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writes: I have just started a relationship with a girl I work with. Problem is she is married. Her husband has been beating her for several years and she has finally got the courage to leave him and has told him it is over. She decided this before our relationship began. It is only a matter of time before they start the divorce process and will soon be living in separtae homes (they are in separate bedrooms already and have been for some time). She has told me that she was not intending on getting into another relationship in a hurry, but she says that I have changed that for her. I really think a lot of her and think we may have a future together. A few days ago she called to say that her husband has been getting suspicious and she wants to cool things with me for the moment, she said she doesnt want to but I understand that it will make things easier for her if we do. Should I wait for her until her divorce is done with, or carry on with life on my own? We are still close and talk lots, it is just the physical side of our relationship that has been put on hold, which is fine with me. I want to tell her that I will wait but will this make her feel pressured?I'm prepared to wait for her if there is a relationship waiting at the end of all this but either way I want to remain close to her be it as a friend OR lover.I am due to change jobs later this year which may involve relocating, if that happens I am wondering if it would be an idea to ask her to come with me, so we can both make a fresh start together. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): i been in a relationship with a married woman for the past few months. i told her that she could call it off if she wants to the sex is great, and she said she loves her husband... married women just want to have fun, kind of like to fill a void in there life like the woman im messing withsays she is useing me to gt more sex...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2005): GIVE HER A CHANCE. MAYBE SHE IS TELLING THE TRUTH. WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE? YOU WILL WAIT ANYWAY. NOT ALL WOMEN TELL LIES, ABOUT BEING BEATEN
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2005): I tell you from personal experience. Married women just wanna have fun. Do not get your hopes up. The married women I dated would often say the same thing your married girl told you. The same old sob story, he beats me, I'm only there because of the kids, he doesn't take care of me, he is never home, I support him, we sleep in separate rooms, I can't stand him, etc. etc.. The truth of the matter is that she likes to go out, and have fun once in a while. Usually some married women look for men who don't want a realtionship, so there is no strings attached. If she is asking for some time off, it means that she wants to let you off easy.
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