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*ovetwothree
writes:I seriously have no idea what my heart wants. Its confusing for me. I know this guy who i'm currently really close with. Or maybe, I was really close to him. He's my senior in school and is one year older then i am. He asked me to be his sworn sister, and i agreed. However, the way he text me, it does give me the wrong idea. Every now and then there will be words like love you, he'll tell me he misses me. We did bring up relationships and he promised me that he would not neglect me if he were attached. However, last month, he told me he was attached. I thought that things wouldn't change between us. And that he'll still continue with text messages with love yous and miss yous. However i was wrong.Things begin changing and I don't text him that often anymore. I begin feeling insecure and I began doubting my feelings. I wasn't so sure I love him just plainly as an older brother, I thought that I was madly in love with him. I'm not sure. I'm not sure if I want him back just as a brother, just for him to care for me again. Or, do I want him as a boyfriend. I have thought about telling him how i feel. But I'm not sure. Can someone tell me what to do?
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reader, lovetwothree +, writes (17 March 2009):
lovetwothree is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help(:
but i'm afraid if i tell him that, I can't even remain being his sworn sister.
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reader, Johnnyboy03  +, writes (16 March 2009):
 I'm afraid nobody can tell you what to do. You have to make up your mind first. :) Just take your life one step at a time. I wouldn't try to force any feelings, you are still young.
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reader, chaqito09 +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Wow, you are in a tough situation here, but I used to be in the same exact one your in now. All I could tell you to do is talk to the guy, and be like, "Yes I do love you! I would love to be with you, but right now, I'm just really confused on what I want, because if we get together and break up, then we wont be cool anymore." You know? I'm a senior too in high school, so I know what you mean.
Text me at 832-647-4613 if you need more help.
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