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writes: Me and my friends have been hanging out at a bar for a while now and we have been talking to this girl that we have become really good friends with. We have been talking to her for about 3 months and lately I have gotten really close to her since we talk about our past relationships and about our life. Well lately I have gotten fond of her and I realised I like her a lot because we have a lot of thing in common and lately I have been doing things for her that normally a friend wouldn't do for her. I don't think she sees it as anything else and always reminds me that we are friends after I had told her I liked her. Well about 2 weeks ago she tells me she likes my friend and I feel horrible because I have been giving her all this attention. I am sort of heartbroken and don't know what to do because...I don't know how to be with her now that she likes my friend. I talked to him and he tells he doesn't like her and that he doesn't want anything but he is always talking to her. We are very much a like as well and to be honest I know he does like her but he doesn't want to tell me, so I don't feel bad. I don't know what to do or how to act with her now because of this. Obviously I am not going to be as giving as I was before but I just don't know what to do. And of course I don't want to stop talking to her. Thanks for any advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): ouch, you're in the friend zone, one of the most dreaded states a man can be. really, never tell a girl how you feel unless you've already been around the block with her, and even then it's better to save the conversation. it's a killer.
anyway, i hate to break it to you but you have to man up and let them be. if they like each other, and you're getting in the way, it could not only ruin your chances with her but also with your friend, and that's the last thing you want to do.
either way, a heartbroken man is one of the least attractive types of men. move on, you are better than to whine about her not liking you. shit happens.
good luck!
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