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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

We had a very emotional and nasty breakup and haven't spoken since.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I dated inconsistently for over three years. We also lived together for most of that time period. Throughout that time period, we had some rocky times, but also some amazing ones. However, the major problems were her twin ...

Are my masturbation habits normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - SO this is embarrassing.... but i was wondering how often do normal women masturbate? cause i am 16 and i think the level at which i am at is not normal. but idk, cause its not really something you just causally talk about with ur best friends. i ...

Is it normal to ejaculate very fast for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - I ejaculated very fast the other day when I was getting a handjob done by my girlfriend.(within 30 secs). I was extremely disappointed and kinda embarrased. It was the first time a girl touched my penis, but is that normal? What can i do hold it in ...

I used my dad's condoms and now I am worried he'll find out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - I found 3 condoms in my dad's dresser but the expired over a year a ago so i used one then a few months another one and today i used the last one. My parents fight some what and don't sleep together in the same room, but i watched the last one for a ...

Why did my ex tell me not to have sex and that she wasnt ready for me to grow up yet?

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31 July 2012 (M) - I am going to college next week. Me and my most recent ex talk every few weeks 2-3xs a week. We were having a casual talk and out of nowhere she asks me "oh and don't have sex in college k?" I responded with "why would you ask me that out of all the ...

How can I forgive him for hurting me this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - Two months ago I started sleeping with a very good friend of mine. He had just broken up it his ex a few months before. Their relationship has always been on again off again for the past seven years. She is always trash talking about him to ...

I had a strange dream about a MFM with my wife. What does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4502 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - So I had the weirdest dream. I am married 3 years. Last night, I had a dream. In my dream, one of my semi-close friends and I were screwing my wife. In my dream, we were switching positions on her and she was enjoying it. I don't think this could...

Can you tell someone has had anal sex by looking at their bottom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - Hey there everyone! So... I was in a 5-yr-relationship with this guy and we used to have a quite a lot of anal sex. I didn't really like it, but he loved it so I tried to make him happy. Since we broke up I decided I'd never do anal just to make ...

Is it me? Or just because he doesn't last long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - me and my fiance have been together for a year and a half. since we have been together we only have sex once every few weeks. im 23 and he is 29. its not through lack of trying. i try to initiate it most nights but he turns round and goes to sleep...

How can I squirt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - dear cupid, here recently, my guy has started working his way up to the point where he can "fist" me. while it hasn't always felt like the most pleasant thing in the world, i have reached the point where i actually really, really enjoy it. on...

She wants me to be more dirty but now I"m not sure we should have started down this path!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - I am really unsure what to make with my girlfriend. We've been together 5 months, throughout May we did not kiss or do anything sexual as she'd commented she felt guilty, plus I had things on my mind so I deliberately didn't do anything. Fro...

I feel miserable after I ejaculate/Orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - I feel miserable after I ejaculate/Orgasm. I have never been satisfied with masturbation and now I have started being sexually active again after some time I was hoping I would enjoy orgasm more but I get the feelings of being loved up with the ...

We both love each other but I am jealous about the men he hooks up with!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I am 18 and have been seeing a boy on and off for well over 2 and a half years. We're both in love with each other but about 9 months ago I found out that he thinks he's bisexual. At first I was so shocked and thought he was jokin with me. We had a ...

Too tight after a break from sex.. help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I've been sexually active for almost 5 years with no problem. However recently my boyfriend went away for 6/7 weeks and he came back for a weekend to visit and I found it really hard to have sex as I was just too tight and it really hurt! It hurt ...

Bro-codes or not? Sleeping with your friends ex girlfriend is suddenly okay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4503 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I would love to hear peoples, especially guys, opinion on this. Should a guy date/sleep with his friends ex girlfriend? There's a guy I know, we recently met up to catch up and hear how things are. As we talked he started telling me this story, w...

Girlfriend tells me now that she never liked doing sexual things and only did them to make me happy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - Well I'm mainly just wondering if I should be telling my girlfriend sorry? Or expressing my draining trust in her? The problem emerged quite recently when she told me that she didn't like talking about sex and that she wanted to wait longer for it. ...

Did he want a threesome or was he testing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4496 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - okay so when i was in high school sophmore year i kissed a girl just a peck it was like a dare and i never kissed a girl ever again so 2yrs. after i met my boyfriend i told him about it and now 4yrs that we have been togeather he asked me ...

I applied at a strip club, the boss wants me to strut my stuff

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I applied to work in a strip club (I'm female) but the mister who I asked wanted me to "strut my stuff" for him. Is this normal. Do ladies who apply to do what I do (get naked, look sexy and have sex) have to show the "boss" what they do or does he ...

How often do married men masturbate without their wife knowing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - How many Married guys masturbate ,Without the wife knowing and How much a day or week? ...

He's not expressive about his love for me. And I have health issues. How can I encourage him to stop pressuring me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4505 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Hello, I need some advice please... I am a 31 year old woman and I have been with my partner for 2 years. He is 39. The problem I have is that although we live together and get on well most of the time, he only tells me he loves me once in a blue ...

Don't want to cheat. She doesn't want sex and I love her. So how can I get rid of this desire on my part for intimacy and also affection?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4505 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - o.k. here is the jist of my situation. I will be married for 20 years come next year to the same woman. And I love my wife so much but intimacy has never been the same. now a days, since the kids are older she likes to go out with her girlfriends ...

Does any one have any tips about 'soft, light domination' in the bedroom ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - Hi guys, Me and my girlfriend have a good sex life, but we're a relatively newly formed couple, and haven't tried anything extreme yet. I wondered about 'dom/sub' play, 'domination' in the bedroom, and she seemed really into it, I want to...

My feelings for him are strong. His actions indicate he doesn't care. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I know i need to split up with my boyfriend, he is constantly out with his friends even though he has no job. We have a child together and when he is out im stuck in the house myself with no one to speak to, it has gotten so bad that it has driv...

Questioning My sexuallity for Years? How can I Know? If I have never been with a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl. From My Childhood even until now I have really only had a couple male friends and even. Now it's pretty safe to say I don't have any (that are close to me anyway) I remember having crushes on only guys until I was 13 and h...

What's he on about? Wedding called off, he's moving out, but doesn't want to split !?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Okay...so I'm feeling heartbroken and I don't know where to go from here? My fiance and I have been together for 4 years and we were supposed to be getting married this September. We've lived together for the last 3 years and we bought a new hom...

Why ask? Should I comply? My married lover wants to know about any other women I sleep with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - I have been sleeping with a married woman for over a year now. She has an open marriage (within some limits) and we get along great both inside and outside of bed. She and I were talking and I asked her if she'd be upset if I slept with other...

Should I have my first homosexual encounter with this woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hey everyone I am 23 years old,and I would say for the past 4 years I'v been bicuruious and I would really want to know how it is to be with a girl..I don't know if I can go all the way and have sex but I think just first base to see what I feel ...

He's committed to me. FWB without the sex. So what do we have? And am I being too clingy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I have been with a guy for 5.5 years now. We are both 21 right now. we dated the first 2 years and then we broke up because of something one of my friends at the time told me he was doing. I later found out she lied. He said sorry many many man...

To me he is perfect. We plan to marry. But do you think he is gay? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years. He told me approx a year ago that before we got together he had two sexual encounters with another male. He said these two occasions happened within a few weeks of each other. They didnt h...

My wife likes acting flirty sexy with other men. Should we consider the threesome offer my friend has made?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - My wife has a sexy body and a real cute ass , she loves going 2 pubs and clubs with me and sitting fully clothed on other mens laps. She gets really turned on feeling their erection sticking into her private parts and we never make it home afterwar...

He was mean to me. Sent me dirt nasty text. So I did something he called spiteful. Was I wrong to do that?

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Two months ago I met this guy at the birthday party. He seems nice and we exchaged phone numbers! We met three times, and afterward I tried to avoid him (i thought he was difficult and feel like all he wants is just have sex!) And here's a deal...

Why would my boyfriend behave like this? He was most insistent about wanting sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I really need to know that you think is going through my boyfriends head because this has never happened to me before in any relationship I have been in. I was getting ready to go out with a group of girlfriends one evening. About an hour bef...

Sex only 4 times in 5 years? But no affection? Gives his Aunt more affection. Should I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - My bf of five years has only had sex with me four times He also only shows affection to his aunt I'm staying with him but his aunt is the one to get the kiss when he comes home Is it normal he does kiss hold or touch me and I sleep in his bed I c...

I told my lover's wife about us but it is as if she doesn't care!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I am so hurt right now, I decided to tell my married lover's wife about our affair, because I knew that would be the only way to stop it. I am 35 yrs old and he is a 43 yr old man. It started out as a friendship with casual dinners, and no sex. ...

I think my husband had gay sex with our dinner guest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I have a bigger problem than my last one now! I think my husband of 4 years is having a gay affair! Ive talked to him, but to no avail, we just end up arguing, let me start from the beginning, 3 weeks ago, he kept making excuses to go out, 2 weeks ...

Men: Would you chose a nature program on tv or sex with your girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - If you were 45 years old and had your 21 year old girlfriend ask you to bed for a blow job and sex would you choose a nature programme (that could be recorded) or your girlfriend. i would appreciate your comments ...

Do girls masturbate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - hi i reacently talked to a good friend whos a girl and she addmited to me this got me wondering.... do other girls masturbate too?...

Is it too early to ask my friend turned lover how they feel about me after one week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4506 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Is it wrong to ask where a potential relationship is going after a week...? I've been hanging out with a girl for 6 months and she became what I consider to be my closest friend. Then a week ago we slept with each other after a night out. W...

It's early days for us. So am I worrying for no reason, over his reaction to me touching his phone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - Am I concerned for no reason? Its fairly early days for me and another guy I met online but we have now met up 3 times (have known each other now for a couple of months). Last night we slept together he stayed at mine. He left his mobile phone ...

Tried for 18 months. Still not pregnant. What else can my husband and I do to make it happen? Please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - hi, we are trying from 1 and half year with my husband, we are trying for pregnant and i want to get pregnant soon, within 1 month.please tell me what else to try?....

Do other people have weird turn ons like mine?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - So yesterday, I decided to try something new and see what it would be like to whip myself and try masturbating afterwards and/or while doing so and see how it does for me.. turns out I kinda liked it. It's like it gave me a sort of rush that made it ...

Sex is still uncomfortable after a year.

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26 July 2012 (F) - Im 22 and my bf is 20, we had sex for the first time after being together for 6 months, it wasn’t as terrible I thought it was gonna be, I mean it hurt but I didn’t bleed and it wasn’t terrible, the problem was that once he was in, it hurt when he ...

Now I'm in this predicament. But does he still love this other girl? Or is he just a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (21) has told me he has had 3 past girlfriends (N, G, M) and that he's had sex with only 2 of them and he doesnt even remember who he fucked G or M. Those supposedly are the only girls he has had sex with and also the first girl he lost ...

Love, virginity, scared. How do I deal with my fears about losing my virginity with my BF?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - So I'm a virgin a complete utter virgin, but I think I might be too childish or I am thinking too childish about sex. My body is telling me it wants to but my head is saying different. I'm not scared of having sex, I'm just scared of what my ...

Could this make someone pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

26 July 2012 (M) - My girlfriend touched me and then touched the outside of her underwear lightly. I had noticed some pre-ejaculate earlier that was on my underwear. She noticed that she was a bit 'wet' afterwards from herself. She did not feel any liquid from me. It ...

I'd be with my ex but for the sex! New guy or the ex? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - hey everyone im writing because im really confused on who to be with or at least who to try and be with. okay so the first guy is my ex boyfriend of about six months now but we still live together after the first part of the breakup due to a lease. ...

Should I consider this other man? My husband is not intersted in me. Does this other man only want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - Hi, iam 25 years old married and have a kid,my husband is not interested in doing any sex with me... Nor will he discuss any matters to me. I saw some SMS in his mobile , which is related to a girl. I think he has another affair, if i ask him, he ...

Is it normal to fantasize about your partner being with someone else well your masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - I was wondering is it normal to fantasize about your partner being with someone else well your masturbating? I dont understand it because when im not doing any thing sexual the thought of him being with someone else kills me but during the heat of ...

Girls who like girls. what are the main attributes that attract you to girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - Girlies question time...........! Based on personal experiences, have you always had an idea you were a lesbian? I mean I have always known, I didn't go through a teenage curious stage I just took mine with the flow. I just wondered whether you'...

My husband addict masturbating instead having sex with me and he always rejecting me when I tried made move or touch him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - I just wanna to swear . I'm miserable wife. People kept saying I'm young cus i will be 28 next month. My husband always having masturbating himself since before married me and still now. We already married for nearly 9 years and this has to stop ...