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writes:I have asked all of my friends so I guess I will ask and wait for a random person to give me the answer. I'm still in high school and my gf is older than me but she is a virgin and I want sex but I don't want to cheat on her.... she avoids the question when I refer to it. How do I get her to have sex or should I just move on?????? Help!
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (18 March 2009):
 wow dude it sounds like you just want sex from her.....if you cant wait then you should move on
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reader, Bryan_j  +, writes (17 March 2009):
I agree with curiosity18, you are a disgrace...GET her to have sex. you should be ashamed of yourself. if you truly cared about this girl you would respect her choice to wait, not ask strangers whats the best way to GET her to have sex. leave her before she falls for someone who only cares about sex, go find a girl whos like you and wants sex as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): Okay, this is what you do... First you need to ask her why she doesn't want to have sex.... Try to make a deal and compromise. If she still doesn't want to have sex just stick with her but make her want it... Don't brake up with her just cause she won't have sex that is so inconnsiterit! You shouldn't be with her unless you care for her in the first place and if you cared and she really isn't ready you should just wait!
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reader, Guitarist  +, writes (17 March 2009):
 Maybe shes not ready just yet... and i cant believe you're considering leaving her because you're not getting any. how selfish can you get?
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reader, enjoimx +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Basically, if you want different things then you have an option, either wait till she comes around OR break up with her. Nobody is at fault here, I dont blame you for wanteing sex, and I dont blame her for holding out. Its a simple case of people wanting different things!! No big deal.
But if you cant wait, move on. Find a girl who does like having sex.
But if you really like her, just keep trying to communicate your needs and desires in a respectful way. Obviously dont "Pressure" her. There is a fine line between communicating your needs and pressuring her.
Dont fault her for holding out, thats generally a very wise thing for a young girl to do!
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reader, imo32  +, writes (16 March 2009):
communicate...
does she not want sex yet, not with you or not ever?
ask her, if you want to have sex with someone, you should be able to talk to them first.
if you both want different things, that's a problem...
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