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Confused by this guy's behaviour, especially in the bedroom. Does he not fancy me? Why is he saying these things?

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Question - (29 May 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2012)
A female Brazil age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have been seeing this guy who does not live in my country. We have had dinner dates and I like to take my time to get to know someone and build a relationship before I go to bed.

Anyway when I did go to bed with him, we did not have condom so I did not want intercourse. So he ejaculated on me.

I saw him again and we had condom but he preferred to ejaculate outside, (this behaviour seems odd to me), I asked why he preferred that and he replied that it is a habit and he has been doing it to years due to sometimes lack of relationship so his relationship with his right is great.

He also said that I was a wild animal as a joke and that I was too hot for him to handle and too sexy.

I told him that he should be happy and stop complaining.

I also love lots of cuddles and kissing and he said he is not used to it.

Is it true what he said or does he not fancy me. He has been trying to get me into bed for the last 12 months and we were in bed he said I was too hot and sexy. Why??? By the way he invited me to his country, so perhaps he likes me, I am confused.

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A female reader, Candycane1234 United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2012):

Candycane1234 agony auntHe could just be after sex, ejaculating inside you might be too intimate for him and the enjoyment of ejaculating on you might be because he' seen it in those films....

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (29 May 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntWhat he has, effectively, "told" you is that you are HOT and that he likes to have s*x with you.....

Beyond that, you're submittal offers no other information about what this guy thinks.....

You MIGHT find it interesting to speak to him about you and him, sometime, somewhere besides in a bedroom.....

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (29 May 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntTalk to him about your concerns. At the end of the day all men are different, he may like you but his lack of intimacy regarding kissing and cuddling could just be the fact that he is not in to it. Also when it comes to ejaculating outside of intercourse again this could be just what he is used to, I know a few people who like to do the same thing so if I where you I would not take it to personal.

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