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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:okay so here is the story.. my 2 best friends were dating and one day me and the guy went out and something happend. i was going to tell the girl but one of my "friends" went and told her before me. so now she doesnt trust me. she doesnt even talk to me. and i really miss her how do i convince her to forgive me and just move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): by you saying something happened means that you betrayed your friend. I am sure you would not have told her but because the other friend told her first you were forced to come clean. She is obviously very hurt and will not trust you again. Maybe time will heal her. Learn from this as you are so young. DO NOT mess with your friends boy friends. You have thrown away your friendship over a guy that may not mean anything to both of you in a few months/ years time. Your betrayal is so much worse because she thought of you as a friend. Good friends do not do what you did. As you grow older you will form bonds with your female friends, they will need to trust you around their boyfriends. This was a mistake so please do not do this again.
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reader, lezlie  +, writes (16 March 2009):
Why should she be your friend? You toally misplaced her trust. You dont deserve to be her friend?
You need to get your priorities right mate. You accuse your 'freind' of telling her first, before you did. Well they are more of a 'friend' than you are. They done the right thing.
Maybe you should get over self, apologise profusely and hope for their forgiveness. And try keeping your friends in the future.
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