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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,this is not easy for me as im pritty sure my long term boyfriend of 15yrs is cheating,As i appreciate some men have difficulties and want to feel manly in the bedroom and if i didnt find it hid in all places,this time i found it behind my stepsons picture in his bedroom hes now just turned 15 and im not happy as i think hes going to great lengths to hide it,although i have found it lots of times his reply is he just likes taking it like i like wine???and he just takes it for us but i cant get my head round it as after i found it for the upteenth time and would be fine with him taking it if he had it in the bedroom draw but he wont,he continues to hide it,im really not the moaning type and try so hard to ignore it i cant coz as well as the viagra keep going when were not having sex and i find texts off a girl which he says is random and didnt reply i also pulled a blonde hair from hes back when i went to tickle him,hes so secretive with his phone to the point he keeps it in his pocket most of the time rearly will he leave it out,we breakup and make up alot because i feel threatened by this,im 38 hes 33 and i feel hes cheated all though the relationship even gave me an STI years ago,i just feel theres no other reason for taking it out with him or finding a half bitten ones in his coat pocket when i wasnt home and we didnt make love for a week or so after i found it ,he will not answer any of my questions when ask him why a half bitten one was in coat when we'd done nothing and i wasnt there,doesnt make sence.him cheating has alway been a problem.we mostly have sex in the morning when we wake up do cant see taking it before,plz help!!! feeling very worthless and confused.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (12 August 2015):
 Listen to your intuition, it is screaming at you!
You say cheating has always been a problem, so there you are, now all you have to do is decide if you are happy being with a serial cheater for the rest of your life or if you are going to take charge of your own life.
If you live together you may just have to keep quiet for a few months while you plan your exit strategy, but my advise is to get your stuff and leave him to it as soon as you can. That sort of crap is not good for your sense of self or well being.
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