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Archived questions from: August, 2015 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

No one will take me serious when I say I don't want sex or partying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - My siblings and I grew up in a house where my parents made it their goal to make sure that we a) graduate HS b) while not experimenting with drugs, alcohol, or sex. They let us listen to most the music we wanted to and read most the books we wanted ...

After 8 months together does my LDR really know me or care about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Hello. I have been seeing a guy in a LDR for eight months. We see each other every other fortnight and talk about three times a week too. Although we have good times together, and he tells my he loves me, I often feel something is mis...

Any advice for a lonely old man of 79 who likes to masturbate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

30 August 2015 (M) - Any advise for an elderly man who is lonely and likes to masturbate...

We are having problems having sex and not sure why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just started having sex and experiencing difficulties. We have both had partners in the past so were not new to this. We have been seeing each other for just over a month and have had sex four times now. First time we had sex ...

I faint sometimes when having sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

28 August 2015 (M) - i some times faint when having sex, due to my penis. it doesnt happen too often. some women don't know wot to do. i heav tried all sorts of creams and listen to many ideas. i do yoga and lots of sportss, and it never happens then. does it hurt ...

How am I supposed to react to this? My girlfriend does hand jobs for a living

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

28 August 2015 (M) - I recently found out my girlfriend does handjobs for a living. She's a student and is allowed to work limited hours. The money is used to support herself and family. Should i accept it? Should I react to this....

I'm dating a lovely girl but she won't have sex and I don't know how to help us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

28 August 2015 (M) - I am in a relationship with a lovely girl who I can say is an amazing person. Everything is great except for one thing....she will not have sex. Now we kiss, fondle/touch, and sometimes do oral, but when it comes down to seeing her naked or act...

Can I still trust my partner? I'm in turmoil and have doubts since I saw a message on his phone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I saw a message on my finance phone whom I have been in a relationship with for the last 4 years which as really upset me. The message were between him and his friend and said along the line of shall we have a threesom...

Are good guys generally not so hot in bed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - I am struggling to meet a guy I fancy and would want for a future and who is an average/good lover. The good guys who are trustworthy, kind, warm and solid seem to lack that intense fizz and passion. I am no spring chicken and far from perfect...

How do I carry myself forward and ensure that I do NOT go back to him and ensure that I move myself into Normalcy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm here for emotional support and help. I just broke my 6 years of relationship with my EX-boyfriend which I'm stressing on because it's hard to believe that he's ex. I got into this relationship when I was 17.. the guy had slowly m...

I keep having sexual dreams about this girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3362 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - I like this girl. I keep having sexual dreams about her. She had sex with 1 girl in a 3 some once but I want to have sex with her. I initiate the words, we've kissed but I think she's scared or just doesn't want to with a girl because I know she's ...

I always stop us from going any further sexually but I'm not sure why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

26 August 2015 (M) - I am a bi male I've known this woman since last August, but we've only been dating since March. And this would be my first relationship with a woman. (I've dated women before but it never went anywhere nor did it get sexual.) Prior to dating this ...

Got drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I feel incredibly guilty. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years.I am 27 and he is 29. I love him with all my heart so much so that my friends think it has changed me and I am forever neglecting my own needs. Like many relationships we have had our ups and ...

I feel like a novice with new partner after going without sex for 7 years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I recently started seeing someone and everything is going great...except in the bedroom! My previous relationship lasted four years but it was sexless, my partner had no interest in sex at all and I just resigned myself to a relationship based on ...

Why did my girlfriend suddenly decide she won't have sex till we get married?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

24 August 2015 (M) - We have been dating for over a year now, things have been going on well between the both of us. As usual she is ready to have sex anytime I ask for it Suddenly things changed! My gentle and caring girlfriend suddenly changed to someo...

How can I have a pleasurable orgasm without penetration?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

24 August 2015 (F) - feywild126 again, with a question in the same ballpark as my previous one. The guilt from having an orgasm is gone now, and now I'm wondering if someone can give me tips on how to masturbate? I hope that question isn't inappropriate for this site; I ...

Why is it the older I get the harder it is to control my hormones?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - Why does it seem that the closer I get to my twenties the more my hormones seem to crave sexual activities? At eighteen, I have managed to stay a virgin, but it seems to be getting harder to avoid sexual thoughts and the desire to be an attention ...

I hate cheating, but not as much as a failure to forgive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3369 days ago

23 August 2015 (M) - IT’s been the story that hasn’t gone away all week. Ashley Madison sent journalists in to a spin trying to access the 9.7 gb of data leaked on to the internet, trying to find any public figures who may be embroiled in the scandal. Suspicious spouses ...

What can I do to ensure our relationship can work, without the guilt of feeling selfish about delaying having sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - Hello all! Please I need your advice on this issue. I and my bf have been dating for over a year now and we have never had sex. I'm a Virgin and he is a Virgin also. We ar both 23yrs. He really wants us to have sex but I don't want to until we...

I feel used by my lover. How do I confront this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - When I meet up with my lover we always end up having sex, and don't get me wrong, I do enjoy it but I feel a bit used. When I book a hotel room for the night I always end up paying for it...not that I'm tight but I wish he would pay sometime...

I feel guilty after masturbating and having an orgasm is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - I'm a virgin, I've been masturbating for years, but I just recently had my first orgasm. I was happy and giddy and everything they say you SHOULD feel just after an orgasm, but hours later, I became very guilty, scared, and sad, and I still am (the ...

Should I give up my virginity as well be a FWB to a married man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

21 August 2015 (F) - I am a mid-20's non-religious virgin. There is no such thing as a romantic history for me, unless you count two short-term relationships. Both had ceased due to intimidation towards my career. STEM-related. No, I have never been in love. I r...

7 months later and sex is still painful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3361 days ago

21 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. Im 27 years old and newly married to a wonderful guy. My problem is that im terrified of having sex as its very painful. We both were virgins when we got married but we used to engage in a lot of foreplay when we were dating. We saw a ...

I really don't want to be the victim in this relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

21 August 2015 (F) - I have three questions to ask. Is it inappropriate to do anything sexual on a first date? Can a serious relationship be determined on a first date? Can anything serious come out of a relationship which was based on the foundation of sex? I ha...

Fiance on dating/sex website

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

20 August 2015 (F) - I have found out my partner is on a dating website well its more like a website for people to meet up and have sex. The thing is he's 24 and its for people over 40! I seen it on his emails and couldn't quite believe it (he uses my phone to ...

When he's had a few drinks he divulges far too much about our relationship to others. How do I respond to this disrespect?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

20 August 2015 (F) - Hi so I've been kinda "seeing" this man for a few months now, his a lot older than me, we are both single may I add, and at first it was just a friendship thing, we enjoyed each others company I'm not looking for a relationship. Then one night to...

My girlfriend of 7 months will not have sex nor let me see her naked

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

20 August 2015 (M) - My partner will not let me see her naked and as of yet we have not had any form of sexual contact and this is after us being together for over 7 months and each and everytime I try to talk to her about this she starts to cry and tells me that her ...

My boyfriend doesn't like to have sex with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

19 August 2015 (M) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now. At the beginning of the relationship I would try to initiate sex and he would push me away. I thought it was just down to him not being ready and didn't think much more of it. But months ...

I want to try again with my cheating ex fiance but something keeps stopping me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

19 August 2015 (F) - I want to try and move past my ex fiancée cheated on me while he was on his stag weekend, and maybe try and be a family again for our young child but every time he tries to kiss or cuddle me, I pull away. We had our child while we were still in...

Her hot temper leads to fights. So I asked another girl out. Can I continue like this or should I just walk away from my hot tempered original Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

19 August 2015 (M) - I am a teenage guy of 18 , currently I have a gf we have been together For over a year now. She's got all I want, but she has hot temper. We fight a lot of times and this make me think about our future. I decided to ask another girl out, the...

I really like this guy but dating him is turning into a nightmare because of his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3374 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Recently I have started seeing a guy who lives in my town. I moved here last summer, and I met him through a few of the people I have become friends with at my work place. I was instantly attracted to him when I first met him but at the time he h...

Sex went wrong with the guy. How do I let this not bother me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3374 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - So i met this guy out the other night and he seemed nice , so a few days later he took me out on a date and we got chatting and things started to go really well! A week later we met up again, and he invited me around his house so I went over and we ...

I'm a little uncomfortable with her fetish!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

17 August 2015 (M) - Hi there! i have just found somthing out about my girlfreind that i did not know. We have been together for going on six years now. sex has been good, just lately my missus(Sarah) has been having problems becoming aroused and sexually moist. And she ...

I'm freaking out about my boyfiend's gay fantasies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - My bf and I have recently been engaging in anal play during sex, and he really loves it. He recently confided in me that he has fantasies of being penetrated by a transgender person and he further confided that he would like to experience giving ...

My wife claims to be bisexual but I'm not sure. Does my wife owe me an explanation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

17 August 2015 (M) - Hi and thanks in advance for taking the time to read my question. I am a married man in my 30s. My wife is supposedly bi-sexual(although I have never seen evidence). When we first met we actively sought out single women to join us in the bedroom, ...

Could she be sleeping with other men, or intending to do so?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

16 August 2015 (M) - My long term friend with benefits recently told me that she needed some space, and she was emphatic that I respect her wishes. Here's the confusing part: we still have sex a couple of times a month, and when I do leave her alone she will reach out ...

Are her values too at variance with mine for me to consider an ''official'' relationship?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

16 August 2015 (M) - Hey, been courting/dating a girl for 4 months. Nothing to full on but we do have a sexual relationship, looks like things are on the way to being a "official" relationship. Just found out she had a one night stand before we met. (I'm not judging ...

Am I betraying my best friend by getting with a guy she slept with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - I really need some advice. I met this guy on a night out 7 months ago, we swapped numbers and started talking. Things got quite flirty, there were pictures exchanged and things like that. I told my best friend about this (who was also out that night ...

The sex is bad and he mistreats me. Walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - So, I have been seeing this guy he is really great we had our Rockey moments, the only thing is he has a really small penis It is about 2-3 inches. Him and I had sex once but it was really bad he was embarrassed, that his penis kept slipping out of ...

I've said something I regret, what do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

15 August 2015 (F) - Hi I am looking for quick advice about a problem with my boyfriend, I don't know what to do, I've said something to him that i regret and now he isn't speaking to me. I have had intimacy problems with my boyfriend because he is on medication wh...

How do I get my husband to love me again and want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

14 August 2015 (F) - okay so me and my old man have been togather for 2 yeARS and he hasnt been making love to me for the past 3-4 dAYS AND I DIDNT KNOW WHY well he was taking medicine and he was being mean to men for days and he asked me to last night but he couldnt ...

What kind of guy tries to get intimate on a first date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

14 August 2015 (F) - I recently met this guy some days back through a mutual friend and we had some chemistry. We went out and then I stayed over at his place because it was already too late to get to mine which is far. He tried to get intimate with me. I wanted it ...

Does he have a problem with my sexuality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

14 August 2015 (F) - Does my boyfriend have a problem with my sexuality? I think he might be jealous of my past encounters, he hasn't had many sexual experiences himself, and is insecure about sex and his own performance. We've had many arguments about sex before...

Does the length of the relationship mean its love or can it still be only about sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

13 August 2015 (F) - My 48yr. Husband of 15 years has been having problems obtaining and keeping and erection for the past year. Sometimes he gets and keeps it but then he can't orgasm. I figure its due to his age. So I have been understanding. But I over heard a phone ...

I don't feel special anymore ever since boyfriend and I have been talking about threesomes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

13 August 2015 (F) - Really need a lot of advice as there is no one I can talk to about this! My bf and I are happy and together 2yrs. We have a very active and great sex life. The best either of us experienced. We regularly do kinky stufr or I dress up etc. My bf has ...

Recent weight gain due to stressful job and an acne breakout! What should I say to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is essentially blaming me for his unhappiness with our relationship. He talked with me last night and nicely explained he is not been happy with our sex life. When I asked him why he hesitated but said he feels I haven't really been ...

My boyfriend says that he owns me and will say he wants to hurt me during sex. Is this the beginning of an abusive relationship?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend coming up for a year now. I'm 25 and he's 45. From the moment we met we got on great and always love being in each others company. But a few months ago I had a night out and he went very weird with me saying he didn't ...

He wanted to have sex without a condom and even lied saying he didn't have one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - I was seeing a guy for a few dates and i liked him a huge amount. We were getting along really well and I think he liked me a lot too. We started having sex fairly soon after meeting because we were drunk the first time we met, which sort of paved ...

Why does my partner never cum during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - ok. Here it goes, I guess my question is directed to men but anyone feel free to give advice. I have been dating and living with a man now for 2 years. he has always had a problem with not being able to cum during sex he can get it up just fine and ...

I think my boyfriend is cheating I am finding Viagara pills everywhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3381 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - Hi,this is not easy for me as im pritty sure my long term boyfriend of 15yrs is cheating,As i appreciate some men have difficulties and want to feel manly in the bedroom and if i didnt find it hid in all places,this time i found it behind my ...