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Archived questions from: December, 2005 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

How do I get my ex-fiance back in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6892 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - How do I, as a female, get my ex-fiance back? He broke things off only because my sister and mother didn't trust him. Recently, he asked me to call him, but I don't know what to say. I still love and really miss. -aprilstrongfe...

My ex says the child is mine, but it can't be! And I can't afford a paternity test.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, My Ex recently has told me she is pregnant with my child, however at the time she should have conceived I was having a gay relationship many miles away. I don't dare ask if it really is mine, and I can't afford the test nor am I...

Can't get over my girlfriend's ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - I need some serious help! I am in college and have been with my girlfriend for 3 months now. She had a previous "relationship" about a year ago for 3 months (I use the quotes because she has never openly admitted to being in a relationship). Our ...

He hated me being friends with my ex. Now I find that he has initiated contact with his!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6892 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I got divorced in August. Wasn't much of my choice, he didn't love me anymore. I started dating my boyfriend from high school. Here we are 4 1/2 months later. I am now trying to be friends with my x. Boyfriend doesn't like this. Well, my ...

My kids love my ex, but I remember the lies and arguments. Should I just forget it and settle down with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6892 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I've been seriously dating him for 4yrs. We lived together for 1yr. We split into different houses b/c of the children arguing, he wouldn't get his divorce, he lied for a yr about a situation I took seriously., he never helped out financially, ...

My wife tracked down an ex for 15 years, then had an affair! Now she says it's out of her system...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6887 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - My wife recently had an affair with a man she has been thinking and fantasizing about for the last 15 years. They were together as teens, never had sex and had a bad break-up that she felt guilty about. She has just told me that she had been ...

Out of state ex-girlfriend and mother of my child won't return my calls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - my ex girlfriend lives in another state. she got pregnant by me and everything was fine for a while. i was going to save up money and move out there, to be by her. not with her, but by her to help out during and help raise my child. but all of a ...

Why does my ex keep in contact? Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 18 months. It was an on/off relationship because one minute he wanted me, the next he didn't. I also felt like he was using me for sex. He could not make his mind up about whether he wanted me or not and carried ...

My ex just wants to be friends, but I really want to win her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid I was in a relationship for 6 years since high school with a smart and beautiful girl. About 4 months ago, I felt like things were going downhill. The sex wasn’t like it used to be, and I found myself interested in other women, so ...

I was over my ex, until his sister told me everything he'd confided to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I don't really know where to start! My life is the worst it has been in a long time, and I feel as though there is no-one out there to help me! A few weeks before Xmas I started to get funny phone calls, anonymous/no speaking etc. Once in hal...

I'm dating my best mate's ex, but he's still not over her. Do we tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

26 December 2005 (M) - My best friend Chad and I are very close. We are always there for each other. Chad met Lisa and the three of us all became close friends. Chad dated Lisa a couple months back and it was short and rocky. Chad remained in love with Lisa, while sh...

Am I hypervigilant about the behaviours of my new boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

26 December 2005 (F) - Hi--I was just wondering if there was a way one could tell whether you were taking things too seriously or not? Sometimes I get offended by things my bf does and I tell him so and I'm not sure if I make too big a deal out of it but sometimes he ...

I have a month to get over my ex, before I have to see him with his new girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6880 days ago

25 December 2005 (F) - I need some tips on to get over an ex fast! I'm still madly in love with the guy I was with at uni. I haven't even seen him for about 6 months but have loved him and only him for almost 3 years and part of me still hopes that later on in life (wh...

I can't seem to get over all the hurt and bad feelings caused by my ex-boyfriend. Even though my new bf is great!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - Hi--I was looking for advice: I am seeing a great guy, but I can't stop memories of my ex from popping up and I keep on thinking of the past when I was with my manipulative ex and how much he hurt me. I lost my virginity to him and even though I am ...

If I wait to see if he gets over his ex, I might miss a chance for love with someone else, but I think he's my soulmate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6900 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - Hello About ten years ago I was in love with a classmate and I'm sure he was too, but before we had a chance to mention it we lost contact with each other. We didn't meet until last month, when we met accidentally over the net and had a meeting. I...

Is his quick attachment to me, related to his break up with his ex? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6899 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - I am seeing an old friend who has just recently gotten out of a long term relationship. It seems like he is trying to move into Boyfriend status very quickly. His girlfriend left out of town with his 2 kids less then a month ago. He respects that I ...

He meets his ex gf for intimate dinners-he says I shouldn't be upset! Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid I've been in a commited relationship for 10 months. My problem is my boyfriend meets with his ex for 1 on 1 occasional dinners exhcanging birthday/Christmas presents which upsets me a lot. I've explained to him that although I trust...

She's in contact with ex-lovers-I no longer feel safe in this relationship. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

22 December 2005 (M) - i have been living with a 50 year old lady that i knew for the past 6 years. we believe we are soul mates and plan to get engaged and eventualy married. i have however over the past 6 months become aware that she is in touch with many of her ex ...

I think he's my soulmate, but he says he doesn't have feeling for me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6901 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Hi! I'm in a serious relationship for almost 5 years. Just a few months ago we broke up. He said he's fed up with my attitude, that I'm a nagger and other stuff. Later on I found out that he's involved with another girl and that girl was the pers...

18 months have gone by and I just can't let go of the thought of my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6901 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - My ex recently made contact with me again after about 18 months since we split. He has said he is sorry, that he wished things were different and that he does love me. I still love him. I am however with someone else and whilst I cannot deny that I ...

Why can't my ex be friendly with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6888 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - If your ex, whom you shared a deep and emotional relationship with at one time is distant, what does this mean? This particular ex is friends or at least nominally more friendly with all of his other exes than he is with me. Right after the break-up ...

My husband tells me he loves me and doesn't want a divorce... but he won't leave his girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6904 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been separated for nearly 3 months now and despite all that has happened (he cheated and became very nasty) I am still in love with him, miss him and care very much for him. Over the time we have been getting closer again, b...

Is my ex really in love or am I just being used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - Hi, my partner and I broke up 4 months ago. We were together for 5 years. He was going through a bad time when we broke up as his father had just died and he wasnt in a great frame of mind. He has told me since then that he regrets us breaking...

Fooled around with my ex-boyfriend the other night... Now unsure what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I fooled around the other night. He asked me if that ment we were beck together, I said not to put that on me. Told him he knew how I felt (wanted to get back together.) He then said he'd give me another chance, but said he wasnt ...

Is it normal for his ex to be a big part of our relationship? And why am I so jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6902 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and half now, we're now living together, we have a wonderful relationship. Hes very caring, and loving towards me, he has his off days now and then but when I need him, he always goes out of his way to make ...

Can't get my ex out of my head...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6908 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - to anyone who can advise me what to do. i have been in a relationship for 11 months with my boyfriend but can simply not get my ex of a few years out of my head. whenever i come home from uni he is the first person i think about and call. on several ...

It took me ages to move on, but now that I have -- my ex is trying to be ME back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6909 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Hello, I am 22-years-old and going through a lot with my ex of almost 6 months. We were pre-engaged and together for almost 3 years and back in June, I broke up with him for creating online profiles saying he was single so he could talk to girls. ...

Still carrying a torch for my 9-years-ago ex. Should I try to contact him one more time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6909 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - I came to live in Switzerland 11 years ago because of a man that I loved. I was very young at the time we got together (20 years old). He was the same age as me. We stayed together for 2 years and then he told me he wanted to marry me. I just ...

Why won't my boyfriend distance himself from his ex?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a problem with my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. They split up 2 years ago, and he and I have been dating for 2 years (and living together). The problem is that it really bothers me that she is still in the picture (after she dumped h...

Who should I date...my ex bf or this other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6911 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - My Ex Boyfriend and I just broke up like 4 or 5 days ago. Well I still really like him and he likes me to but I like this other guy. He is REALLY sweet and tells me im beautiful and other stuff, but he lives like 30 minutes away. And he is afraid to ...

How can you make your EX-boyfriend interested in you again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - How can you make you ex-boyfriend intersted in you again without making it obvious? He acts like he still likes me, but is also interested in other girls.... but when I try to talk to other guys he gets all nervous and then tries to make me scared ...

We loved. We rowed. We split up... But now I just slept with him again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6910 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - I am a 21 yrs old female and was dating this amazing guy for 3 years (who is now 23). Things were always amazing in our relationship except that we would have "heated conversations" about how we would get married and how our kids would be raised ...

Was my ex just using me? Or is there a chance we can work things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6914 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - My ex and I broke up a week or so back. We have spent alot of time together since, and things have been better. We ended up having sex again the other night, and now I'm confused. I know I want to be with him, But i dont think he feels the same. He ...

His ex wants to be friends with me...is she being nice or do I need to be careful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6914 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - hi everyone, me n my bf have been together 5months, he's always been friends with his ex (they only went out for about 3days just over a year ago) and about 2 months ago my bf told me that his ex was chatting to him on msn and she kept asking him ...

Already sleeping with my ex... But should I f*** her too ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6892 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, My ex-girlfriend happens to be staying over with me. We are still good friends but I suspect things are starting to go further. I live in a 1-bed apartment and she started sleeping on the floor but now sleeps in my bed. She hugs m...

I got drunk and did a sex video-my ex is blackmailing me with it! Help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6915 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I got really drunk at a friends house and ended up having a 4 some w/ 2 guys and a girl. We all took turns video taping it and now Im in trouble. My ex bf, who is also my son's dad, was in the video and it was his camera we were using. My problem ...

Not sure if my ex is just being polite, or if there's more to it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6915 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - How can you tell whether an ex is being just polite or interested in a friendship? I was unofficially seeing a guy for 6 months. It ended in May. We worked together in the same office and sat 5 metres apart, hence it was a very difficult situat...

It's been a couple years and I still can't move on from her. Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6916 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - Ok, my question deals with my ex-girlfriend. We started out as best friends then had a harsh breakup where she went to some jerk. I know the best thing was to just move on. Its been a couple years since we last went out and we became real good ...

Do I stay with my wonderful guy or go back to my ex-husband...who treated me and the kids badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I have been with my husband for five years. We are know in the process of getting divorced and i have sinced moved on with a wonderful man.It has been 9 months since me and my husband have been together .well my question is i think i might want to ...

He got a suspicious phone call from his ex at 4 am- do you think I'm making a huge deal over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I was at my b/f's the other night and his ex called at 4am she was crying ...i pretended i was sleeping and he kept telling her he had to go when i got up he finally hung up on her...am i making a huge deal over nothing? or do you think it is ...

Help The gf dumped me and she hurt me. I'm over her,now and she wants back in my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

5 December 2005 (M) - Over a month ago, my ex-girlfriend broke my heart by flirting lots with another guy and dumping me for him. In this time, with the help of a really close friend, I have been able to get over her. I started becoming very attracted to this friend that ...

When things are good with my bf, they're great... so why don't I feel secure about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. Before we got together he was engaged to this girl he'd been dating for 3 years. We got together 3 weeks after they had broken up (I didn't know they had only been broken up that long) For th...

My bf talks to his ex gf once a week..I don't like it so am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend talks to his ex girlfriend - who lives about 8 hours away from us - at least once a week and, on top of this, they send each other presents for Xmas/birthdays. I told him that this makes me feel very uncomfortable, yet he thinks there ...

I have just found out he has a 13 year old child!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I have a boyfriend that i have dated for the past five months, recently i just found out that he has a child who is 13 years old. He has a second girlfriend that i donot now of. But recently there was a wedding at his family his sister child ws ...

Feels like I can't compete with my boyfriend's relationship with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - Okay so here's the story. I'm 17 and my boyfriend's 18. We've been dating for 10 months now. His last relationship ended about two years ago. Him and his ex were together for two years. At the beginning of our relationship he would always talk about ...