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writes:I am 13. Me and my girlfriend have kissed already. But she doesn't seem to want to makeout with me. I know not to rush her. And I'm not. But we have a strong realationship and we love each other. Should I wait for the right time or just dive in? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): You're thirteen. That is not love. I guarantee you.
Chances are, though, that she is extremely nervous about kissing. Young girls often get that way when they are doing something new. Just talk to her seriously and find out What's up with her. It probably isn't you.
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reader, Mack95 +, writes (16 March 2009):
Mack95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your advice. R-W plz reread. I was leaning more twords this anyway. Again thank you all (sept R-W) : )
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reader, R-W +, writes (16 March 2009):
your 13! you need to wait at least 3-5 more years, maybe more! Do you relize the consequences that sex can bring to your life??? Talk to your parents also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): Rule:Don't dive in. Bad move. I've never heard a young girl say, "Yeah, he like dove right in there and I dug it!" But I have heard young women say with resentment, "He just went for it and I hated it!"Look at it this way: respect her. Respect yourself. You have your whole life to have exciting moments with a girlfriend. Just be the cool guy and hang out and let others go at the pace that respects them. Don't expect, then you won't be disappointed.
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reader, Tewebag +, writes (16 March 2009):
when it happens it will happen. you are 13 your body is 1%normal and 99% hormones (not really but you get the idea). you will have many years to make out with pretty girls. listen to the big head not the little one that hides away all day (hopefully) expect when you pee, bathe, or do other manly things. listen to the bigger one and keep it in your pants. when the times comes it will come. if you leave this girl cause she wont make out with you, how are you going to be with a girl later when she wont put out for you right away?
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reader, SlackersACE1 +, writes (16 March 2009):
Dude, you'll totally be able to tell. It'll feel a lot more natural than it does now. Give it time, you've got plenty of it.
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reader, Mack95 +, writes (16 March 2009):
Mack95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut how long should I wait? It's been 3 months.
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