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writes: hello, please help me! i met a lovely girl couple months ago and we seem to get along very well. i have since learnt that she had a relationship for 5 years and split up with him end of 2004.he is due back from states or somewhere late july. she has just started a course,3 months in and now wants to be single.trying to be brief!she says she wants to see whether she has any feelings for him on his return.i think playing it by ear. she went out with somone just before me for month or two and i think they were planning to engage.but also recently learnt she would not have gone through with it.i may have been catalyst for them to split? i have very strong feelings for her.she makes me laugh and is fantastic to know and get along with.its been 3 weeks or so but i really want to see whether i have completely blown it? i make an effort to speak to her 4-5 times a week.she is fantastic a usual and very charming.please let me know how to go on? i think she cannot tell me how she can do this! thankyou
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Mike, writes (24 March 2005): Hello,I have good news and bad news...Good News:You haven't blown it! Bad News:You can't do anything about it right nowThe Run Down:She is confused right now, and she still has feelings for this guy. There is really nothing that you can do except be there for her and give her space and time. She will let you know how it goes.No matter what happens, just remember that there are other fish in the sea. And trust me, I know exactly what you are going through. My girlfriend actually broke up with when I needed her the worst, and I am still battling with the questions. But there IS someone out there for you, whether it her or not only time can tell.Good Luck & God Bless,Mike
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