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anonymous
writes:Hello everyone I am at my wits end and I know most of you will tell me to move on but I am not looking for reasons to leave my fiancé I am seeking help and advice for my problems My fiancé thinks my penis is too small and thin to give her any type of pleasure and that she fakes pleasure everytime we have sex. She had a one night stand and she said that was the most amazing sex she ever had but what I don't get is that even before she had the one night stand( we were broken up at the time she had her ONS) She would moan and scream out "I love your d**k"And during the summer she would moan and claw at my back and kiss me while having sex and yet she says I am too small to satisfy her.The only time it seems to me that I don't give her pleasure is when spooning she doesn't moan or scream she just gets bored and tells me to hurry up and finish unless I go very hard and fast she moans and says my name. My size is about 5' in length I am a bit on the heavy side so my layer of fat covers about an inch in length so truthfully it's 6' and yet she thinks I am below averageI need help understanding her I really don't get why is she doing this for attention? Or does she love seeing me mad?(she likes that and does so on a daily basis)Please help
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 May 2012):
 Well, let's look at it from her perspective. She can stay with you as you are, or she can leave you, but she isn't entitled to have one night stands or sex on the side with somebody else.
I agree that you would be better off alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2012): From a guy with your exact sime dick dimensiond, there's absloutely nothing "too small" or "abnormal" or anything else.
"Fiancee" sounds like a sick, twisted psycho female canine looking to exert control over you any way she can.
Dump her now, if this is any example she will stop at nothing to make your life a living hell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2012): That's some twisted shit she is doing to you. She is definitely trying to hurt you with her words.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (28 May 2012):
 Have you ever asked her why she says such hurtful things about the man she supposedly wants to marry?
I dont know why she would say such things - you have a perfectly normal sized penis, in fact it probably is a bit bigger than average so to most girls, you would be more than enough size wise.
For any person to say to someone who they supposedly love that their penis is too small and they had the best sex of their life with someone else is just awful. In my honest opinion she lacks a heart and is just a spiteful, hurtful little girl who enjoys trampling all over your feelings.
I know you dont want to leave her, so clearly you enjoy being with a hurtful person and are too weak to stand up to this bully. I actually think she is a bully - someone who enjoys making other people feel small, hurting other people so she feels strong. I think she enjoys hurting you because it damages your self esteem, and if you have a low self esteem you will never leave her. She knows you are weak and will put up with her abuse - there you go, the correct term for this is emotional abuse.
If she enjoys making you mad on a daily basis, and insults the size of your penis frequently then this is 100% emotional abuse.
The question now is, when are you going to wake up and realise that you deserve more than this? When are you going to realise that this is not a happy relationship? When you are you going to realise that if you marry this abusive girl the rest of your life will be as miserable as this?
You have a lot of thinking to do - but you really need to talk to her, stand up to her and stop being a doormat. If she doesnt care that she is hurting you, then you have your answer - she doesnt love you. If she truly loved you she wouldnt hurt you, so if you tell her how hurt you are and she doesnt stop, well she doesnt love you - do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who doesnt love you?
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2012): Why is she your fiancé,I know you say you are not looking for advice to leave her but maybe that is the answer you don't want to see. Getting married is only going to make your problem worse,please do not get her pregnant and have a child come into the world in this mess. She is only doi g to you what you are allowing her to do,you are going to end up an abused husband and if she does not care about your feelings now when is she going to start,when you have covered another two inches of your penis with belly fat,think about marring this girl real hard,don't waste your youth on someone who in the end do not care how theirs words hurt you,good luck
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