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My boyfriend's sweet, my ex is better, but another ex is better still. What do I do?

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Question - (11 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I'm going out with this really sweet boy, but he just doesn't give me want I want.

My previous relationships have been with older boys who are up for more. But the other day my ex came on to me and we kissed. I love my boyfriend but I'm also having a relationship with my ex.

It feels so good when I'm around both of them, but with my ex its only sexual and I know it's meaningless. To top that, another ex (my first love) is saying that he loves me and I think I still have feelings for him.

To make it easier let's call my boyfriend Jim, the person I'm having a relationship with, Gordon, and the one I have feelings for Bob.

Gordon has a girlfriend who he never sees so he gets what he needs from me and I get what I need from him. I know it's wrong but I don't get anything from the relationship I'm in.

None of my friends know about this, so I didn't know who to turn to.

Please help me!

fona 13

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (1 July 2005):

If you arent getting anything from the relationship you are in, I suggest you tell your boyfriend this and allow him to move on with his life, as for your ex, he has a girlfriend at the moment so you should stay away from him. How would you like your boyfriend sleeping with someone else behind your back? break it off with all of them and make a fresh start. Stop clinging onto the past.

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