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writes:I just wanna know, is it normal how turned on I get watching lesbian porn? I am a 17 year old girl who is only romantically and emotionally attracted to boys. I could never see myself in a relationship or married to a woman, not that there's anything wrong with that. I can really only see myself having sex with a guy too. Although, lesbian porn turns me on more than regular porn. Could this be because my first actual porn experience was with lesbian porn? And ever since then anything really having to do with that turned me on. Boobs do especially, not the other part though. I'm not turned on by my friends or anything in real life and I have bad anxiety which causes me to worry about things like whether im straight or not. I feel straight but I'm not sure. Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2015): I think that there is a lot to your point that the lesbian genre was your first exposure to pornography. Your first experience can greatly affect arousal, at least at the beginning. Over time, that might change as you are exposed to and experience hetro sexuality. It's okay to be turned on by something that you are not necessarily interested in doing yourself. If you know you are attracted to boys, you are attracted to boys. End of story. Don't worry.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 July 2015):
 You are watching a woman get off... (basically) so yes, it can be a turn off for another woman and has nothing to do with your sexual "classification" or label.
Boobs are great. I don't think anyone would tell you otherwise and again, NOT an indication of where you sexual taste lies.
My advice? RELAX. I love watching cooking shows, even when they cook fish... I still don't like fish, but I love to watch food being prepared.
Secondly? Lay off the porn. IT IS NOT real. Porn is mainly faking it. It's tons of make up, lighting, reshooting and "ACTING".
However, I would suggest you read the info on the studies made of young people (specially) and porn.
http://yourbrainonporn.com/
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (24 July 2015):
 Porn is powerful and designed to turn you on. Your sexual orientation is definedas what you are sexually attracted to. Don't worry so much.
FA
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (24 July 2015):
Yup, normal!
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