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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have always been a little unconfortable about "down there" but now Im really ashamed. I have a really big labia on the right side and its kind of umm "loose" I had a boyfriend a while back and he is the only one I have ever been with. He was giving me oral one time and he stopped and asked what that was and if I always had it. After that, I have been so self consious about it and never let him go down on me again. I have a new boyfriend now and he really wants to have sex but I dont even let him touch me because I feel so embarassed. Should I just get a labia reduction?
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Everyone is different, and out own bodies aren't perfectly symmetrical either (look at your eyes in the mirror, they're lopsided).
If you want the surgery, then I would go for it. But I hope you understand that you are a perfectly normal person. I think your last BF just was an idiot about how to be smooth and classy around women. Certainly tactless.
Before you opt for the surgery though, be physically open with your BF. I would hate for you to go under the knife because one guy doesn't know how to speak to a lady. And if this guy can't mind his manners and realize how lucky he is to even be allowed to be with you, then you're better off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): Just out of curiosity, how many actual women have your compared labia with? Until you do, you'll never know how much variety there is out there. You are more likely than not quite usual. I doubt I'd have noticed, and most likely few other guys you're ever with will, either.
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