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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Recently I have started seeing a guy who lives in my town. I moved here last summer, and I met him through a few of the people I have become friends with at my work place. I was instantly attracted to him when I first met him but at the time he had a girlfriend. This particular night when I first met him, he ans.his girlfriend had a huge row in the pub Car park and she scratched his paint Work on his Car. I didn't see it happen but it was well known to of been her as plenty of others saw it. I had heard a month or so later they had broke up. Then at Christmas time, when I was Christmas shopping with one of the girls I had become friends with, we ended up meeting up with him as he was at the same place. He gave us a lift back once we had finished and during the ride my friend asked him if he had got * a present yet. I knew her name to be * after the night I first met him and I was surprised that they had got back together. I ended up meeting him a few times after that, and we always chatted, and he sometimes gave me a lift into work if he saw me walking towards my workplace. In March, they broke up again, another big fight. He told me that it was the last time this time. I had heard they had been like this for nearly 3 years, off/on/off/on.Then when it was my birthday in May, he came out with us. We had started to see each other loads and had shared a few kisses and on that night, we slept together. It wasn't meant to be anything more then a drunken one time thing but we have been together since, just like it was meant to happen. But now, his ex is constantly ringing him, texting, turning up at his house, the pub, anywhere. She claims she has proof he cheated on her with me but I know it's lies. Some of the friends I had made no longer talk to me, and only a few really do like proper friends. I'm nearly 100 miles from home, as I moved here to live with my sister so I could get a better job. I do really like this guy but it's turning into a nightmare. Suggestions?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 August 2015):
 The only person that can fix this is your boyfriend. He has to take control and block her and cut her off.
IF he does NOT do that.. and he "allows" her to call, text, visit etc.. then he is party to this behavior.
All he has to do is block and ignore her. He's NOT doing that so she's getting some feedback and will continue to do this as long as it benefits her.
what does HE say about it?
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