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writes: My dilemma is complex...I had a good relation that went sour. THe sourness came out of constant pressure from her in order to get married or at least have something serious. I started acting harsh with her when caught by the pressure. I have to state that she is a very good woman..with a temper...probably because of my fault. To make a long story short...in the ups and downs of our relation she became pregnant, giving birth to a beautiful daughter...Things got worse with the pressure...I did not get married with her, probably I was scared with the demands of the relationship (I'm very responsible in my paternal side regarding sharing time with my little girl and the economic factor too.). We parted ways...although, because of the baby we kept a strict "cordial" relationship.I started with the months another relationship with a wonderful woman too. However, my ex, continuously kept a nagging...which now is starting to eat me away. She doesn't call me anymore...which I should say...for some reason I miss. I'm almost thinking on breaking with my g/f in order to go back and give a chance to my ex.Would I be doing the right thing? Would she forgive me?Any help is well appreciated.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (1 July 2005):
Dont blame yousrself for you ex's temper. Why should you break off a good relationship ith your new woman only to go back to your ex to stop her nagging? She will never change and I dont think you want to commit to her, if you did, you wouldnt have written this letter. Arrange mutually convenient times to visit your daughter and have nothing more to do with your ex unless it involves your daughter. Your ex is not your responsibility any more.
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