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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Eating disorder thoughts are slowly becoming worse.. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I am 17 years old and I'm terrified about the thoughts that have been entering my mind lately. When I was 6, my parents got a divorce. My dad dated off and on, then finally got 'serious' with a woman when I was 13. She was a complete psycho; sadly, ...

My boyfriend is a pothead!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 and a half years since 8th grade. he was a major pot head and last year he was sent to a boot camp for almost ten months, he made it seem like he was so changed and he wouldnt smoke again i waited for him. ...

Help!!! How do I tell my mom I'm gay???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hey, I really want to tell my mom about what I'm going through with my sexuality (I think I'm gay) but I need some advice on how to go about doing that. So any help would help a lot. Are there any teens out there who feel the same way? I'd love to ...

My best friend's boyfriend likes me, and I like him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I feel pretty bad for liking my best friend's boyfriend, even though i liked him before she did, but i never told her. Her and him haven't been dating that long but she's really mean to him she talks to other guys while dating him and she calls him ...

Help! My mum's boyfriend is molesting me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - ok, so ive asked a few questions on this topic before but i could really use your help on this one! until about 3 months ago my mom's boyfriend has been molesting me (this had been happening for about 3 years and no-one knws about this. i was also ...

Mum walks in on me having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Titled by Poster: What a mess i am in. Had a gathering the other night, well i would'nt even call it that, there was like five people and myself there and that's it. Things went well, wasnt anything crazy, nothing broke, i dont think. However, the...

How can I show him that I'll be there for him regardless of anything and that he has nothing to fear?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for about 2 and a half months. We have been really hitting it off. We both absolutely like each other and have soo much in common its like seeing myself in a mirror. he treats me like his girlfriend, he h...

Landing strips for men???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Ok so i got bored this morning and when i was in the shower i gave myself a landing strip... I feel a little weird since its usually girls that get them. Is it ok for a guy to have one? Will people think I'm gay or something, will girls laugh at me ...

Will she ever be happy in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Ok. A friend of mine, who is in a relationship with her bf for 4 years plus, but these 4 years was a rough ride for her. She told me she has initiated a few break ups but patched back with him. She has slept with him once. She tells me he controls ...

Should I hook up with my cousin?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a cousin problem and it involves me a 17 year old having sex and messing around with my 14 year old cousin. We have spend a lot of time together and have fun together, when we start fighting for fun he accidentaly touches my boobs and ...

We talked, he made promises, then stopped calling, now he's back, what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - okay well i'm not really sure what to do. theres this boy and he and me meet through another guy friend of mine. hes 17 almost 18 im 15. we had a really big thing but i would always have to sneak him in because I live with and abusive/strict father. ...

I broke up with this strange girl, now she's stalking me, what can I do ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi ,i have a issue almost a 1 year now, i had a relationship with 2 year younger girl when i was 16 and we were together for 1 and a half week , i was not attracted to her at all ,but it impressed me that she asked me out and i said she seemed nice ...

I hate it when he hangs out with his friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are really happy with each other. We love each other and never fight. But there's just this one problem that bothers me every time. I don't know why, but I just hate when he hangs out with his friends. I mean, I feel like ...

Ugly curse... or beautiful blessing?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - How do I even begin? Well, I just feel the need to express my thoughts and get things off my chest because I am in a complicated situation that is leading me to lack of sleep because my brain won't stop thinking and debating. I am sixteen years ol...

I'm starting to resent her and her ways...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Okay, i have a girlfriend that i love to death, but sometimes i have some problems that i dont really know the names for. To start off, shes has a troubled past of family problems, drug problems, and boyfriend problems. I, myself, have self-esteem ...

Need Help With Possible Anorexia...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, how are you? I'd like to thank you all on your help on everything else. They've all been very encouraging, rational answers that have either made me feel better or have helped. So, again: my sincerest gratitude to all of you. Thank ...

Why is he being so selfish wanting me to have an abortion???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi, last week i found out that i am pregnant im 17 and my boyfriend of 16 months is 18. I told him that i didnt want to get an abortion, and at first he said he would be there for me no matter what and said he would move in with me and my parents, a ...

Is this girl even remotely interested in me as well?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - There is this girl who kinda blew me away the first time I saw her. I didnt really think much of it at first, but over the last months Ive come to realize I really like her. But she happens to be 2 years older than me (Im 20). Anyway, we alw...

Should I wait this year out to be with him even though he may break my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok sooo. Last year I dated this guy who I was totally in love with but he basically broke up with me a week after we had sex. I felt totally used and hurt. Though he promised me it wasnt something he liked doing but he couldnt do long distance he ...

Help, I'm so confused about my sexuality...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - I've always liked girls but the last three years or so I've had nuthin but bad luck with them.... I was telling one of my brother's gay friends about my problems and he said that I might be gay or bi........ so i did soem work and im not sure and ...

He wants me to choose between him and his brother...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a long time i love him a lot and his older brother is my best friend. His brother was acting a little wierd around me and then he told me that he loved me and that i have to chose between him and his ...

People phobia...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - So im 18 and im getting ready to start college i just have a few last minute things to work out. Here's the problem, i get nervous and shy around new people and when i go to college that's all that's going to be around is new people im scared ...

I'm thinking of becoming an "escort". Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - hi im 16 years old and i have no qualifications as i got kicked out of school, i am considering becoming a protitute or joining a escort agency but i was just wondering can i even become an escort if i am only 16 nearly 17, i have no other income ...

SICK of oral...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I really enjoy oral sex, both giving and receiving it. The only person I've ever done this with is my current boyfriend. Not too long ago, we were joking around about oral sex (I'm not going to go into needless details) but I joked that I would come ...

My boyfriend seems to "Move" to fast! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - MOD Notes: OP's own title: Well I just turned 14 a few days ago. My boyfriend is 15 and he will be 16 in december. He comes over to my house a lot. We usual hang out in my room. My room is in the basement. I usual have family members walking down ...

Whens it time to end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Mods Note: OPs own title: So lets call this guy J. Me and J met 4 years ago on the computer thru a netural friend. (He was my moms friends step son before his dad and her broke up) So basically her x step son. Anyways, we clicked so quickly and ...

How do I tell our parents, my gf may be pregnant? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - My gf is pregnant. Her and I are 14. I'm thinking about telling my family and hers but I dont know how. A bit ago we had unprotected sex. And I'm waiting to know if she is pregnant or not. What should I tell my parents??? Please help...

I know I'm straight but I'm paranoid

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - help im 15 and ive been paranoid for a few months about being gay when ino im straight and im wondering if i cud have an illness or if it has anything other serious to do with it i only masturbate to stright porn aswell ...

Can I move out at 15? I don't have a good relationship with my always ill mother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hey, this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to turn. My mum has been ill for over 10 years and from a young age I have looked after her. I left school at 13 and developed depression. My brother's left home and my dads alwa...

How can I make myself so mom won't be nasty to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - my mum is always nasty to me and just picks on me for nothing. she has just come home and i am sat on my laptop and just asked her how was work? and she said as if you care! now get upstairs! i dont understand why she is like this. i do well at ...

I love a man that died 3 years before I was born

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - See, there's this guy. I'm in love with him, but nobody understands it, not even myself, actually. Some say I'm too young to fall in love, I just find guys beautiful, but for the first time on my small life I can say I'm in love... I never thought ...

Are soulmates always destined to be together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, and about 4 months ago I've met a guy one year younger than I am. Initially it started as friendship, but soon enough we developed a very strong bond, and we started hanging out more and more unt...

He says he can't love before sex!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has this thing, where he feels like he can not love me until we have had sex. He says, that it's not like he doesn't want to he just can't, and he thinks it's the only thing holding him back. I want to know if any one else feels this ...

I don't feel valued by my family...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Is it any wonder that im angry with my family? ok heres my problem. i have a host of 'supposed problems' - including ADHD. well i have two sisters Maira and Sarah, both of them fight like cat and dog and mum often favors Sarah. Sarahs ha...

Should I be a close friend to my ex or leave it and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - well i think im falling for my ex agian. Were both 15 and was together for 11 months 2 years ago but now he says to me that he likes me a lot and would love to have a relationship with me again, but the only thing is his not ready for a long ...

Boyfriend heading off to college, how do I keep up a long distance relationship without being paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Alright so my boyfriend is a year older and heading off to college in a 2 weeks. While he's not a hardcore party junky, I'm sure he'll attend a few over the next year, and make new friends, some of which will inevitably be girls. My question is...

He has a girl and I need to forget him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - Dam I just need help in fergetting This guy I heka like .. Ever since I know him I like him, and this is like 3years all ready and I just cant leave him in the past.. A year ago we went out for a month but something stupid happend that caused us ...

How can I show my boyfriend that my male friends are ONLY friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - How can I convince my boyfriend that my boy friends are just that, my boy FRIENDS? I offer to have him hang out with me when i'm with them but he always bails and I can't get them all to meet... ...

I'm terrified of what might happen next after the police caught us talking to 2 underage girls, but all we did was talk!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - This is probably the worse place to ask for advice on this topic (No offense I appreciate all the help I've received over the years) but I don't know where else to turn. My best friend and I have two female friends (ONLY friends) that are 13 and 14. ...

Should I give up on love? Everytime I like someone it seems they don't like me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok so I have a brother and he is on a team for baseball. My brother is also on a travel team. There is a guy that is on his normal team and travel team. Ever since about four months ago I have liked him. He is a year younger than me. Before I liked ...

Do I tell my friend he is not as popular as he thinks, or let him learn a lesson?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - First of all, please don't think I'm like a terrible person for writing this(: Ok, my best friend (who is a guy) I mean we're like inseperable, is playing basketball this year. He tried out last year, but didn't make it. A few guys on the team gave ...

Will his past affect our future, and is he worth sticking with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - What do you do with a guy who seems to have a past? I mean it doesn't barther me as much as it use to, but I'm curious. But I don't want to ask and hear something I wouldn't want to hear. He's had A LOT of sex. He doesn't even know the number. ...

My bestfriend likes my boyfriend , what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - what do you do if you so called bestfriend likes your boyfriend ...

How should I ask him to my prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I just want to be prepared for when this event happens, and I know it will pretty soon. Soo now I'm a senior, and we all know that's a great accomplishment and all. So anyways I was thinking of going to my prom with someone outside of my school. I'm ...

I have warts, and can't touch myself, how can I release sexual tension?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Why am I so horny ALL the time? Is there any way to release my sexual tension without sex or masturbation(I have warts on my fingers so I don't like it)...

13 and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 July 2010 (?) - I am 13 and have never had a boyfriend! I read most of the questions on here and sometimes I get so upset and sad because I see others people my age talking about their relationship and how they love them and ect. At school pretty much everyone ...

My girlfriend says I'm too clingy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend 9 months and she says i am too clingy... How can i be less clingy? I am 15, we both contact through texting... We both have unlimited texts so we can contact each other whenever we like? i want the sort of hard-t...

How can I get our relationship back to normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I am 15 in 2 months time, and my girlfriend is 15 in about 5 months time. We have been together for a few months short of a year, but in the last few months we've been together my girlfriend has begun to be really grumpy and moody with me. I...

Do you think theres any chance I could be with this girl again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - Ok 2 years ago i met this girl and kinda went out with her, she was very obsessive with me totally always wanting my attention, She kept asking me a few weeks in if i fancied her, and i didn't say anything,i was scared and didn't ask her out, i ...

I was worried he was using me to get back at another girl so we broke up, but now he wont give us another chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - i went out with this guy that i really liked and he liked me and swore he hated this other girl. well one of my friends that i really trust or i did trust,cuz i guess i still liked him and i wanted to go after him, told me my bf was using me to get ...