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writes: Hi There,I have been with my partner for 5 yrs now and we are getting married next yea,r but the problem I have is that i have been seeing my ex from 7 yrs ago and i don't know if i am doing the right thing in getting married!Please help me
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reader, splodge +, writes (13 April 2005):
I think if there is ANY doubt, especially this long before the marriage then you seriously need to evaluate if youre doing the right thing by going ahead with the marriage! If youre just seeing your ex for the 'thrill' then maybe your relationship has lost its sparkle?! You can try to remember all the fun times together and all the times you loved him so much you felt you could burst (you know the times!) and then decide whether you really feel these have gone forever or youre just going through a bad patch. If its just a bad patch, dump the ex and concentrate on your realtionship. Do all the things you did when you were 1st together. Make an effort, get dressed up, go on picnics or what ever. something fun and spontaneous that should hopefully help! good luck! x
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