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26-29,
anonymous
writes:my mum and my dad got a divorce about 4 years ago, since then my dad has had this girlfriend for about the past year, and ive been going to see him regularly, and ive been getting to know his girl friends son. hes only a couple of year older than me and hes really nice. hes nice looking, hes nice personality. there's a slight problem though, he has a girlfriend he has been with for years, and i have a new boyfriend have been with for a couple of months. before i started dating my boyfriend, me and the other boy, have kissed each other, more than one time. im starting to get feelings for him and they are starting to get more complex, but i love my boyfriend. i dont know if this is just a crush or am i in love?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 Make up your mind. No one can tell you what you feel for either or. But what you can't do is wingle between both. If this first guy and you have kissed while he was in a relationship with a girl (you said they've been together for years) then he is a cheater. If you had feelings for him, why did you enter a relationship with your now boyfriend? Your boyfriend doesnt deserved to get played, brake it off if you don't want to be with him, or stay with him and stop flirting with this first guy! Just pick one or the other, you can't have both.
One thing: how can you after a couple of months love your boyfriend? Thats really early for such strong emotions. Plus the fact that you aren't even sure if you want to be with him is an indication that your feelings for him are not that strong.
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