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writes:I'm really confused about this guy I know,I've known him since I was 5,we barely see each other now..We were never really close,but there was has always been this strange umm.bond like an electrical current that flows between us.It was like him and I were always on the same page,always understood what the other was feeling..We have never spoken about this,altho my mum has been saying since..forever that she thought he and I would end up together.We are in the same group of freinds.When we are alone he is the most caring person,he talks to me honestly ,and he really listens,he listens to every word I say,even when I'm talking to someone else. The problem is he's a player,he drinks,sleeps around treats other girls like shit,doesnt look after himself.It all started when his elder brother died in a very disturbing and horrific accident,he was never the same afterwards.He has been quite rudely sugestive with me ,around his freinds,but when were alone its perfect.He admitted to a freind once in front of me that he would like to kiss me.I'm pretty sure he has always liked me.But since I never see him ( different schools ).Wev'e never had the chance to become more.,:( I know he will be at a fair I'm going to in a few weeks,but I have know idea what to do..Nowone knows about this thing between us,or atleast knowone knows I feel the same.It's trickier then it sounds,,I really dont know what to do.He's in my dreams,I really miss him. p.s--Sorry it's soo long :(
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reader, Pyro_Dimples  +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Go to the fair and have fun with him. Hangout and see how it goes. If it goes well then talk to him after by yourself if you can(maybe the ferris wheel?) and tell him how you feel and see where it goes. That way you don't always wonder what if? Trust me if you don't make a move you will regret it. But only do this if you believe he will treat you right. Hell babe maybe you can be the one that straightens him out because you seem to truly care. He needs someone to care and understand right now.
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