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writes: I am seeing a married woman. She has been with him for 6 years and they have a 3 year old daughter together. They have been having problems from day one,started seeing a counsellor the second month together. He had nothing when they got together, now he acts like he is living the high life spending her money, not that she is rich or anything but she is (was) a very responsable person. I have known her about 6 months longer then he has. We became very close and best of friends but nothing romantic in the beginning. She confided in me the problems they were having. She gets more and more depressed every day, says she hates her life.One day she was over at my house(this is after she had been married and she knows that I am in love with her)she fell asleep on my couch with her legs over mine and I just rubbed her legs for about two hours while she slept. When she woke up, she thought that was great and the following day we wound up in bed together and have been intimate for almost two years now.She says she dosn't want a divorce because of the baby,(who by the way loves me to death)says she doesn't want to have another failed marriage,even though I am the one who makes her happy. We have great communication,trust, and respect for one another, where as there is no trust in her marriage. Why would someone pick misery over happiness?Any help would be appreciated.
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reader, MyKhemikalRomanze +, writes (15 June 2005):
I have this same problem, but with my aunt. She is in love with this guy named Paul (my "uncle," even though they aren't married) and they have been together for many many years. They have 3 children. He used to beat her and stuff, and now she's afraid to leave him. They CONSTANTLY fight! But, that's me!I think she should just tell the husband what's wrong. Be honest. Honesty is the best way around certain things. I understand why they are still together for their daughter, but if it starts to get really bad, do you think they want to expose their daughter to verbal violence? Believe me, it gets worse and worse every minute they fight. The best thing for them to do is to work things out and stop fighting.
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