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Archived questions from: July, 2015 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

All my friends are moving on, dating ect and I feel left behind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - Well you may not know this but this is the 5th time I wrote here in an ever increasing attempt to turn my life around. Let me start by saying...yes i have experience with women and the only reason i 'll act the way i am now because being alone is ...

I'm 15 and in love with my 30 year old principal

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - I'm 15 and in love with my principal. He's around 30. I know it's not a crush; I joined this school last year and I just liked him last year; I tried to forget him, but my love for him just keeps increasing. All the other girls in my class also ...

Obsessed with a girl in my class. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3396 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - Hello, I'm 13 yrs old and I'm obsessed with a girl in my year but I'm too shy to talk to her and since its the holidays i don't have contact with her. I want to follow her on instagram but feel like everyone will find something fishy going on a...

We're both bisexual. Do you guys think he may fancy me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3401 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - Okay.. so basically I am really awful at knowing when someone may fancy me and half the time if someone does like me.. I don't realize until they tell me years later, which is normally down to low self esteem, so I thought I would ask you guys for ...

I felt I had no other option than to do what I did. But will he suss out that I sent it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - What do you guys think about sending fake messages under a pseudonym? I know you are going to think this trivial and trouble making - but I just need your answers:- I needed to get a message to this bloke on Facebook - he had blocked me (all beca...

Are guys playing games when they first act interested towards a girl and then choose to ignore her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - Okay so, i really need guys to answer this questiom, or girls due to their experience with dating. So, ive been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now, and I've met him at a party actually, and he said hi to me and tried to talk to me but he looke...

I don't feel special to him anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

25 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I really need help in this situation because I'm completely lost... I'm dating a guy who I really really like. I would say love but I'm 14 and in my first real relationship so idk of this is love or not. Anyways, I really care for this guy and...

Is it normal to get turned on watching lesbian porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - I just wanna know, is it normal how turned on I get watching lesbian porn? I am a 17 year old girl who is only romantically and emotionally attracted to boys. I could never see myself in a relationship or married to a woman, not that there's ...

I'm horny and unsatisfied but not sure if I'n ready for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, is it normal to feel horny most of the time? I am 17 (which is the legal age for sex) and I have a boyfriend. I dont want to pressure him into anything though as I am not sure he's ready. But I feel really horny a lot of the time and ...

Is he trying to say that he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Hello, a guy talks to me alot, he flirts alot and compliments me very much. He asked me 3 times in every while for my number but i accepted to give him my number at the third time. Once i was talking to him he said that 'im a talkative person', and ...

I'm not sure who I'm meant to be and meeting my real birth mother didn't help things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - I have been adopted and I'm in care at the moment I have struggled for the past year with my identity and not really knowing who I'm meant to be, if that makes sense. It saw my birth mum a few months ago and it really hit me and I'm sort of really ...

Double date with parents! What affection is appropriate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - Hi! I know I ask a lot of questions but I really like having outside opinions from people other than my peers. So anyway here's my situation. So Saturday I am going on "a double date" with my parents. My boyfriend and I and then my parents will ...

Cousin issues. Should I just leave her alone, because she is family? Or reach out to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - Ok so my cousin and I are on very bad terms right now. We are both females. To make a very long story short, I invited her over my house that night so that we can have a little sleep over or whatever. But someone facetimed me and while I was ...

I am 14 and am feeling a lot of stress with school expectations, family upheaval and boyfriend issues. Can you help me get through all this, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - okay so in my family, my twin brother and I live with our cousins and they have guardianship over my twin brother and I. Just recently they have decided to relinquish that custodianship of my twin brother, but not me. It's because my brother is a li...

Now my Bf doesn't want to talk. My parents don't want me to date. Any solutions to my dating problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, so my boyfriend and I want to hang out.. The problem is that my parents are really old fashioned and don't approve of me having a boyfriend.. So I have hide it from them and when I hang out I have to add some story to my plans to hang...

Yes, it's a tad early but what should I get my boyfriend for Christmas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - hello i was just wondering what i should get my boyfriend for Christmas we are both 14 and he is really into hunting and fishing and sports but i am so clueless on what to get him.. we have only been together for about 6 months by the time Christmas ...

He lied to me. I am so angry with him, yet can you love and hate someone at the same time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - Six months ago, I was going out with a guy. We were both sixteen. His ex also made me feel very uncomfortable as she still liked him and kept making jibes over us. This guy has had a string of girlfriends but he was my first boyfriend. I tho...

How do I tell my Bf to find someone better? I don't think I am good enough for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I have always had insecurity issues and body image issues since I was younger. Also living in a house with constant mental and emotional abuse can take its toll. However I have a boyfriend and it's close to being a year for us. He is the most a...

My 47 year old boyfriend was texting his friend, a 15 year old girl!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3324 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - Did I overreact and jump to a gross conclusion ? my boyfriend is 47 I am 31 we have dated for six moths I recently dumped him for texting with his best friends 15 year old daughter but let me give you some background. We having been dating for ...

Why does he not tell me when everyone is meeting up? Why doesn't he invite me too? Should I be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I am in a relationship with a really great guy for about 3 months now. He's so nice and sweet and I can just be myself around him and we have so much in common, it's amazing. I'm always happy when I'm with him. But I feel like he doesn't ...

How can I get over being nervous and initiate the first kiss with my Girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

18 July 2015 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for about 2 months, we havent kissed yet and i really want to. I mean i've been kissed by other people before but ive never really had to be the one to start it and the other ones just sort of happened...

Virgin, 19, Anxious, and worried about how, when and where I'm ever going to meet someone and have a relationship. What can I do to resolve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

17 July 2015 (M) - This is my first time trying something like this but I feel like I need to get it off my chest. Okay, so I'm a 19 year old male who is still a virgin which is one of the things bothering me. I broke up with my ex nearly 2 years ago and since th...

How can I possibly start fun and interesting conversations with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - Hi, So I'm in a relationship and we both seem to be in it for the long term. We used to be super awkward around each other and didn't know what to say. We've gotten a lot better at talking and coming up with conversation but right now we are...

Is something wrong with me? I don't seem able to have an orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I think there is something wrong with me. I am a girl, 17 years old. I do not orgasm. EVER. I had a boyfriend who touched me and I touch myself too. But I never seem to orgasm. I used to watch porn. The porn watching started when I was ...

Long term friend: Do I stop pursuing him, or should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - Hello i'm 19 years old. I have a guy friend named “E” who I have been friends and next door neighbors with since I was five up until he had to move out with his parents and siblings across town to live at his grandparents house when he was 10 o...

Too many questions from over-sheltered teen

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - I guess there's a lot to this question, but I'm beginning to think there's something wrong with me. Background: I'm 15 and I'm being raised by my super-Catholic (like, Traditional Pre-Vatican II Catholic, Latin-Mass-attending) Nana El and Pawp...

Is it normal that I want to see my girlfriend naked? Should I ask her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

15 July 2015 (M) - I am 16 and curious to see my girlfriends body. I have been dreaming of seeing her in the nude. I really want to know what she looks like naked. She is so beautiful. I want to ask her, but I want to know. is this normal to ask? Would a girlfrien...

Domestic Abuse: My Story- Part 1

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3413 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - Okay... Well basically I have recently come out of an abusive relationship and I have had a lot of time to sit and reflect on my relationship as a whole, and I have decided I want to share my story of domestic abuse, as an attempt to both educate ...

Should I be freaking out because she gave a guy a bj when she was much younger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

14 July 2015 (M) - Modnote: this is very similar, in the circumstances, but NOT identical to an earlier question submitted recently - you may also find some good answers here: www.dearcupid.org/question/can-i-get-over-this-revelation-three-years.html below is what...

Guy sending me a girl's photo? Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - Hello, so here is a guy that I saw at a party then he added me later on social media and talked to me. At first he kept asking normal question and convo lasted for a 15 minutes maximum. He talked to me again after a week or so and also did the...

This is my first serious relationship. I need advice please on my three big questions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - Hi, So my boyfriend and I are going to different high schools this upcoming school year and he's not really worried. He's confident that we will be just fine together. I on the other hand am less worried than I used to be but I'm still worried...

Is this acceptable? Recently started dating but he wants that fact to remain a secret.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - We recently started dating and he told me he wants us to stay a secret. My family knows but he is afraid his conservative dad will be upset with him. I know I need to wait to see if this relationship is going anywhere but is this a red flag? Should ...

Does anyone have any ideas about study dates for my boyfriend and I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3413 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - Hi, So my boyfriend and I are going to different highschools this upcoming school year and he's not really worried, he's confident that we will be just fine together. I on the other hand am less worried than I used to be but I'm still worried....

My older sister will need to know I'm moving out. But how do I break the news to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and i plan on getting a place together once he gets done with harvest. We will be saving up before hand and are working. While living together both of us will be going to school, im currently attending already. The hard part is that ...

How do I understand my girlfriend's anatomy and what she likes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (M) - My gf and I are 18 and we have been dating for the past school year. We are considering having sex. How do I understand her anatomy and what she likes? Can I ask my gf to show me what feels good sexually for her? How can I do that? Can good sex ...

Can I get over this revelation? Three years ago, before I knew her, she gave a guy a bj.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

11 July 2015 (M) - Okay so im 18 and have been with my girlfriend who is 19 for a year. I'm very happy with her, and still am, but recently found out that when she was barely 15, she gave a bj to a guy who she only got with 2 or 3 times, who she knew had a gf but d...

My Bf treats me very well. I believe my parents are racist and old fashioned. How can I manage this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - I'm 17, and my parents are very intent on me dating inside the race. I think it's stupid and I love my boyfriend. I know I'm young, and I shouldn't be using the word love lightly. But since when did age define your intellect levels, experien...

Why are handjobs his big focus? If the handjobs not how he likes then he mocks me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3417 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - Hello! I've been with my bf for a year and a half and recently we hung out.. And like he asked why I didn't give him a handjob? And like we've had sex a few times and I have given him blowjobs too.. I gave a handjob like twice? But like it wasn...

I need help from girls understanding my crush on my doctor!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - hello all, I am a 16 old gurl that went for a doctor visit for 4 times, he is nice, loving and gentle doctor. now and these days, I think about him much and wish to go for a visit. is that normal? am I in love or I love the way he touches me? Please...

If my bf really loves me why does he want me to have sex with other partners?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

10 July 2015 (F) - I've been dating my bf since Jan 2015. I'm 18 and he's 35. Big age gap I know but love has no boundary. My family likes him and him and I know very well that we're each other's life partner. However I believe that because of his age he is too le...

I want my 18 year old girlfriend to be my first sexual partner. How can I tell her this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

9 July 2015 (M) - I am a 18 year old virgin. My girlfriend is 18. We are seniors in high school and have been dating for 9 months. We enjoy doing the boyfriend/ girlfriend things. We were talking about sex the other night and I told her i was a virgin. She ...

I didn't think I liked him as more than a friend, but once he started dating someone else I changed my mind. He broke up with her and now I'm worried I made a mistake!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

7 July 2015 (F) - I have known my boyfriend for 5 years and we have always been very good friends. He liked me a lot for around the last 2 years and although I thought about him a lot and cared for him greatly my feelings were mainly platonic. He confessed his love ...

Its been a year but I'm still stuck on her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3424 days ago

7 July 2015 (M) - I am a 16 year old male and a year ago I dated a girl who I believed had everything in common with me but after a while of us dating she had to move and the long distance destroyed our relationship it's been about a year now and I've tried dating ...

Sexually and romantically I prefer males. So why am I sometimes aroused by women's boobs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

5 July 2015 (F) - I'm so confused about things, let me explain: I am very much sexually and romantically attracted to boys, always have been, ever since I was 4 years old. But with that, I've also noticed that since I was close to puberty, I also got arou...

Was he a jerk for flirting with her in front of me just after I told him about my crush on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

5 July 2015 (F) - Heya, Okay so basically I like this boy but the problem is so does my best friend!! So I told this boy how i felt and my best friend helped me tell him so everything was great then!! I then was talking about asking him out as a nice friend I s...

I lost a lot of weight, but I'm quite scared of what might happen if my Bf and I do go to the water park area of the amusement park we will visit. How should I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

1 July 2015 (F) - Hi I'm probably overthinking this and freaking out over nothing but I'm going to ask anyway. So I'm going to an amusement park with my boyfriend soon and both of us are excited, there's just one thing I'm scared about. I used to be severely obes...