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writes:When I orgasm from having sex with my man, I cant help but moan quite loud. I know he likes it but it kind of embaresses me when I think about it afterwards. So Ive tried to stop it but I just cant. I also dig my nails into him so hard that Ive drawn blood before. He doesnt mind but it really embaresses me after. What can I do.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (29 May 2012):
 You are giving him a huge ego boost. Sincere noises are amazing positive and immediate feedback -- you're telling him in no uncertain terms that what he's doing is working for you. It just doesn't get any better than that.
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reader, xxbabyxmamaxx  +, writes (29 May 2012):
If he is into it then keep doing it. I know my boyfriend loves when you dig into his back it turns him on, and he loves when you moan too because that turns him on more.. but you can't help you moan and if he loves you he'd love that you moan. don't be embarassed there is nothing to be embarassed about, really. i do it all the time and if my boyfriend loves me he will love that i moan because he is amazing(:
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (29 May 2012):
 If he's into it, then the only person lessening the fun of the sex you're having is YOU. Let go of your embarrassment and just enjoy the sex! He clearly is, so join him in the jubilee. You sound perfectly normal to me! And hey, if you don't want to draw blood, then grab onto a pillow instead, or have him wear a t-shirt and just grab onto that. Good luck and just enjoy it, sister! You're having great sex! Cherish that... relish it... and let go of the shame!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 May 2012):
 you can stop being embarrassed.... he likes it... it's normal...
what is so embarrassing about it? Do other folks overhear you? that would embarrass me too. IF no one else can hear you, then what's the problem?
You don't list your age and that too would help me to better advise you... since the advice to an 18 yr old would be different than to a 48 yr old.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2012): 0_o Wow, I literally just asked a similar question about five minutes ago.
So I'm probably not the best person to go to for an answer, but I think it might be best to let go and have fun rather than draw blood. Maybe if you sat down with him properly and had a chat (not just before you have sex and are too distracted) but maybe at breakfast, and explain to him that it's genuinely getting you down and you'd like some reassurance about it.
Alternatively you could express it in a different way. Maybe by saying his name in his ear or grabbing the bedsheets/headboard.
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