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writes:I recently found out my girlfriend does handjobs for a living. She's a student and is allowed to work limited hours.The money is used to support herself and family.Should i accept it? Should I react to this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2015): If doing hand job for a living is the only job she can find what is next? If they pay her better will she do bl.w job too?
I would suggest you find yourself more respectful girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2015): Having paid for the odd massage with the so called "happy ending", I can tell you that it's not particularly erotic and as often as not the women are pretty clearly just doing their work. There's no passion, there's no attempt to make it special, and in fact they seem to expect you to be like a teenager and get off in seconds.
Up to you whether you can deal with it -- I completely understand that it's quite different than being a receptionist or dental hygenist. But don't imagine that she's getting off on it. I haven't come across one who does.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (30 August 2015):
 I don't think I could date someone who made a living this way. I know it's "not nice" of me, but I would not have a lot of faith that it doesn't go further than hand-jobs no matter what. I just can't see a prostitute (and that is what she is IMHO) living on giving hand-jobs only. But then again I don't know where she "works" - perhaps if it is a "massage parlor" it's possible. It's till prostitution.
And I can't see myself ever date a prostitute.
However, I suppose she's gotta do what she's gotta do.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (29 August 2015):
 SupaGinjaNinja
I am not asking you to accept it...I am simply saying...some people have to make scarifies the rest of us do not have to. So unless you are will to help get her out, do not judge what she has to do for the greater good.
I would have a hard time accepting too...don't get me wrong... If she is doing it truly to help her life and family, is one thing. If she does it for simple pleasure...then yes...game over.
If it just hand jobs with nothing else...I can handle that...if the good stuff is involved...no way.
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reader, SupaGinjaNinja +, writes (28 August 2015):
SupaGinjaNinja is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBrownwolf...I can understand it but to accept it is another!
The whole touching another dudes jingle jangles on a daily basis still gets to me..
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (28 August 2015):
If you are willing to support her enough to get her out of that life style, then do it.
If she is really doing it because she has come to like doing it, then get away.
Do not criticize someone's job for supporting their family unless you have a better job for them, or able to support them and their family. It may not be pretty and perfect as you would like...but it is a means to hopefully a better life after her studies where she never has to do that stuff again.
On a funny note...Give her a hand finding a better job :)
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