again. If he cant do that then you need to move on.
Good luck
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