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writes: My ex boyfriend and I fooled around the other night. He asked me if that ment we were beck together, I said not to put that on me. Told him he knew how I felt (wanted to get back together.) He then said he'd give me another chance, but said he wasnt sure. I dont know whats going on but I'm ment to see him tonight, and I'm not sure how I should handle things? I dont know if hes messing with me? Said he wasnt sure about the casual sex thing said it wasnt him? So why do feel like I'm being played really badly? Like this is pay back or something he feels like I did wrong during the relationship. I dont know if hes confused or not? But he sure as hell is confuseing the hell out of me. I dont know what to do? Dont know how to talk to him about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2006): It's not worth getting back together with your ex. The same problems always come back, trust me. He'll never change, you'll never change, it's all over. Both of you will probably still miss eachother every now and then, but you have to remember why it didn't work out. Go find someone else and be happy.
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reader, honey_62002 +, writes (27 December 2005):
You didn't tell us why you broke up in the first place but the only way getting back together would work is if whatever split you to up in the first place has changed or improved. The fact that your ex isnt sure what he wants and how confused you are also is going to make this situation into a big mess. You both need to take a step back and try to work out what it is you both want and whether you think it would work out second time around.
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reader, Butterly_kisses_1604 +, writes (16 December 2005):
Hi sweetie.Well just a bit of advice for you...just leave it. I know that sounds harsh but me and this guy I absolutely adored did this breaking up getting back together thing for two years and even though i bet it feels like you really need to be back with him and miss him real bad and all that stuff if you were really 'meant' to be together well the break up probably wouldnt have happened.but if you still wanna be with him then just tell him that you need to know straight off how he feels about you and where you stand with him.Tell him you dont deserve to be messed around and you dont wanna be part of a 'maybe' relationship (unless you do) and that you either want to be with him properly or not at all.Hope that helps you a little bit.Good luck and take care.xxx
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