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writes: I've been seriously dating him for 4yrs. We lived together for 1yr. We split into different houses b/c of the children arguing, he wouldn't get his divorce, he lied for a yr about a situation I took seriously., he never helped out financially, kids......Now we are in seperate houses, do I date other guys as well, even though my kids are in love with him.Should I continue to look and date others, or just pretend he is everything. I am ready to settle down and live old with him, or someone kinda like him without all the hassels, lies,.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2005): being with a man you are not truely happy with means that you are settling for someting lower than what youdeserve. your kids aren't going to be any happier with him because they will be able to sense your unhappiness. do everyone a favour and find a man whom you can be happy with forever :)
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reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (30 December 2005):
You've answered your own questions. You would have to pretend he is everything. You would happily settle down with him - spmeone like him. I think you know in your heart this man will not change and that there is someone better for you out there. When your kids have left home then you would be the one left with a man that you aren't really sure of.
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