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Archived questions from: 14 March, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Should I be worried about her sharing herself with other guys or wanting too try?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - my gf watches kinky porn, pretend rape, and a couple guys on one girl. what could this say about our relationship or the type of person she is? We have amazing sex and are physically attracted to each other and intimate at the same time. ladies, ...

Is it possible that even although he wants to... he just can't get into a relationship with a woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - Hello guys, so, I'll try and cut this as short as I can; my boyfriend and me have been for a couple of months now, we have been friends before, not very close ones though... and basically everything works out quite fine, but there is one thing w...

My boyfriend looked at porn before we had sex. Should I confront him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - The other night I was really in the mood, and thought that my boyfriend was as well (we were texting each other all week long about these new condoms we couldn't wait to try). When the time came, he said he wasn't in the mood and that he needs to ...

I would LOVE to do this in front of a girl for real!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - Hi.. i have been using a webcam for a few years now.. I kinda have an addiction. As time progressed I started doing very kinky stuff on cam.. It turned me on so much.. Things like wearing stockings and knickers... and many other extremley kinky ...

Is there a chance he has ED???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - Ok so I wrote a post about this a while back and how the guy I am with takes forever to finish during sex, and normally can't finish without oral stimulation of a hand job-- and even then sometimes he just has to finish himself or to speed the ...

My boyfriend won't have sex with me - for no reason!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - Right, got a bit of a big problem. I've been with my bf for over a year now and we still haven't had sex. I'm a virgin, but he has done it quite a few times with his ex. When they went out, they had sex after about half a year, so why is he so ...

Am I just wasting my time here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - hi. Please could you give me some advice? My boyfriend gets depressed often although it hasn't been for a while. I have tried being as understanding and loving as i can as i too can get like this. Only thing that is bugging me, when i felt down a ...

I don't want to be useless at sex when I'm only 17.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - Dear all, Im 17 and I have recently began a serious relationship with a lovely guy. We re currently two months in and completely besotted with each other. However I have a problem, I don't think im very good sexually - I've had sexual exper...

My husband threatens an affair everytime I say no to sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - I have never had as strong a sex drive as my husband (married 8 yrs). I know it's always been a problem, but for the last year everytime I say no to sex. He tells me he's gonna go out and have an affair. This really hurt me and when I told him so ...

We're not supposed to have sex before marriage but we want to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - I lost my virginity a couple of years ago, and was in a serious and long relationship which was sexually active. However, my boyfriend and I broke up after 2 years and soon after I became a Christian so I know I am not supposed to have sex before ...

Why can't I go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend over 2 months now and things are going great apart from one thing, I can't cum for her apart from masterbating :( She has given me blow jobs and we have lots of continous sex but I just can't cum and it's really gett...

Can thrush lay dormant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - I thought I knew a lot about sexually transmitted infections, but now I think I need some advice, please. I know thrush/candidiasis is not a sexually transmitted disease as such, although partners can pass it to one another during sex. So, it ...

Is great sex a "must have" in a potential husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - I've noticed many posts on dearcupid by men suffering from retroactive jealousy. One aspect of it that bothers me is insecurity with respect to whether or not the sex is as good with me as it was with prior men. She's made comments at time...

I don't see how we are going to work out physically!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I started dating a woman a few months ago, and emotionally our relationship has progressed very quickly, while the physical aspect of things has gone very slowly since her past relationships haven't ended well. My problem is that I have a small ...

Partner's comments about sex with his ex make me feel insecure

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner for five years. When we first met he was not long split up with his girlfriend and although I thought he was over her he was still in love with her. After we first had sex he said that it was not as good with me as with ...

He told me he didn't want me but he won't stop.why

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - hi guys 17 months ago i walked in on my first love having sex with his xgf and i was so hurt i overdosed woke up the next day in the hospital mental ward. my stomach was pumped but i don't remember. i had to stay in the mental ward for 3.5 months ...

Condom before or after foreplay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - Just a quick question: when engaging with your partner, should men put a condom on before foreplay or after? ...

One night stand with friend was great. How do I know if he wants to do it again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - Had a one night stand with a man I like a lot as a friend. It was great, and I quite sure that I would like to see him again. How do I make sure whether he feels the same way ?...

Is role playing common among couples?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - We have been married for 8 years now. For past few years and more so in recent 1-2 years, whenever we have sex, we role play and act like different individuals, everytime we have sex , we play different roles. Sometimes I think is it because he ...

I crave for sex to those I'm attracted to even though I don't enjoy sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - Iam 18 years old. Lost my virginity at age 12. Had 2 kids before I was 17. I have had sex with over 30 guys and 10 girls. I crave for sex to those I'm attracted to even though I don't enjoy sex. It. Effects my 3 year relationship. I have cheated on ...

Ideas to find alone time away from parents eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are having a lot of trouble getting alone time, and being able to have a sexual relationship at all because our parents are like watch dogs. Hints towards getting alone time to express ourselves sexually?...

Oral sex...how can I "wow" him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - so me and my boyfriend are going on three months now, and we have talked about takeing the next step... oral sex. and we are completely comfortable with eachother and im only slightly nervous because it will be my first time giving/recieving it. any ...

I really like my sisters best friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - Ok so I really like my sisters best friend and I've known her my entire life. She has a boyfriend, but idk how much longer they will last. I really wanna have sex with her, or at least see her nude. She's really hot, like amazingly. And my sister ...

I don't believe my married lover when she says she's not having sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - I have been having an affair for almost 7 years now. I love her dearly and i think the feeleing is mutual. We have never committed to each other due to us both having kids. Mine is 5 and hers are above 18. She has 3. However Christmas 2009...