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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

We hardly have sex anymore. How do I get the spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - How do i get the spark back? Me and my partner have been together a year. I am quite confident, opinionated and bossy were as he is shy, quiet and passive in arguments etc. I think i must intimidate him as we hardly have sex anymore because i never ...

I know I should, but how do I leave my older lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I am 18, I have been with a man since I was 16 (legal in the UK) and he is now 49. Due to this no one else in either of our lives knows about us being together. In the last 6 months we have tried to end it, but neither of us are able to break it ...

I still love him and can't be just friends. Did I say the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Why did my ex boyfriend say that? did we do the wrong thing? My ex and I broke up a month ago, he said he didn't want a relationship but later on told me it's cos he fell out of love with me and he didn't want to break my heart that is wh...

Three years later....I'm confused on what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am very confused as to what is happening at the moment. But I will start from the beginning, 3 years ago I was "going out" with a guy, and we were both virgins, but about 2months later, my dad died, and I went off the rails. By this I mean I ...

Worried about my penis size

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - i have a 5.7 inch erect penis length and 4.3 girth is this enough to satisfy a girl?......

Is sex with a 'player' a good idea?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hey I'll get right to the problem and i need answers asap! please :( The guy i had a crush on started talking to me about a month ago. He said he thought i was cute and a type of girl he would date. So he asked me to come over to his plac...

It's time we had sex. Tips please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (?) - I have been in my first relationship now for 3 months. So i am a rookie. What i want to know is when should i suggest having sex with my gf. she isn't a virgin, and i am. we haven't done anything like orals/handjobs, but do we need to do that before ...

Confused that BF interrupted love making to use bathroom.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Can someone explain this to me? Woke up when the alarm went off this morning, bf of 7 months was kissing my neck...so we ended up having sex, and kinda half way through, he stops and says "gotta go, baby"...I was like, "go where?" and he jumps out ...

How can I get my husband to make love to me, rather than just having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - [MOD NOTE] User has written duplicates of one question, so we have combined the two in one post. I love my husband dearly, but he doesn't know how to make love to me. He thinks that having sex is making love. How do I make him understand the d...

I slept with my ex's best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - This is a confusing situation and I think I have to write out the whole scenario so I can get advice about what to do, but basically... I was with my ex for a long time, we were each others firsts and we had a happy healthy relationship. At thi...

Guys: Would you dump a girl if she didnt have sex with you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - This question is for guys and guys alone. Now i want you to be completely honest with me. If you were dating a teenaged girl and you were a teenager yourself, and you wanted to have sex badly and she didn't, would you dump her?...

I don't feel physically attracted to my boyfriend anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner a year and we don't have sex anymore. see each other everyday as we live down the road, except for holidays were we return home from Uni.The no sex is down to me i try and talk about it with him and apologised for not ...

My wife refuses to try anything new in the bedroom! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - my wife and i have been married for 18 years but have known each other over 20 years, she is 44 , i am 57,she is not adventurous at all in the bedroom. i have asked to do a few things like, play with her breasts when we make love, i have asked her ...

I don't feel attraction for anyone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Basically my problem is that I don't feel attraction for anyone. I've dated quite a few men but when I considered having sex or doing anything intimate with them I felt really turned off, repulsed even. I assumed it was because I hadn't met the ...

Can I still think of myself as a virgin since my ex had a small penis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Is it possible to think you're still a virgin after you've had sex a few times??? Im asking this cuz my ex had a small penis and im ready to have sex with my new partner but im afraid cuz he has a 9 inch penis... Give me your opinions...

Is he ashamed of being with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - There's this guy that I like and he said that he also likes me but to me it seems that he only wants to have sex. He's a truthful and straight forward person so I don't really doubt his words so much. I have a feeling that he's ashame of me or some ...

That last time I saw my BF, we had sex but now he's ignoring me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupid.my scorpio boyfriend has totally changed.He was the sweetest boy ever and he made me believe he was in love with.we were havin a distance relationship and we only seen twice. And then he came back from the states recently I was s...

I sometimes feel like a slut because I have had 2 ex-boyfriends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I have this problem.. well the fact is that its hard for me to get an orgasm. I have had 3 partners including my boyfriend. I had my first boyfriend form the age of 15-17 and the second was a person whom I liked, but he just used me for sex a cou...

How do I pleasure myself without intercourse or sex toys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - How do I pleasure myself without intercourse or sex toys?...

Why does he only want me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (?) - He talks about my boobs and how I should come and stay the night at his. He said he misses me and keeps talking about what we used to do in bed. Sad part is, I like him but when he was single I gave him the chance to be with me and he didn't want ...

Should I continue to talk and be sexual with ex or just let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I dated my ex for almost 3 years. she ended the relationship she said I didnt do anything wrong she just had fallen out of love but we both admitted that and that we loves eachother still just not in love. well weve been split up for over a year ...

I'm growing up and feeling sexual and I'm worried about how far I will go.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - i am getting these strange attractions to practically all the boys.. i feel very sexually attracted to them, and to be honest, im quite worried about how far i would go if they took advantage. the summer is coming up and there is always a harmless ...

Is this true love or true guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - How do you know when you cheat on someone after being with them for 4 years that you really love them? The fact that one could cheat on their partner after being with them for so long, makes one question if it is really "love" you feel for them. ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to appreciate me sexually... is he just being friendly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I know I should be asking him this but wanted your opinion on it. Its about my boyfriend, we been dating for 3 months. I just don't feel like he likes me, sexually. He does do a lot of nice things for me like a friend would do, like help me if ...

Women--ever had an orgasm when you needed to relieve yourself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Women of all ages.. have you ever had... an orgasm while your bladder was desparate for you to relieve itself? (and your man, was right inside you at the time)? it seems to me that you couldnt relax to orgasm, while you are holding back the...

The sex is just not happening!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - What happens when sex just doesn't happen? We "try" to have sex but I am too large (according to him). I don't know what else to do. I have contemplated leaving as we have been together for 10 months and maybe twice have had successful sexual ...

I think I'm getting sexual vibes from him but what if I am wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Do we take our friendship to the next level? I have recently reconnected on facebook with an old school friend from many years ago. He was the first boy I ever kissed. I has been very nice to see him again. We have always had a strong attraction ...

Am I addicted to masturbating? Will this cause problems for my health? And will it reduce my sexual desire?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - i want to know if a can masturbation habit reduce sexual desire in males? i am 27 virgin but i masturbate almost daily from age of 14 with watching pornography, but watching porns is voyeurism (peeping tom), which is one of the type of sexual ...

Newly married and unsure what I should be doing when having sex.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I m a newly married person. please tell me when to have sex and whenever I do sex, is it necessary to make her wet and I wanna enjoy more during sex. How is it possible???...

Will he think I am not as good in bed because he has been with lots of girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - This guy "derek" has always been the hook up type. now he has changed and says he wants a relationship, that he likes me and can see it going somewhere. i know he doesnt just want sex because hes told me he would wait if i asked him to. im not ...

Frustrated with our sex life, what should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - We have been married for 13 yrs. He was basically a virgin except that there were already some preconceived misgivings and anticipation on his part.(Backward communication and not very forward thinking or fun experimentation etc..)He was/is unsure ...

She is turned off by sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Me and my fiancee have been together for 2 1/2 years. In this time we have both gotten good jobs, and a nice apartment. We go out on dates and enjoy spending time together as a couple. The problem is, she is totally turned off by sex. To the point ...

We have very different sex drives! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - im in a same sex, long distance relationship. my girlfriend and i have been together for 1year but only get to see each other every other weekend. my problem is that we have very different sex drives! i have a low sex drive and consider sex onc...

Is sexting with another woman cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Is sexting (sending sexually explicit texts/pics) cheating? A guy I know has been doing this with me on FB and to my cell phone. I found out he's engaged! So I have stopped responding because I feel it is disrespectful to his gf, but is it ...

How can I look good to him compared to all the women he's been with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - ok so theres this guy that i like and he is...well extremely experienced. his total last yr for hooking up is my complete total. but i dont really care about that. my thing is he has a ton of girls to compare me to!! so my question is any tips on ...

I want to try gay sex but I have a gf.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

29 March 2011 (?) - ok so im straight ive been in a relationship for three years, i think i was to have sex with a man im very curious but i don't know what to do? can any one give me any advice on what to do pleaseeeee??? HELP!!!...

The "ups" and "downs" or condoms... any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - I have been having a few problems with erections. I have been with this girl for about 6 months and at first because I was new to sex I had problems keeping my erection. I gathered this was due to performance anxiety. Then after about 3 weeks af...

Is it normal for a man to go a week or longer without sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I'm a 32 yr old female and have a 41 yr old boyfriend. He can go a week or two weeks without sex. Is that crazy? His work schedule is 5am til 9:30pm 3 nights a week. Sad part we stay across the street from 1 another....

Mid-life crisis, depression or right to feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 6 years, together for nearly 17 and we have a young son. We recently went through counselling on account of me getting seriously interested in sex over and above anything I've been interested in before. The ...

Advice for the first time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - My partner want to make physical relation with me and it will be my first time experience so what are the cautions which i 'll keep in my mind....

Was I just a sex friend that he threw away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Ok i have been talking to this boy for a couple of months and the first two were good and then his ex came down from out of town. we were not together so it did not bother me that much then. we stopped talking for three weeks so in Jan we started ...

My man can't give me an orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend has a very active sex life though thier is some problems Wev slept together a good 40 odd times hes came every time but iv only ever had 3 orgasms Its not that hes not good in bed coz he is but he just cant go long enough Wev...

My boyfriend masturbates while I'm sleeping!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Recently i have been waking up to my boyfriend masturbating beside me in bed, he obviously thinks im asleep, and if i move he quickly stops and waits, checks to see if im still sleeping then carries on, and at the end im not sure if he is completely ...

Anything wrong with our ages?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Can a 17 year old who will be turning 18 in a month date an have sex with a 19 year old?...

The thought of having sex scares me. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I am 19 years old and I am pretty sure I could live without sex. I am a bit concerned as to whether it is normal that I don't want to have sex, or do anything sexual pretty much. I've had a very good upbringing, liberal parents and I'm studying well ...

So here I am now, nearly four months after, still feeling hurt and rejected at being forced into ending something that could have been so good....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Hi all... I was dating a woman (40) from July to Dec last year. It was so incredibly intense at 46 years of age I can honestly say I have never experienced anything like it in my life. She was everything to me - I loved everything about her and my...

I don't want to overeact and ruin this relationship, but I am having a hard time trusting him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. The last time I slept with my boyfriend he gave me a yeast infection and now I am finding my self getting tested for all std's. I am finding so many inscurities rising to the surface as I think he also has given ...

Should I lose my virginity to my friends with benefits guy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Long story short i have a Friend with Benefits we have met before, but we Haven't yet met up for 'sexual favours' and I know that he just wants me for sex and sh*t, but that's all I looking for anyways but I'm a virgin (he knows this) ...

His experience makes me insecure...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

Why did he make me wait 3 whole minutes before having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - The other night I wanted to have sex. So I asked my boyfriend and he said "can we wait till tomorrow morning?" so I said okay fine then I got up to go to the bathroom came back and he was naked I asked him then, why are you naked? Then he said ...