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writes: Hi! I'm in a serious relationship for almost 5 years. Just a few months ago we broke up. He said he's fed up with my attitude, that I'm a nagger and other stuff. Later on I found out that he's involved with another girl and that girl was the person who's courting him even if we were still on. My ex entertained him; that's why the girl had a hint that my ex-bf likes her too. I feel so deppressed and I end up making sorry, sorry and sorry to him. I love him so much and I can't live without him... He even told to his parents that he don't have feelings to me anymore so I have to stop thinking of him, calling and texting him. I think he's my soulmate. I want him back into my life. But the problem is, I'm miles away. He's in the Philippines and I'm here in Canada. Is it possible that we could still be together??malungkot
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):
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Love doesn't come into this. Dependancy does. You meet quite a few soul-mates along life's road as Mr Ed has said. You should forget the guy and travel a lot further. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2005): If you love someone, set them free. If this is truly your soulmate, let him go. He will come back someday if it is truly meant to be. If you try to control the situation and force it to work, you will never have a relationship based on love and choice. Your comments about not living without him are disturbing, and make me think that you have lost yourself in the relationship, and there were more unhealthy issues than you were aware. This time and space can give you the opportunity to find your self, your power, your own path. Focus on that, and let go of the rest. All that is truly yours, will return once you have truly let it go.
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (21 December 2005):
 In short the real answer to you unfortunately is NO! It is not worth the amount of effort you would have to put in to go to the phillipines to win back his love. I'm sorry for your loss but there are millions of guy's in this world that would be closer for you and your situation. Good luck. Ed
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