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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

We broke up but when met up again and had sex. I'm confused about what he wants

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - I dumped my ex about three weeks ago. Let me tell you why, he started saying he doesn't know how much longer we would be together because he doesn't like being chained down all the time. I took that as him saying he wants to see other people. I ...

My face is attractive but I'm quite flabby and I'm worried girls would be put off

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - My question is the type usually asked by females, who are generally more unsecure about their bodies. Looking on the internet, it seems from the blogs discussing the male body part that females find attractive, it seems that the great majority o...

Can you get an STD if penis was only 1/2 covered by condom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - I will like to know if having sex and you found out that the condom is half way on your penis, can u get infected with std,std like that ...

Any and all advice on different things that would work for lovers with a height difference would be greatly appreciated.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, My boyfriend and I are high school sweethearts, we've been dating for over two years now and while we've gotten really physical, we haven't had sex yet, although we are ready to. We intend to soon - with protection, we are p...

Does anal bleaching cost alot of money?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - Hi this is for men and women to answer... I know other women have this.. Dark brown round their bum hole. I think mine is a bad case. Can men see this when having sex with a woman, does it put them off? Obviously it would have to be specific p...

I have strong feelings for my friend but am sexually restricted by my culture. What do her actions mean? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

30 July 2013 (M) - I am an Arab man (but also a Christian). The rules and traditions in my country told men to treat women except their wives as sisters (with no sexual feelings) and told women not to wear sexy clothes. Of course man and woman can do whatever...

I feel jealous because this guy gets a girl who is a virgin even though he probably is not one.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

30 July 2013 (M) - This question might sound childish but it has been on my mind for quite sometime. I was dating this girl for awhile and found out she is a virgin. Now that is not the problem because I am one too but about a month ago I found out she was actually ...

Stuck in an unhappy marriage. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

30 July 2013 (M) - Hi everyone, I've been married for over 15 years. For the most part it has been a good relationship. I've always been an easy going guy and not a lot rattles me, but over the course of the years I've really felt like I've taken it on the c...

Vvirginity! why does it matter ..... or not!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - I'm reading a few of the questions on here and I'm super intrigued (and angry) about males' obsession with a girl being a virgin? Like really? Why does it matter? I would honestly rather not be a virgin (when I get married). But that's just ...

After a night of passion he told me he isn't looking for a relationship but wants to continue meeting up for sex. I was embarrassed and hurt so I liead and said I wanted the same thing but I don't.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - I had a night of passion with a regular in the bar where i work. He is very nice and i really liked him. Then i met him again twice more. Im so embarassed because he said to me this morning that he hopes i dont expect anyting from him as he doesnt ...

I feel like I'm falling for my best friend but I'm worried about pushing him away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - i feel like i am seriously falling for my best friend. this is very confusing to me, though not really because i guess it kind of makes sense. we seem to be perfect for one another but i think we are both afraid to make any initial steps into doing ...

I'd like to get married one day but since my stepsister died from HIV I have been terrified of men and dating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

29 July 2013 (?) - I would like to get married again but I am afraid of all the diseases out there. My stepsister was a nice person with two kids and when she came up to visit she seemed really happy and was going back to school. She stayed not to far from my dad's ...

My boyfriend has a squirting fixation and makes me feel inadequate because I can't do it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - Sorry to be vulgar, but I am experiencing a bit of tension in my relationship because I am not meeting my partner's expectations. I am his first, and he has a "squirting" fixation... before we got together, he actually did not know it was poss...

Should I tell the guy I'm seeing that I slept with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

28 July 2013 (?) - Hi, Dated a guy a few months back who left me for someone that he met on a business trip. However, he didnt just tell me straight out he made up some excuse that he didnt love me abd wanted to make sure he had found the right person before se...

I suck at riding my man. Can someone explain the motion to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

28 July 2013 (F) - Every time I try to have sex in the woman on top position it feels awkward. I feel like I'm not moving properly and it doesn't feel good for my boyfriend. I tried to watch porn videos and read about it to learn how to move but it's not helpful. ...

I only want to date men, so why am I becoming addicted to lesbian porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I have this problem I am 100% straight I know this because I date only guys and I am attracted to only guys, yeah everyone dreams of a model body and I am rather insecure sometimes. But my issue is I am worth lesbian porn quite alot recently and ...

After losing my virginity to an escort I am left wondering if sex is overrated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

27 July 2013 (M) - Hi all, I just wanted to confess that I had just lost my virginity to an escort. She came to my place and had arranged a 1 hour session. To my surprise, I didn't couldn't stay fully erect all the time. I thought I would finish very quickly beca...

Is is wrong to have sex with my ex husband's best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - So me my now ex husband and our best Male friend and his now ex wife,have all been friends for many years. me and my ex husband were married for 5 years and my friend and his wife where married for 7 years.. my birthday recently passed and my ...

I want him to be more passionate, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3903 days ago

27 July 2013 (?) - I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for two months. We just had sex for the first time last weekend. The problem is he is very shy and pretty conservative and I wish he would come out of his shell. I can be sexually aggressive sometimes and I ...

Thoughts on losing virginity to a ''friend with benefits''

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Ok so, this might sound really childish and terrible but I honestly have NO idea what to do and since the whole topic and question in hand is on my head I need help with the answer: Ive been in a ''Friends With Benefits'' relationship for about a ...

I think about sex too much with younger good looking men

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (?) - I have been divorced for some years now and I have never thought about sex so much. Last year I had major surgery and I think that played a part in how I feel now. When I joined a dating site I got guys telling me how sexy I am and I even had phone ...

After a month boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't think I'm ready yet

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - Ok, i have known my boyfriend for a month now he wants to have sex in a way i do too but then i realize im not ready. What should i do?...

Why does my boyfriend have trouble keeping his erection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - Sometimes when my boyfriend and I are having sex, he has trouble maintaining his erection. The other day, he went soft while I was on top. So I decided to give him oral, and he had no problem getting hard again and then reaching climax. This has ...

He told me she was only a friend then later admits that he had sex with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3903 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - i met a boy via social network some 9 months ago, we became friend,then he proposed me, though at first i was negative,we met and i started liking or loving him..he told me about his past relationships including that one with one of his junior, ...

Am I a lesbian if I watch lesbian porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - i have been married for 20 years now. i find that i now like to masturbate watching lesbian porn. i especially like seeing another woman licking another woman's pantiei. when my husband and i watch lesbian porn together I want him to give me ...

Is my partner using sex or lack of it as some sort of control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4142 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - My partner of 2 years hardly ever wants sex with me. When we first got together he wanted it 2-3 times a day which I was fine with as it was good. Now it's more like 2 times a week and its always the same. I've suggested different things - but he ...

How do I stop myself from being angry when my fiance rejects my sexual advances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - How do I stop myself from being angry when my fiance rejects my sexual advances? I am a very attractive woman in my mid 20s, my fiance (who is six years older than I) and I have been together for two years. He regularly rejects my sexual advanc...

Is my Ex sleeping with his family that's why he can't be in a real relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid , I love my ex with all that I am made of but we went our own ways do to a lot of cheating ,fighting,and arguring.But there is one thing that I am very puzzled about I don't want to think like this but I believe his entire family ...

Does chronic depression affect a man's erection and sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

24 July 2013 (M) - Could my sexual dysfunction caused by low grade , chronic, depression? I have a very damaged sexual function, and my life is deeply effected by it. My wife is thinking about living me, because she feels,Im not attracted to her anymore, and she is ...

Why do I like the idea of degrading sexual acts? And how could I possibly encourage Mr. Vanilla to participate in them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - I'm so in love with him; we've been together for two years and our romance is great, our sex isn't. I've never climaxed with any partner and I'm afraid I know why, I think I like the darker side of sex, though I've never tried it. The guy I'm with, ...

How do I know when its safe to have sex with hpv?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

24 July 2013 (M) - How do I go about having sex with another women, I have found out I caught hpv from a women little over a year ago, amild case of it. But they say condoms don't help, you can get it from oral sex, they say it goes dorment any where from six months ...

Should I be the one to bring up sex first in our relationship, or should he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - It about 3 months i started dating my bf and he has never raised an issue on sex but i want us to talk about sex so that i can tell him my opinion on sex in a relationship and know his opinion to,should i be the one to bring up the topic or shud i ...

Sex has got rough since we have got closer. Why is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - Dear all. Your views would be much appreciated. My bf and I have had a pretty turbulent relationship over the last two years. I was ready to leave a few months back,and since then, his behaviour had changed towards me in a good way. He now treats ...

Should I fake it till I make it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - i need advice-should i fake it til i make it? been with my fiance 3yrs and we had our first baby 6 months ago. at first, we maintained our sex life (i didn't want intercourse as i was scared it would hurt, but enjoyed giving him bjs). but then on ...

What do guys visualise during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - Hi just a quick qn about men and sex! Sorry if its crude :-) Sometimes when I have sex with my boyfriend and he is behind me doing all the work doggy style I look back and he has his eyes open. Then when I am on top doing the work he keeps hi...

I'm worried about her and want to know that she's ok but not sure how to go about contacting her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4147 days ago

22 July 2013 (M) - It's a long story, but I met someone about a year ago through a social group for people with anxiety issues. Due to some commonalities in our lives and situations we bonded and got very close very quickly. She has had bad luck with men. She's in her ...

Is a threesome a good idea? Should I delay decision making, until I return in a month?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles :) I'll start with a bit of back story first. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years now and we believe we are in a strong relationship. We've been through a lot what with family death and serious fall outs be...

Married for 32 years and she's never given me oral sex. Will I die never knowing what it's like?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

21 July 2013 (M) - I am 56 yrs old, sitting here late at night ready to cry - in that I have known my wife (55) for 35 yrs., married for 32, with 3 grown children and 2 grandchildren - and through all these years, she has never given me oral sex. I made some subtle ...

Can a relationship survive or be strong when sex is not involved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - Whats your opinion....can a relationship survive or be strong when sex is not involved?...am asking cos i dont wish to have sex until i get married.thanks...

After our weekend away together, my boyfriend called me a slut and a whore and said I never leave him alone.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I am in LDR now with my bf of 4 years. We went for a trip few days ago as we didn't meet for few months. As far as i could see the trip was great and fun. We came back to our respective cities. I called him next day, he sounded ok, but ...

I've never been able to achieve orgasm through penetration.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - Hi, I need some helpful advice please??! Here's the low down... I've been sexually active for 12 years now and have never had an orgasm via penetrative sex. Oral and hands I'm fine with... I can reach clitoral orgasms just fine ( thank...

Tired of one night stands -- am I being an idiot?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 July 2013 (M) - I came out of a relationship a while ago and since then, i have been going on at least 2 dates each week and sleeping with the girls the first night. I never stayed in touch with them and thought being single was great. Last week i was at a bar w...

Sexually Incompatible Couples

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19 July 2013 (M) - Sexually Incompatible Couples Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship. However, couples who love each other dearly and connect on so many levels, but whom are sexually incompatible tend to find that sex can be at the core of a numb...

He woke me up and used the "two minute blow-up doll" method.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

19 July 2013 (F) - So Im really mad right now. My husband and I dont have sex often ( maybe twice a week if that- NOT by my choice ( he gets mad if I complain or ask for 3-4 times a week.) So its almost 4 am. He woke me up around three ready to go. I was sound asleep ...

I'm wondering if girlfriend was a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

19 July 2013 (M) - hello dear aunts, I have recently start dating this girl, she has just turned 21. she recently confessed she was a virgin when we did it for the first time, however I've been skeptical. (sorry for being graphic) I gave her oral a few times, only ...

I am new to having sex but am worried something is wrong. I feel like I could pass out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

19 July 2013 (F) - i need some help. i had sex for the first time about two days ago. yeah i was nervous but also very comfortable since it was with my boyfriend who i love very much, and he also helped me feel comfortable. what i dont understand it right when i ...

My girlfriend no longer wants to date or hang out, just wants sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

18 July 2013 (M) - I have a problem that really shouldn't be a problem for a guy of my age. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months we had intercourse about 1 month ago. Up until that point our relationship had been great we were very affectionate and ...

My American wife green eyes scare me during sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

18 July 2013 (M) - I'm Pakistan and two months back I came to US on fiance visa to marry my American Fiance whom I met through internet. We got married one month ago. I'm 33 and my wife is 34. She is beautiful, caring and loving. I have been confronting a very strange ...

Girlfriend takes medication for depression and is no longer into sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - just a quick question. my girlfriend is on zoloft for depression and it's really effecting her sex drive. before the medication, our sex was incredible. it was all the time and extremely good! now she's not interested in sex, and when we have it, ...

I want to give my boyfriend the best blow job in the morning, any tips how can I start?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - Okay, so my boyfriend always tell me that It would be great if I give him a bj in the morning. But can anyone tell me how will I start? I'm afraid that when I start it in the morning he will stop me because he is still sleepy or not in the mood, you ...