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writes:My gf and I are 18 and we have been dating for the past school year. We are considering having sex. How do I understand her anatomy and what she likes? Can I ask my gf to show me what feels good sexually for her? How can I do that? Can good sex depend on the emotional connection and chemistry you have with their partner? How can our bodies work together for physical chemistry? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2015): Ask her, "what makes you feel good"? Have her grab your hand with hers, and guide you. Don't be afraid to use lube.
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reader, alley96  +, writes (13 July 2015):
Okay, so first calm down, there's no need to freak out. Make sure you are protected, maybe even take an STD test before having sex.If she is on birth control that is a definite plus, if not i would suggest in getting it which she prefers; that's what my boyfriend and i did.Anyways I'm sure your girlfriend, like many other ladys have " explored" themselves a little bit. So maybe ask where your girl may like for you to touch her. Ask what she is comfortable with first. Just take your time and make sure to have communication, communication is key. I'm not sure how open you two are but before you two fully get into it, you can lay down next to each other and watch each other, if you know what i mean, it may help give you an idea of how she would like to be caressed.In my opinion good sex within a relationship does depend on an emotional connection and feeling comfortable with that other person. It is also give and receive and respecting each others boundaries. You're not going to get everything right the first time, it takes time for you two to get into a rhythm and eventually start exploring a bit more together.
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