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Archived questions from: March, 2005 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I'm waiting for my married guy, but I'm not sure we have a future...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7165 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing a married man for 8 years on and off. He has a family, and loves them dearly, but doesn't love his wife, and he says he loves me to bits. I don't know if i can see a future between us, but also can't hang around f...

To avoid a fight, I lied and said she was just a friend. Was I right or wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7164 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - What can I do? I met my rival in my girlfriend's house. The rival was about to fight with me. But, I show a big understanding to him by lying to him that we are just ordinary friends, just to avoid fighting each other. What I did, was right? I...

The man I'm falling for is everything: sweet, kind, funny...and has a girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, Should I cut my losses a move along, or should i just have more faith and determination?? I've fallen head over heels in love, for the first time properly, with a friend I have made at university. I've thought I'd been in love before b...

Another girl is extra-friendly with my boyfriend. He says he's not interested, so what's she doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7167 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - I'm totally in love with my boyfriend of 10 months and he feels the same towards me. We're moving in together in 2 weeks and we couldn't be happier. There's just one thing that has annoyed me lately and that's his female friend. Well I say friend ...

I hate the idea of a new woman in my old room, in my old house...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7142 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - I am a divorced mom of 2 girls ages 14 & 10 for the past 5 years. I am currently living with someone else and have since I left my ex. My ex & I have joint custody of the kids & living time is shared between us. My ex recently started seeing s...

His mum treats him awful and he's started to take things out on me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7095 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - Hi, Me and my fella have many ups and downs. The problem is he finds it hard to stand up to his mum. She throws him out and calls him worse than s**t. It really does get to him but lately he has been taking things out on me. What can I do? He is ...

I can't fall in love with my girlfriend, and now there's a new temptation on the scene...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7171 days ago

26 March 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, For the last 6 months I have been seeing a girl who I like a lot but can't fall in love with. I do like her but no matter how hard I try I can't get any more feelings for her. To complicate matters further, I talk ...

My lying, grumpy g/f doesn't compare to the new girl, but I love her anyway. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7070 days ago

26 March 2005 (?) - OK, I am going to be brief. What do I do? I have a girl I've been with for 5 years. We always fight. She has a very bad attitude and is always grumpy. She doesn't use much common sense and has lied to me in the past. I will not cheat on her and ...

Trying hard not to fall for my co-worker, but how do I convince myself that he's just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7172 days ago

25 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I have never been lucky enough to find the right guy for me. I am 18 and have realised that there is this person that I really like. Unfortunately there are a few snags and problems to the scenario. I work with him at work, he is 26 and married. ...

He told his ex he was through with me and loved her, but told me the exact opposite!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7160 days ago

24 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I had been with my boyfriend 4 months and we were totally in love. He has 2 children with his ex and told me he would never go back to her. Two days ago he told me she had asked for another chance and he agreed, he told me they were just tal...

I'm due to be married, but I feel like I'm missing the fun I should be having...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7174 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - Hey. I am due to get married in 6 months to a wonderful man. When we met he was perfect, so much so that I gave up my life of having fun, drinking etc with my friends. I was only 18 when I done that. 22 now, and I feel like I'm freaking out about ...

She wants to "play it by ear" when her ex returns. Do I have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7174 days ago

22 March 2005 (?) - hello, please help me! i met a lovely girl couple months ago and we seem to get along very well. i have since learnt that she had a relationship for 5 years and split up with him end of 2004.he is due back from states or somewhere late jul...

Right now, I'm seeing both my fiance and my ex-b/f and I wonder if wedding plans should wait.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7153 days ago

22 March 2005 (?) - Hi There, I have been with my partner for 5 yrs now and we are getting married next yea,r but the problem I have is that i have been seeing my ex from 7 yrs ago and i don't know if i am doing the right thing in getting married! Please help me...

Can I be in love with two people? How do I choose between them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 March 2005 (?) - Can i be in love with two people? I'm at university. When i started i had a boyfriend from home of 6 months and coincidentally we were doing same course at same uni. Within the first week we broke up. The situation had changed so much, the summer i...

A former friend of the family is now my ex-husband's partner and I'm still hurt...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6858 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - Why does my ex partner not want me to move on with life? He left me and 2 kids for a new partner. Kids refuse to have anything to do with dad's new partner because she used to be a friend of the family. They are happy to see their dad every day, ...

My b/f says she's an old family friend, but when he sees her, it's like I don't exist...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend has an old family friend that he totally gets lost in when he is with her. He ignores my calls when he is at her house. When we see her, he acts like he has never seen me before will not hold my hand or be lovey dovey, as he usually is. ...

I don't know whether to stay with my current girlfriend, or try things with the new one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7176 days ago

20 March 2005 (?) - I'm 16 years old and have been going out with this girl for about 3 months. We have both been pre-occupied with school etc recently, so haven't seen each other for a couple of weeks. I have also just come back from a school trip and I really fancy ...

Is it selfish of me to go out with my sister's ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6990 days ago

20 March 2005 (?) - I have been going with my sister's ex-boyfriend and last week she found out. She wasn't happy but he said he still liked me. But now I don't know what he wants. Am I being selfish?...

When my b/f cheated, he left another girl pregnant. He thinks I should be "over it" by now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7179 days ago

18 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my partner for 5 years on and off. I'm at the point now though that I don't know if we can carry on. He has cheated on me twice. With the second girl, he left me and stayed with her for 8 months, but then got back with me. But when...

My wife is getting romantic texts from a co-worker...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7088 days ago

18 March 2005 (?) - Dear cupid, I`ve been with my partner for 15 years, married for 3years. We have 1 daughter. Like most relationships we've had our ups and downs. I recently found text messages and a letter from someone she works with expressing feelings ...

I met the woman I really want... at the wrong time in my life. Now I worry I'll never feel that way again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7083 days ago

18 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid Can anyone help me ? After a painful and elongated divorce from my ex , i met someone - but too soon ! - she herself had had a painful marital breakup but that was 3 years ago - so she was ready for a relationship and i wasnt. She met s...

My brother wants me to dump my girl, because she's his ex...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

17 March 2005 (?) - I recently got together with my brothers ex girlfriend and am now in a difficult situation. We really like each other and would like to continue seeing each other, but my brother has advised me against it. He says he wants to move on with his life ...

She lies to me about the other guy and I lie to her about work and finances. Can we make this work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7078 days ago

17 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid I am a male of 33 and just come out of a relationship of 4 years. It was going good until 18 months into it, when i cheated twice! I was also lying to her about financial and work issues! We tried to mend it but last August we split...

Why is my partner so infatuated with a TV actress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7084 days ago

17 March 2005 (?) - My partner of four years has recently become quite infatuated with an actress from the L Word. She spends as much time as possible looking up sites with this actress on and talking about her with a mutual friend of ours (who is also gay-but ...

It feels like I'm the fifth wheel, when my bf & his ex play "happy families"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7180 days ago

17 March 2005 (?) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 10 months now. It's been very very difficult as his ex girlfriend gave birth to their baby 2 weeks after I started seeing him. Anyway, things have been quite strained in the sense that his ex dictates...

My husband's ex wife and 12-year-old son are breaking us up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7074 days ago

16 March 2005 (?) - I have some serious problem with my husband. We have been married for 4 years. I am 35 years old he is 52 years old. I have 3 children from a previous marriage and he has 2 children from a previous relationship. The problem is his children...

So hard to choose... I'm engaged to one bloke, in love with two!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7094 days ago

15 March 2005 (?) - I am in love with 2 blokes and I am engaged to one. They want me to chose one of them but I can't. What should I do? ...

Three's a crowd in our flat... but the place belongs to my b/f's mate, who's mad at me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7075 days ago

14 March 2005 (?) - I met a guy while I was working abroad. We were friends straight away and at first I wasn't attracted to him but I fell in love with his personality straightaway than I started to feel attracted to him. We got on really well we were an item and we w...

He's not what he said he was and the situation with his son and ex are getting me down..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7182 days ago

12 March 2005 (?) - When I met my man he told me he was divorced and was quite wealthy. As the relationship has blossomed he admitted that he had once had everything but now has next to nothing and that although he isn't divorced they don't live as husband and wife...

My boyfriend's sweet, my ex is better, but another ex is better still. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7075 days ago

11 March 2005 (?) - I'm going out with this really sweet boy, but he just doesn't give me want I want. My previous relationships have been with older boys who are up for more. But the other day my ex came on to me and we kissed. I love my boyfriend but I'm also hav...

She used to pressure me, but I kind of miss it... Should I go back to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7075 days ago

11 March 2005 (?) - My dilemma is complex...I had a good relation that went sour. THe sourness came out of constant pressure from her in order to get married or at least have something serious. I started acting harsh with her when caught by the pressure. I have to ...

My (male) friend thinks he can't see me any more, now that I have a relationship with someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7070 days ago

10 March 2005 (?) - I was seeing a close friend of mine for 2 years. We both had feelings for each other but he wouldn't commit to a relationship with me even though we were exclusive because he didn't want the hassles that a relationship brought. Whatever those are! ...

She's my best friend & I love her... but she's with someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7175 days ago

10 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid What happens when you fall in love with your best friend? I met her just 4 months out of my marriage - i am now divorced. Im 38, she's 32 with 2 kids - shes had an awful time with painful marriage break-up and sibling bereavement...

My fiancee's mother is involved in everything...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7182 days ago

9 March 2005 (?) - Hi I'm due to get married next year (July). My fiancee lives with me (2 Years). We have been together 5 years. My problem is this, she is very close to her mother and father, to the extent that her mother's friend threatened me to her approval...

I'm seeing a married woman and her divorce is imminent. Should I wait for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

8 March 2005 (?) - I have just started a relationship with a girl I work with. Problem is she is married. Her husband has been beating her for several years and she has finally got the courage to leave him and has told him it is over. She decided this before our ...

I want to let her know that emailling my boyfriend is NOT okay...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7186 days ago

8 March 2005 (?) - My b/f is emailing a girl that he works with. We live together and I did not mean to look at his email but he forgot to close out his msn account and I thought the email was for me. I was puzzled to see the email was from a girl he works with. That ...

I want to work it out with her, but don't know where we stand... (long)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7189 days ago

7 March 2005 (?) - I am 28 and she is 19. Our Relationship lasted for 7 months. For the first few months we didn’t have sex. I wanted to strengthen our communication so we could get to know each other better so I told her I wanted to hold off on sex so it wasn’t a...

I love being with my b/f, what can we see too much of each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7181 days ago

4 March 2005 (?) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly two years now and I love him so much. I enjoy spending time with him and always try my hardest to have fun. Recently I have been feeling down about this relationship, but i could never finish w...

My ex has cleaned up his act, but do I try to work it out, or take a chance with the new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

4 March 2005 (?) - I've been with a man on and off for 6 years and at one stage we got engaged. Unfortunately it was a rocky relationship due to his parallel relationship with alcohol, but since breaking up for the 'final' time in December 2004, shortly after moving ...

No sex for 6 months, no he's sharing our problems with someone online... What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7192 days ago

3 March 2005 (?) - My bf and I have been together for 4 yrs. For about a year now we hardly have sex anymore and for the past 6 months nothing. He says he doesn't feel sexual anymore but I found that he watches porn. I confronted him on this but he say he doesn't ...

Now that I'm with someone else, he wants to make a go of it. How do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7058 days ago

3 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, This problem began about 2 years ago. I had met a man from out of town and we got along great. We saw each other when we could until I could take it no more. I love him, but can't deal with the long distance thing. He also has 2 kids....

She's married and unhappy with him, but she won't leave him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7090 days ago

3 March 2005 (?) - I am seeing a married woman. She has been with him for 6 years and they have a 3 year old daughter together. They have been having problems from day one,started seeing a counsellor the second month together. He had nothing when they got together...

It feels like he's comparing me to her...and I don't rate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7058 days ago

3 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid The love of my life is slipping through my fingers. I ask myself the same questions over and over again - "Is it my fault? Am I not lovable? or even bearable in a relationship!?" Or perhaps we just werent meant to be...... The rea...

Does he really fancy me... or is he just winding me up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

3 March 2005 (?) - I am trying to work out whether my husband's friend fancies me or just 'winding me up' by flirting. He's a nice guy but I am very careful not to give too much eye contact in case he gets the wrong idea. When we have been out a few times, he has e...

In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?

This question has 407 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

1 March 2005 (?) - Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...