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writes:we both like each other, i probably like him more but i know he does actaully like me to some point.he speaks to me online for hours sometimes and says really sweet things. we hardly see each other in person as we dont have any mutal friends but weve been out before and it was really good, and like last week he mentined going out again.hes coming to my birthdayb party and he seems really excited and even asked to comeBUt the past few days all these girls are interested him and i dont know what to do, will he go off me if prettier girls that he sees more start chatting to him?i dont want to seem pushy by talking to him more but the past few days i feel like he isnt bothered anymore, yet the night i asked him to my party he was well talkative and happy to talk. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): Just let nature take its course. Be yourself. My husband has lots of ex's who still want him.
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reader, Ne'cee +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Find out where his head is. Of course men say sweet things to women, Im sure you're not the only one, not to sound harsh, thats men. I think this is a perfect issue to determine your future with this guy if any. If he really likes you and is interested in beign with you, it doesnt matter what the next girl looks like. I understand how you feel I used to have the same thoughts about my BF cause he's attractive and Im not the hottest thang out there, but I have to trust him. So take you time and feel him out before you put your feeling in it as us women do.
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reader, Pointblank66  +, writes (16 March 2009):
You guys have a great ralationship it seems like but guys like to be able to talk to people without the use of tech. I suggest going out of your way to have a good time with him, that'll take him mind off of the other girls and put it on u. Even leave him something to keep u on his mind. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): in this situation babe, the best thing for you to do is enjoy your birthday party have lots of fun, and if you see him say hello and he'll see how fun and happy you are, which will attract him to you.
don't push him,or try and talk to him every chnace you get. you need to let him chase you, if you act too eager or desperate hes gna loose interest
just see how things go and im sure if hes a nice guy he will come running after you in no time.
gud luck xxx
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