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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

It's our first meeting, should we have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - i met this guy online about two weeks ago. we are planing to meet in june. we have had phonesex twice. he is 30 and im 20. i know if we do meet we will have sex. and i want to. i just dont want him to think that i am a slut. what would you think if ...

How do I cope with and incorporate my Voyeurism urges into my life? I am monogomous and Happily married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Recently my wife and I wound up in relationship counselling due to my 'sudden' interest in kink (bondage, some S and M, voyeurism etc). Through the counselling I discovered that there has been a whole host of reasons why this came about going way ...

Question about wet dreams

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - ok guys (and girls too) what do you feel would bother you the most.. a. your girlfriend has a wet dream about doing it with someone other than you. or b.your girlfriend has a dream about having sex with you, but it sucked really really bad.. t...

How do I get my boyfriend to be more honest about his fantasies?

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30 April 2011 (F) - Ok, the backstory to this question is that late last year I found out that my boyfriend had been watching transsexual porn. I was really upset and confronted him in a very aggressive manner and we both got very upset. He insisted he was just curious ...

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...

She's the best Gf I've ever had. So why do I go soft at the worst moment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - O my gosh. Pleas help ... Me and my girlfriend . It's the best relationship I ever had. She knows exactly how to turm me on and everything was fine. Then wen we wanted to do it... The my disobedient willie went soft on me. I know my girlfriend,...

Deviant sexual behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - So I've never had a girlfriend or have much experience in dating or sex. Anyway, I've started dating this girl for a few weeks now. Whenever I think about her, think about talking to her, when I call her, talk to her or sometimes just b...

What does my dream mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I had the weirdest dream last night!!! It was about a friend who I really have not thought about in anyway as a potential "partner". Actually, that same night I had hung out with a guy who I am trying to find out whether I like or not. But here is ...

Masturbating for the first time!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have a few questions! I am thinking about masturbating for the simple fact that my boyfriend is sometimes away and i get lonely while he is away. Ive never masterbated ever in my life and im not sure how to get it started or the right "tools" ...

He can't maintain an erection in bed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, My questions are a bit complicated and probably TMI. I apologize in advance. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months. I love spending time with him, love who he is... but there's an elephant in the room only I seem to bring up...

I haven't had sex in 20 years and really don't know what to do or expect!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I am a 55 year old women that hasn't had sex in 20 years. I have recently started dating again an I am sure he will want to have sex soon and I am horrified I have no idea what to expect. Can anyone give advice of help please...

High sex drive, need Help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - So yeah, I have a high sex drive and my girlfriend doesn't. I see her 3-4 days a week (every two days). We have been together for a year and a half. We usually make love every time we see each other, but when we don't I get really moody, upset and I ...

How to control my intense sexual thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - I'm a little conservative type of a person and i have high ambitions in my life. But intense sexual thoughts and unrealistic fantasies distracting from working towards achieving my goals I think sex outside marriage is morally wrong and I've d...

It bothers me knowing that others had sex with my boyfriend but he was my 1st everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I am just wondering if I am the only one that thinks this way and if I should just get over feeling this way or if it is something thats ok to worry about. I was a virgin when my boyfriend and I had sex. I didn't know it would bother me knowing he ...

Can sperm go through an unbroken hymen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - hello everyone can virgin get pregnant if a sperm gets near her vagina? have there been any facts because many people say virgin can get pregnant even if her hyman is not broken but nobody has actually given any examples..... what i me...

Am I being too naive to be upset about my Gf's attitude to sleeping her way to the top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - So I have been seeing this girl for a couple months and we got to talking recently about our work and job history. she is a decently successful actress in commercials and some background TV spots. now here's the thing: she was a model first, and she ...

I'm an escourt, falling for client and he wants me to not use condoms! Is he just playing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I am an escort;started to have feeling for one of the clients....and he apparently feels the same; He wanted to start seeing me without the agency but I refused as did not want to risk the good relationship as I have with the agency especialyy that ...

Isn't it usually the girlfriend who doesn't want sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We just moved into an apartment together. We both signed the one year lease. While I still love my boyfriend, I'm having a few issues regarding sex. I love sex and while I woul...

What is the best condom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Hello aunts. Sex advice needed about condoms. For 1st round, I stay for an hour during foreplay with an extra time condom and 2 to 3 minutes in the intercourse. The 2nd round, I stay for as long as I want in foreplay and 15 mins for intercourse....

Sex once a month isn't enough for me and I'm afraid I may cheat!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - HI, I have been in my relationship for 4 years and we have an 18 month old daughter, however my sex drive has become very high over the last 2 years and my partners is quite low compared to mine. I find myself feeling totally unsatisfied with the ...

Long distance and sex toys, will a vibrator keep me 'loose'?.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - hey Cupids. Basically I lost my virginity and I am now in a long distance relationship. I won't be seeing my guy for some time now. Would getting a vibrator help me from getting tight again and if so what would the best type of vibrator ...

I wanted to become celibate, but my boyfriend threatened to leave me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I wanted to become celibate but my boyfriend threatened to leave me..... clearly he cannot respect my decision... What do i do? But he claims he loves me so much....

Penis size insecurities......

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

28 April 2011 (?) - OK, so we've seen the barrage of penis size questions. Got me so curious I decided to actually measure mine. What I encountered was that it may be impossible to get an accurate measurement because there are probably 13 ways to measure it. I know ...

How do I convince her she is beautiful, and to try more foreplay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Hey there, Just after some help on what to do.. I've known this girl for a few years now, slowly gone from flirting to becoming more. i had sex with her once very drunk a few months back and now everytime i see her we kiss/hug and talk/text everyd...

Will I lose my virginity if I give him oral? Will he love me more if I do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i'm a 17 years old girl and still a virgin. my boyfriend is asking me to have an oral sex with him, he's 18 and were both virgins. i keep telling him that i don't want to because i'm reserving my virginity till the day i'm married. (even though im ...

Should I continue to tolerate my unkind hurtful insensitive boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Honestly I dont know what to make of it. My boyfriend and I just finished making love and he screams from the bathroom "blood". Yes Im in shock I just bled a little from having sex with my boyfriend. It has never happened to me and I expected more...

I am always hard around my fiance and it's starting to turn her off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Is it normal for me to just be constantly hard around my fiance. we been dating for 4 years...and we lost our virginity to each other. She is very very beautiful and when i was younger, im 19 now i dont remember being so hard around her, ever since ...

Soliciting ideas for spicing up my sex life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - hey everyone... i wanna spice up my sex life with my girlfriend... we just have normal sex and she's getting bored ... i tried using whipped cream on her but it wasnt enough.. any ideas what i should do to turn her on? and blow her mind??...

Birth control without my parents!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I am 17 and i want to get on birthcontrol but i dont want my parents to know because i dont what them to think im having sex everytime im alone with my boyfriend. So how do i go about getting birthcontrol without my parents???...

Could he be the right person for me, even though the attraction is lacking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Thank you so much to everyone that helps me with this problem... This has been bothering me for some time now. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. The majority of our relationship is so great. We live together, and we...

Should I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - So..I am in a same sex relationship. My partner and I have been together for 10 years. 4 years ago she had an emotional affair with someone and without going into the full details, she ended any communication a year ago and has been suffering f...

How can I feel more open to say the sexual things that are on my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I am very shy even tho i have been with my fiance for a little over 3 years now and i have really dirty thoughts come times but i never seem to say whats on my mind so my thing is he probably has know idea how freaky i really am, so my Question is ...

What else relieves stress apart from masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 April 2011 (M) - Ok so i think i need better ways to release my stress, i always masterbate and thats the best way but i cant keep doing it all the time....... so what else can i do?...

How long can you go without sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys I just got out of an emotinally abusive relationship(5yrs long) my ex was would be like "oh ur fat" or "oh i need a break" or oh put makeup on. Mind you i'm 25yrs old and weight 120 and 5'3. (but to make story short, i cried cried cried, ...

Engaged Virgin w/PTSD-Scared of Going All the Way

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27 April 2011 (F) - I am a 21 year old virgin who recently got engaged and my fiance would like to go all the way soon, but here's the problem: (he's already had sex with his ex-girlfriend and) I have never gone beyond oral. We've been practicing with him using one ...

Do girls get pleasure from anal sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I have never had anal sex so I always wonder do gals derive pleasure out of it?...

Fiance doesn't move during sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - When my Fiance and I have sex and he goes to put it in he just lays there instead of going in and out or moving it around, it's almost like he is Dead, my Question is why does he do that?? He has told me he likes to feel the warmth that's why he ...

I don't know what to do during sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - HI. So ive been with this guy for a while. I rily like him and I want to have sex with him. He is really experienced there. While ive had sex ive nvr known how to act. If he is on top wat do I do? Im nt loud..nd I dnt make faces I just lay there. So ...

My 55 year old mother is dating my ex boyfriend for sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 April 2011 (?) - I am really peed of with my mother. i am not proud of her tbh. she goes out on weekends wearing short skirts or leggings and wears a top that shows off her sagging boobs (she is 55 years old and divorced). she loves the attention of men but what she ...

Is a line being crossed here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Hi, my friend with benefits, wants to cum on my face and I've had it on my tummy but never on my face, I realize it could be some sort of power trip for guys but since we re just friends and he's not my boyfriend, is a line being crossed here?? I ...

She told me that her ex's looked better than mine??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - Quick question for the guys. And unfortunately this has happened to me so thats why im asking. What would you do if you recently started dating a girl that you really liked and she really liked you back and during a conversation she told you that ...

How can I fight my gag reflex and give better blowjobs?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

26 April 2011 (?) - hi guys, im 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. its going very well, and we have had sex. but now my boyfriend really wants me to start giving him blowjobs and swallowing his sperm. i have only give a few blowjobs. i've bee...

Help! I fantasise about my boyfriend with other women when we have sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - This is going to sound very strange!!! I have always been quite a jealous person and I still very much am. On a normal day, the thought of my boyfriend even looking at another woman makes me angry and upset. However, when I am with my boyfrien...

Questions on masturbating.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - i've recently tried masturating but find rubbing more pleasurable than fingering. have you any advice on how to finger to help me orgasm and also how do you know if your orgasaming ...

Could taking a shower after sex somehow get me pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - i didn't get any clear answers from this last time, so im asking again, and making my question clearer, my boyfriend ejaculated onto my breasts and stomach. we did not have sex!!!( i want to make it clear, we didn't have sex, or use the "pull ou...

I'm pretty upset and I feel used. How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - This guy (i'll call him "B") and me quit talking for six months and the other night he showed up saying sorry for it all amd wanted for to forgive him. Well, i did. He said never meant to stay out of my life that long and the whole entire time he ...

Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - ok well i need help. im a virgin like im very tight it is about the size of a dime the hole. when i finger i see like blood and it hurts with one finger and ive never came. is that normal how do i come?...

I need to last longer! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - How can I keep my stamina going!?!? Because everytime I have sex with my girlfriend i get off in like a minute or less....

What are the odds of getting pregnant if we use a condom and he pulls out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - i know this isnt one hundred percent safe, but do i have a good chance of not getting pregnant if we use a condom, and pull out. i know the pulling out doesnt do much... i just want opinions, i know what is the safest. just answer the question ...

I'm not sure that I can give my b/f oral sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend 15 months and been having sex since about last june so im quite used to it as we do it regularly.the one thing that i cannot bring myself to do is hive him oral. I want to but theres something holding me back, mainly ...