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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I feel awful because he has slept with a lot more people than I have.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a much older man. I am 28, and he is 48. We have been together for six months. He told me yesterday that he has slept with about 35 people!. Do you think that's a lot, even for someone his age?. I lost my virginity to him, ...

My boyfriend is jealous of something that didn't happen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I started "talking" in February and we recently started dating like 2 weeks ago. I'm 16 and he's 19. He's always been reallyyyyy sensative, and sometimes its really annoying and other times its cute. Like when we first ...

He can't understand I am grieving and sex is the last thing on my mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - The past six months my Grandfather has been fighting a deadly diease. I was there with him. First 4 months he was at home, so I took the role of nursing him completely. Past 2 months he has been in hospice, and it has been the HARDEST journey for ...

I kissed a female friend and am now questioning the future I thought I had

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 8 years. We just got engage last year; however our relationship have always been a roller coaster. We have a lot of problems; mainly trust issues. I have found condom with him on several occasions, and his ...

He is so selfish during sex I was nearly crying!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I need help! My boyfriend is so selfish in the bedroom, we acctually end up arguing. He is my first sexual partner, I always do everything for him. We normally start kissing then go straight to having sex, and sometimes he goes so deep it hurts my ...

I have a fear of people being sexually better than me, in my boyfriend's eyes in terms of attractiveness and performance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I have an odd fear. I wonder if anyone else has it. I have a fear of people being sexually better than me, in my boyfriend's eyes in terms of attractiveness and performance. I found out my boyfriend had been using porn and it played on ...

I don't want be pushy for sex, but I also don't want her to think I don't want her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4518 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - dear cupid... i am 18 years old and i am dating with a girl for about 3 months. we love each other madly but we both are virgins so when any of our conversations tends to have a sexual content, we both feel awkward and stop ... until now, we have ...

I really want to sleep with him, but I'm terrified of the pain when he breaks my hymen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I've been with my guy for a while now,I really love him and really want to have sex,but I'm a virgin and the thought of my hymen breaking makes me literally sick.But on the otherhand when im with him..anytime at all I want it soo much.When were ...

I want to know how to keep our sex life spicy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I are not engaging in penetrative sex, until we are ready to it. I want to know what more we can do, at the moment, we kiss, she humps on me, I give her oral whilst she lies down to climax, she gives me hand pleasure to clim...

She goes weeks without touching me but promises me we'll have plenty of sex once married

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for a 1.5 years and we are compatible in almost every way. Both of us are in our early 30's. My sex drive is still very high and I always want some no matter how tired or overworked I am. I am agnostic and she...

Why do guys get mad when we girls have sex with other men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - why do guys gets upset if we sleep with other men , even though we aren't in dating period. My guy friend get paranoid if by mistake or any chance I sleep with another guy . We both love each other a lot but we have no future together....

Should I perform oral sex on my B/f just to make him happy? Or should he respect my decision and not make me feel bad for not doing it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - My long distance boyfriend keeps asking me to perform oral sex on him. We have had numerous discussions sometimes resulting in arguments in which I explain that I'm not comfortable doing so and he tells me it would make him happy so I should. Before ...

I just want sex from him, so he cut me off. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hello. I'm in a really tough situation. I have been in a committed relationship for 4 years, but there has been no sexual chemistry for a year due to health problems. I finally got tired of not being satisfied so 2 months ago things got pretty ...

We've been dating 6 years and have never had sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - i am a 24 years old virgin going out with a guy for over six years now,though we do kiss nd do some other thing,but not to have sex,but sometimes i feel pity for him just because of his patience with me.what should i do,cos i dont want to have sex ...

If I am resigned to a lousy love life but otherwise a good relationship is that worth hanging onto?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - Dear Aunts, I am more in love with my current girlfriend of 5 years than I have been with any other woman, but she is a sexual dead fish. She does not enjoy sex with me and she won't work with me to improve it. Quite frankly, I think she i...

Boyfriend is below average, so - does size really matter?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Here's the deal. My boyfriend (whom I love very much and plan on spending my life with) is on the small size. And by small size...I mean a good deal below average (both in length and girth). And I realize that this probably shouldn't bother me, but ...

My sex drive has finished after a breakup, is that normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - hey me and my girlfriend split up about 4 months ago now I'm pretty good with it not 100 percent but I'm pretty happy,rediscovered my self identity etc.anyway my labido/sex drive has pretty much vanished,i literally don't have one anymore...is that ...

My boyfriend doesn't want sex, I don't know what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - I know I'm too young... But my boyfriend is making it very difficult to control myself. Yesterday I walked over to his house, and I noticed that no one was home. So we started making out on his couch, but I thought that was just going to be it, ...

How small is too small in the penis department?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Hi there Me and my gf are getting to the point where sex is the next move and I am not to worried about it I will do my best but I was just wondering Because she likes big penises she told me and I'm not to bad in that department but how how smal...

Is it ok to only want sex?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Is it ok to only want sex? I mean I see that women are often irritated because the new guy they just met only seems to be interested in sex. What's wrong with that? ...

Is it wrong for a guy to have slept with only one girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Hello everyone, I don't know if Im being paranoid by asking this question. Well, is it wrong for a guy to have slept with only one girl? Because when my friends talk or having conversations, they boast or brag about having sex with four or more ...

I cheated on him and now he has cheated on me, I feel alone and sad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - We are in a relationship living together with one daughter. Known him for six years now. Together for about five of them. Idk where to start my question I guess I feel trapped , and alone. I cheated on him and our cheating/decieveing issues goes way ...

After five years we just don't talk about 'us' anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Hello. This may become a bit longer post, I am sorry for this. Help is needed because I'm 26, and I must start to figure out what I'm gonna do with my personal life If I am to do anything at all. Excuse my bad english. Five years ago I had a cl...

I feel a fool for hooking up with somebody who only wants sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Me and this guy had been talking for 6 months online (I'm english, he is german) we eventually meet up and we end up sleeping together. Big BIG mistake. We were on different wave lengths in regards to what was happening, I thought we were going to ...

We never have any time to ourselves and I am desperate for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Hey what's goin on. I need a bit of advice. I'm in a relationship with a little more of a couple years and a half. We both are 18 "high school sweethearts" you may think. But I was wondering if it's normal for an 18 year old to have urges and ...

I feel like it's a bad idea but ......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - ok I have a situation... I'm just not sure about. I recently started talking to my ex bf again.. he was flirting with me and kinda asked me out again (second time since i broke up with him nearly 4 years ago. lst time i said no after asking friends ...

I know I care too much about what others think of me. How do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Hello people :) this will be a slightly odd question to ask, but how do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me? I have become a much more confident person since leaving home and in the main am comfortable with who I am, who my friends are ...

I think I have a foot fetish. Why would I be like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - I am 18 and for a couple of years I've had this soft spot for a certain porn video. It is all about foot fetish. It's just licking and kissing etcetera and the people are kind of clothed but in real life I have a foot fobia and in any other video ...

Manipulative, not being real? What are the signs that a woman is just using a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - What are the signs to look out for that a woman does not really love you but using you? ie for sex, boredem, rebound etc ...

Problems! Hubby leaves me so confused. Not affectionate :( What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I love coming here. I've been getting great advice. :o) So I'm back again. My hubby and I (ok mostly me) seem to be having on going issues. I really need someone to help me understand because my hubby can't (or won't). Let me say that my h...

Why would he go away so far, with a woman 24 years younger? And leave his devoted loving wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - so i know this is out there a lot but my husband left me for a younger girl 24 years younger. they are living together oh and she has a 2 year old. Anyway just wanted to know if anyone could shed light on why he would leave a good wife that woul...

I fell in love with my one night stand

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 June 2012 (M) - l am a 30 year old guy and so intrested in older women . l even joined a dating site where l found to be so reliable and finaly got what l was looking for . a 37 year old woman , few hours after chating we had to meet at her place where we could ...

Does sex really matter all that much?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hey everyone. Lots of magazines and articles talk about "sexual compatibility" and paramount on sexual pleasure with your partner. I haven't had an orgasm yet with my boyfriend (still testing things out and finding what I like), so I wonder does sex ...

Is she interested in a threesome or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

26 June 2012 (M) - I have discussed with my wife having a threesome. We were watching porn one evening and I asked her if she would prefer mfm or fmf, she said mfm of course if she was to do it and she was not that interested. Ok....I did get an answer. The ...

She doesn't get 'wet' before sex, is it me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

26 June 2012 (M) - I have been dating a girl and mostly things are fine but i have a bit of an issue with sex. The problem is that my girlfriend does not get 'wet' very easily. I usually initiate sex and we have it pretty regularly... 3 times a week. When using...

I don't know if I should make a move though or if I shouldn't trust this guy after whatever happened the last time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hey. I'm a bit confused and unsure what to do. Firstly I'm 20 and like older men in their early to mid 30's. Basically two years ago when I was 18 I was seeing a guy who was 34 at weekends and occasional evenings. We'd go out in a group of mixed ...

He lies about watching porn and its damaging our sex life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, Ive been in a relationship for almost 2 years and i always make it clear at the start of a relationship i don't accept porn, reason being i don't feel its needed when you have a partner willing to please you, it just makes me feel una...

We had sex on first date, deal breaker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I met a guy the other night through friends and he was fantastic. Great looking, well educated and smart. We are about the same number (attractiveness) and went to the same college. I asked him to do something towards the end of the night and he ...

I want to fit in but I don't!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

26 June 2012 (M) - For a long time I've been having a lot of problems with my virginity...I can't stand it. It makes me angry, and I can't stand it...but I met this girl. She's changed my life...made me see that the world isn't as dark and depressing as I thought...I ...

My ex now likes men and it's killing me inside!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I am a woman and I was engaged to another woman for 2 years. She left me about 4 months ago for reasons that she won't even tell me. My best guess is that she had a break down. But she really won't say. We share our dog and trade her every other ...

Slept with my best friend, now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I have had a male best friend for 6 years. There has always been a sexual tension and we both have always been attracted to each other but have kept it platonic/ PG13 because I think we both knew we were scared and not ready to explore that side of ...

How do I trust her and accept her past?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

25 June 2012 (?) - I apologize for the length, but I don't know how to condense this or make it concise, as to me, it's complicated, so I'll try to get as much relevant information out as well as the main question/questions: how do I ask her if she's been with other's ...

I've had anxiety as we had a threesome and his condom fell off!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - hi. my girl and i recently had our first threesome with another guy , and the rule for the other guy was to wear a condom. well, while he was in the middle of things, his condom came off. now, im ok with the fact that we did the threesome, but not ...

My wife does not initiate sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 3yrs. we have 1loving daughter together but she has no sex drive and never initiate sex I always initiate and when we have sex she just lay there she gets into it but we only do it like 8 times a year if that and ...

How to deal with my girlfriends sexual requests?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

25 June 2012 (?) - How to deal with my girlfriend(lesbian) she needs oral sexual pleasure for no reason at midnights,i really care about her,but i don't know whether she gets horny or something,she gets aroused for while even reading novels at night i had advised her ...

My guys cum tastes bitter and salty, suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I know I could google this and read a bunch of articles, but I need help. I've been the only girl that has successfully given my guy a bj EVER! He loves it and I love to please him. The thing is his cum tastes really bitter and salty. The last ...

Will he get bored since I have so much less experience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - I've recently become single again after a 2 year relationship, and to be blunt, a girl has needs. I've also met this guy which we both seem into one another, however he has slept with 6 people and I've only slept with one? I want to go for it, but ...

I allowed my g/f to have a guy on the side and now everything is all mixed up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

24 June 2012 (M) - My fiance and i have been together 12yrs she told me stories all her lovers all had big endowed penises 10+ and i half that size well she dont relize how much she tells me how great it was and even tells aquaintances. I loved her very much that i ...

When I cum it looks like I've wet the bed

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - I've got a quite embarrassing problem, when my boyfriend is pleasuring me and I reach my climax I seem to realease a large amount and it goes everywhere as if I've wet the bed, I don't know if this is a problem or if theirs anything I do to control ...

Any tips to help me? I lack experience with gay relationships. Scared about going down on her. Help !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Well let me put it this way, I'm a gay girl who hasn't had much experience with a girl, crap! I know :/, but anyway I've recently just got in a relationship and I'm petrified to go down on her in case like I throw up or something. Guys used to m...