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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

A very successful experiment with anal, and I want to make sure I continue to get it right

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

31 May 2012 (?) - Um, kind of embarassing, but I've just had a totally new sexual experience that's blown my mind, and would appreciate some opinions from those with experience. Basically, my wife and I just had anal sex for the first time, and she squirted. A lot...

My ex told me I could either tell the guy myself or he would send the picture.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - So I made a horrible decision to have intercourse with my ex...for the last time like 3 days ago..after I met a new guy. My ex was stupid and took pictures of me. He then later found out that I was talking to this new guy. So now he said he's going ...

Can I get a STD infection from having sex with 3 clean guys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I had sex with three guys unprotected the past 3 days drunk. I know they're all clean since I know all of them. My question is even though they're clean, can I contract a std from bodily fluid with 3 different guys in a short period of time. or some ...

How to explain lack of relationship experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - 30-year-old male who, due to many factors, has been pretty far behind the curve when it comes to relationships and sex. I didn't date in any form for most of my 20s due to personal issues. I've managed to turn things around a bit these past two ...

I recently lost my virginity, when will sex stop hurting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - hi i just lost my virginty a few days ago , but it pained alot ,and couldnt even let him enter me fully . i am soo confused is this normal? how long does it take for me not to feel any pain ? and when will i get something out of it ,and i never bl...

I don't think I've had an Orgasm yet. But what can I do about my more urgent problem? During and after sex? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I am a 21 yo girl and do not think i have ever had the big O. When my boyfriend goes down on me i often always have the sensation of peeing when i do not have to or have nothing to pee out. However, I have a had an accident or two when the "pee...

Do some women like rough sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - Few days back I was watching a adult movie with my wife. There was a rape scene. After the movie my wife wanted to rewind and see the scene again and she saw that again. How come a Rape which is supposed to be a disgusting act can be stimulating. Ok ...

Is he in love with me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I need some advice badly. My boyfriend was very sexualy active with me when we got together, we held hand, hugged all the time, kissed all the time. all the things that lovers do, in the begining, but There a side to this, when we got together I was ...

Looking at live people online having sex is wrong, but seeing naked girls dance and grind on men is ok?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Ok, So I was on here yesterday and saw a question about a girl who's boyfriend was looking at online porn chat shows. Almost everyone replied and said that he was wrong and that isn't appropriate in a relationship; that he was taking it a step too ...

What is the "deep-stick" position?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - I met a girl on an dating club and her profile states that she loves the deepstick position and I don't have an idea of how this position looks like or how it works and I don't want to ask her. I need to know before we get to it. ...

My ex and I keep arguing and then making up with sex. Would this work in a marriage?

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30 May 2012 (M) - Am been for this relationship for more than 3 years,..but recently, after having sex, I always find one way or the other to have a misunderstanding with her , or she having a mis understanding with me., we quarrel for up to 1 week, then we make up ...

In a very roundabout way - was this an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I'm 18 and my current bf is 19. We've been together 1 month (have known each other longer) and are about to move onto having sex together for the first time. (Skip this next part to actually get to the question, I'm sorry, I'm rambling!) Anyway...

Subtle ways needed. Is there a way of bringing him round to my wish for slow lovemaking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I am very happy in my relationship. My partner and I enjoy our time together and have regular sex. But the problem is, it's always hard, fast sex, if you know what I mean! It's good and he drives me wild but sometimes I just want to 'make love' as...

Am I right to be upset with my boyfriend for masturbating 3 times a week when we only have sex once or twice a week?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Is it normal for a guy to masterbate 3 times a week even tho he has a girlfriend? And say your having sex once maybe twice a week. Does the girlfriend have a right to upset with him? ...

Do guys my age automatically expect sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hey there! So, I'm 18 and I'm getting ready to head off to college soon. Like most kids (I guess some would consider me a "young adult"?) my age, I've been pondering the possibilities of what the future might bring. This includes relationships and ...

Bleeding after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - What maybe the problem when after making love you experience spots of blood on your pants....i mean me and my boyfriend having been havin sex and evrything was just great until last month when we had sex when i got @ home i was bleeding as like if i ...

Has anyone else changed their mind about masturbation being dirty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - When I was a little younger (early/mid teens) I used to think masturbation was really dirty for girls and I swore never to do it. Now I'm 18 and my views have changed quite a bit. I don't think it's dirty anymore but I only do it rarely and I was wo...

We've been dating for 3 days and b/f already wants sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating since the 26th of May and he is already ready to have sex. He told me he didn't want to have sex and then leave me. He never lied to me before and we we're the best of friends before this. What should I do? I ...

Guys, do you like it when your significant other makes noises in bed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I guess this is a question mostly for men, but female input would be appreciated too, especially what your partners think. Basically - guys, do you like it when your significant other makes noises in bed? I'm not talking porn star scale, but when...

Should I stay in this sexless relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4550 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend of 9 years and we have a 5 month old baby. We also haven't had sex since I was about 6 months pregnant making it 8-9 months total with no intimacy excluding greeting hugs and kisses. While pregnant he said he wanted to ...

He says he doesn't mind my moans but it embarrasses me later!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - When I orgasm from having sex with my man, I cant help but moan quite loud. I know he likes it but it kind of embaresses me when I think about it afterwards. So Ive tried to stop it but I just cant. I also dig my nails into him so hard that Ive ...

How long is great sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - how long should be great sex? thank you...

Confused by this guy's behaviour, especially in the bedroom. Does he not fancy me? Why is he saying these things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy who does not live in my country. We have had dinner dates and I like to take my time to get to know someone and build a relationship before I go to bed. Anyway when I did go to bed with him, we did not have condom so I...

How do I tell my boyfriend I don't want to send him pictures of myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - So me and my boyfriend for 4 months recently had sex and he wants it a lot now. Like he wants me to send him pictures and everything. I told him I'm not his personal playboy and he got upset. I'm a sweet girl and hate seeing him upset. But I don't ...

Someone help me with talking dirty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Someone help me with talking dirty? Me and my boyfriend were in an intense makeout session before and he wanted me to talk dirty to him. I didn't know what to say so I panicked an pretended that I had to go. I don't know what to say and he's a year ...

What can I do to bring our once vibrant funfilled, loving, affectionate relationship back to life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I am twenty seven and have been with a man 22yrs my senior for three years, i feel like i'm no longer what he desires or is interested in.. We dont conversate and our sex life has nearly stopped. What can i do to bring our once vibrant funfilled, ...

My b/f can't make me orgasm but I don't want to feel like I have to educate him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I have no problem making myself climax when I masturbate and i've had plenty of orgasms thru oral sex with previous bfs but, for some reason, my current bf just can't make me cum. It's frustating although i don't make it a big deal as I know he's ...

Still a Virgin at 28 years old and I want to get rid of it.

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I'm an attractive educated female and I'm about to turn 29 years old and I haven't had sex yet. Don't get me wrong, I've done everything but get penetrated. I was waiting till marriage but I have no prospects and I don't want this to be a problem ...

My mistress asked me to 'make love' to her. What does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - I am single and I have been having an affair with a married woman for about 6 months now. She is very sexually adventurous, encouraging me to take her any way I want her. Sometimes we dress up and do roleplay. We just thoroughly enjoy sex with eac...

Everything goes great -- until the condom comes out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - Hi there. I'm writing this today because I'm experiencing an issue that (apparently, judging by numerous Google searches) many young guys face. I've been dating a wonderful girl for over 8 months now, and it is a committed and loving relationship ...

He doesn't seem teachable. Should I just fake it and take care of myself?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Last night my bf and i were talking and i told him that we need to incorporate more foreplay in our love making. More blowjobs, touching, stimulation, etc. He told me he noticed how i wasnt as into sex and i told him it was because i am usually not ...

Should Pre-marital sex be avoided?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - What do you think of a culture which doesn't support pre-marital sex? I am from India. Here pre-marital sex is frowned upon. My first sexual experience was with my wife at the age of 32. Don't you think I lost some of the precious moments of life?...

Is this relationship just about the sex? Why is he distancing himself from me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - A few weeks ago me and my boyfriend of 5 months broke up, this was the 2nd time and both times I have ended the relationship. The times I ended it was because I felt he was being far too selfish and also trying to push my buttons to evoke an ...

Partner doesn't think of me during masturbation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Hi, this question is for women and men, would it bother you if your partner only thought about you briefly or sometimes not at all during masturbation at the start of a relationship? For some reason it bothers me, I would wonder why they hardly ...

How can I feel an orgasm during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4551 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I know that after I orgasm from doing it myself I have to go pee, but when me and my boyfriend have sex i don't feel my orgasm but I know i had one because I have to go pee. To me it doesn't make since because when I do it to myself i feel it but ...

She had 2 glasses of wine with me and then because of her diabetes she had to go to hospital! I'm worried she will think I took advantage because we had sex before she went to hospital....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - So I have a real problem I think ill make this as short as possible...I met a diabetic girl online 3 Weeks ago, after talking for 2 of those Weeks we meet up 3 days in a row, all the while each night we are being intimate, not intercourse, just ...

My fiance says my penis is too small! Is she saying this for attention? Or is she just trying to make me mad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - Hello everyone I am at my wits end and I know most of you will tell me to move on but I am not looking for reasons to leave my fiancé I am seeking help and advice for my problems My fiancé thinks my penis is too small and thin to give her any ...

Irritable girlfriend causing problems, and the lack of sex is driving me mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4548 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - I've been with my current girlfriend for almost 18 months. Her periods have usually been light to moderate in the mood swings and hormonal roller coaster. But two issues have come up. 1- When she is away and on her period it is a nightmare. Briefly, ...

Ex doesn't want to have sex with me because he's afraid he will develop feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4551 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - On another note, Im a junior and my ex is a college freshman. Me and my ex were together for 2 years and 4 months. I broke it off and went with some other guy out of revenge for the way he treated me in the relationship. He would always be smoking ...

We tried having sex, couldn't do it and now he's being really weird and blunt with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - I am 16 and have really liked a guy for 7 months now and I got the feeling he liked me too (we're both quite shy so nothings happened) but last night he invited me round his for the first time and we were having a really nice time and got on really ...

Is ths sound normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4552 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I were having sex, and then she stopped me. There was this sound inside of her. Its that kind of sound when you rub two balloons against each other. She was complaining that it was hurting. That pain lasted for a while. is that ...

Is there a chance that a virgin won't bleed on her first sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - I just had sex with a girl, younger than my age. She claims that she has never done anything like that before and was REALLY innocent on our first try, so do I. I know nothing in making a distinction between the virgin one and the experienced one. ...

Need some info and insight about having sex on a girl's period. Help?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - I'm in a real pickle about this one. My current girlfriend and I trust each other enough to have unprotected sex, and of course I get that feeling that I want to cum inside of her, although I can always control that urge. Me and her were talking ...

My fiance likes to act out that I'm a virgin and he's dominating me when we have sex. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - Most of the times that my fiance Nd I have sex he plays out me to be a virgin and that his taking over me and he says things such as, ( no one can hear you, can you feel that pressure while its ripping your thinght virgin p***y.) Or he covers my ...

Girl on top. How is it done without being totally awkward?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - Ok, so I recently had my first time, but it hurt a lot, so I did some research and got some advice to try me on top next time. Only problem is, it seems like a really awkward position... But I'm sure you Aunts can help explain this to me so i...

How should I trim my pubic hair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - I'm 16 years old. How should I trim my pubic hair? Please help :)...

Are sex and a relationship different or the same thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - I just want to know what guys think of this... Are sex and a relationship different or the same thing for you as a man? Which one do you usually choose and can you tell us why? ...

Casual relationship with friend/roommate has become more for me but I don't know how to tell her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - I'm in a situation that I am very confused and emotionally frustrated about. At the beginning of the year I moved in to an apartment with one of my best friends (who is female). For awhile things were going as a normal roommate situation would... ...

I don't know the difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal one

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - This is a sex problem and I really don't want to be graphic but I need help all the same. I hope the moderators won't censor my question. I don't know the difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal one. Whenever I've had orgasms from sex...

His penis is too big!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - Im seeing this guy for a few months. He has 8 inches, and says that he is being very gentle with me. This one time we had sex it hurt so bad, that I had lingering pain for 6 days, took painkillers. He said that was going about half as hard as he ...