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I'm not in love with him, but what do you think of this situation?

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Question - (16 March 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, *ecallsmecutie writes:

This guy who's a boyfriend of my colleague started coming on to me on a job training (he's one of the trainers) he was shy didn't talk much, until the next day we found ourselves in an elevator together(i know what are the odds?!) so he asked me a lot of friendly questions and after half an hour he sent me an email. I told him through email to stop emailing me (me and his girlfriend sit near each other.) I had to talk to him twice that day (job related) and so it seems like fate. I didn't mention this to his gf as I don't want her to get ideas.

That night he started texting me (I didn't give him my number) and so I told him again to stop it, but I eventually gave in. I felt horrible and guilty along the way. He's cute and the kind of guy I would really date, except the fact that he's a womaniser. There came a time that her gf found out we were emailing, I denied it and told her that it's work related.

Ok, you should know that this guy has a kid and lives with another woman apart from my colleague. He's 25 and I'm 19 and he knows I've never had a serious relationship. He always tells me that he had his eye on me long before we formally met but because of his gf he made no advances. When he hugged and kissed me when we were alone again in the elevator I froze, truth is it felt nice, but I didn't know how to react then. To me, we're still on that friends stage, and he is so damn attractive to me.

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