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writes:I'm 19 and was with a girl for two years. I was getting kind of bored and wasn't sure what I wanted. I met this other girl and started getting feelings so I left my girlfriend because I didn't want to cheat. This girl had a bf for 4 years and he lived like an hour away and she wasn't happy and she wanted out. She said I was the perfect guy and she was falling in love with me. She is 21. We hung out and kissed and she said it was perfect. She led me on big time for weeks telling me she wanted me but that she couldn't leave him.I finally said if you can't put him in the past I'm putting you there. She said I can't be with you until I'm over him and I choose him. I walked away and she text me like an hour later and said I can't let you walk out of my life. It started all over again so I finally said I'm walking away because you broke my heart. How could she play me like this? She broke my heart and I don't know how to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks everyone. I didnt get played i guess i got led on and that hurts more... each time she told me she liked me and wanted to be with me i believed it. She kept telling me she wants to leave him but doesnt know how and i was the fool for waiting around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): She didn't really "lead" you on! Be happy that at least you knew about the other guy! I'm w/my fiance now, and, when I met her she had a BF! I knew about everything w/her and her bf. Me and my fiance started out as friends. (even though I was falling in love w/her and just didn't tell her) But, I knew there would be a chance that she would want her ex back. Good thing she didn't She finally did leave him and then a little bit after that me and her hooked up. But, she was honest w/me and let me know that she was in a relationship. Your girl didn't really play you, since you knew about the other guy. You should have known that there was a chance that she would go back to him. You did get burned, but, you did not get played. Sorry you got burned man, happens to the best of us.
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reader, Tewebag +, writes (16 March 2009):
she broke your heart just like you broke your girlfriends heart to be with this bitch? ever hear of karma? or whatever you believe in. what goes around comes around? now you have nothing and if i was your girlfriend i wouldnt take you back since you were bored of me and wanted someone else. but ueah girls are bitches. get used to it
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reader, Pyro_Dimples +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Girls are bitches...end of story. Sounds to me like you liked you but she still wanted him and since you were willing to be with her even though she was with him everything was good. That was your first mistake. If the girl isn't willing to be with just you then it isn't worth it. Some girls are never satisfied. I'm really sorry that happened to you but you just have to learn from your mistakes. You deserve better than to be the guy on the side.
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