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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hello, a guy talks to me alot, he flirts alot and compliments me very much. He asked me 3 times in every while for my number but i accepted to give him my number at the third time. Once i was talking to him he said that 'im a talkative person', and afew minutes later hebsaid 'im talkative with the people i love'. What did he meant by saying this? He also tries to deep talk with me, and tells me why hes feeling sad and tells me about his problems and personal life. Is he considering me as a friend or something more? I only consoder him as a friend and im trying to treat him also as a friend. But i notice thathhe's somehow trying to date me. What do you think about this situation? How do i friend zone him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2015): I think he is in love with you but it is not true love that is an attraction. If it is true love he never forced to take number from you.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (25 July 2015):
This guy is playing with you, he likes the flirting, he likes the chasing, he likes someone to agony aunt him when he is low and tell him he is loved, what he is missing is a shrink not you.
Stay away, he is a very troubled person and I think he could be a bit scary.
Text him and say that you don't feel as he does and you would like him to stop, lie if you have to by saying you are seeing someone. whatever it takes but end it as soon as you can.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 July 2015):
You should be honest with him. The sooner the better. HE is interested in more then being your friend. The fact that he didn't give up trying to get your number makes me think he DOES like you, he IS infatuated with you (not love) and to sooner you nip it in the bud the better.
MY advice if a guy goes out of his way to get your number and talk to you (and YOU only want to be friends) DON'T give them your number. Because by giving your number the guy will think you FEEL something too. And he IS NOT looking for a friend, or he wouldn't have been so persistent.
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