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Archived questions from: 19 April, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Confused after threesome!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - I had my first threesome two nights ago and now I'm very confused and slightly embarrassed and annoyed. My best male friend who is bi-sexual,J.B. and I have been flirting innocently for a very long time. We went on holidays along with some other ...

I had melanoma on my penis and had to have it amputated. Ladies how would you deal with this if it happened to your partner?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - Last year I was diagnosed with melanoma on my penis. To save my life, I had to have my penis amputated. So far I've recovered well. I've seen tons of trolls on sites claiming to be 18 and having penile cancer (virtually unheard of in young men) but ...

Should I go see a prostitute?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - Recently while i was overseas I had sex (twice) with a prostitute, in an adult venue. She had the looks, body and personality of a porn star. It as the best sex I ever had (and the most expensive!) As I am single and having to 'pay for sex' is...

I'm 13 and dating a 20 year old, my friends are telling me to be cautious. Please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Hey everybody.. I want some advice I am dating a 20 year old and I am 13... He is very sweet but I'm still scared because all my friends are telling me to be careful. He said " no matter how long u want to wait to loose ur virginity I will wai...

We're married and in love but our sex life is nonexistent

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - O.K, So my husband and I have been married for 2 years, we were separated for 3 months however now that we are back together my sex drive is much higher, however before the separation we were not sexually active and now we still are not. While the ...

My fiance says she's a virgin but I'm not sure if she's telling the truth

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I need your advice. I am a 31 yr old guy. I am a virgin and about about to get engaged to a girl. She is 24. Before getting engaged to her, I want to know if she is a virgin or not. She told me she does not have any boyfriends but the way she ...

Girlfriend of 5 years wants a break to figure out what she wants....I'm confused!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - I am confused on the whole situation and am just looking for some advice. Basically, my gf wants to take a break for a little bit, mainly to figure out what she wants, and if the opportunity arises, she might date. We've been together for 5+ ...

My wife had a promiscuous past before we married...and now she is frigid, and it's driving me crazy!! What to do??

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - This is my problem...my wife has a "colorful" past. I never asked or pretended to be interested in knowing. But she came up to me and told me. I felt somewhat "let down" but never I repeat never held it against her or treated her differently. I ...

Why do I love the foreplay but dislike the sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Hi helpful aunts, I am 24 and have been married for 18 months. Since we got married, the most days we have stayed without sex is 4 days and that's when he travels or I do. It happens almost daily. I was a virgin when I got married and it was painf...

What am I supposed to do, if his sexual dysfunction remains a mystery?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - What should I do, if my husband doesn't know, why he has no sexual desire for me? Also, why he is always losing his erection ,when we have finally sex.He says sex is wiped out from his mind... Where I'm confused, that he went to the doctor,and h...

She is very quiet when she has an orgasm, is this because I am not very good?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - hi i was just wondering. I have been with my partner 7 years. And well she is so quiet when she cums. Is this normal or am i just not giving her good enough ones? I always please her before penertration as she says she cant cum through this method ...

It takes so little to get me horny!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - This is not so much a help issue, but more of a why. I keep getting horny and turned on over the slitest of things. I only have to think of porn or sex, or even less than that and i'm in the mood. I was with someone for 5 years, and i had no sex...

I cheated on my BF, because although he's a great guy, the sex is awful. Is it my fault?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

19 April 2011 (?) - I've cheated on my boyfriend and i feel really guilty. he is a great guy. he knows what i like, he treaats me to things all of the time, and he loves me and i love him. but when we have sex, he is awful. he just cant please me. he always comes no...

Have I lost my virginity? And are birth control pills effective?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - how can i get to know whether i have lost my virginity??/is there any symptoms??? 3 days ago me and my boyfriend was engaged sexually and few drops of blood came out from me. im not sure whether i was really went through an intercourse? as the ...

How do I stop him doing this without hurting his ego?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Basically, I love the guy I'm seeing, he's funny, charming and just lovely. But I have a problem, when it comes to 'getting to it' he is like really forceful, like when he plays with my breasts he squeezes them really tightly and if I'm honest i...

Do I masturbate too much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Is once a day too much to masturbate for a 15 year old girl? ...

I'm 16 and I want to ask about the contraceptive pill. I have no idea what to say to the Doctor. Can anybody advise me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - I'm 16 and I'm going to the doctors tomorrow to get myself on the contraceptive pill. Thing is I'm going alone. My cousin had agreed to come with me, but is not now going to come with me. I'm really nervous. What exactly will the Doctor want to k...

She's married, I'm single. But there is an attraction. Should I make a move? Do you think she gets a thrill out of talking to me? What should I do?.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - I have been attracted to a woman who I work with for several months. I believe (through mutual eye contact mainly) that she feels a similar attraction toward me. We had never had a conversation other than to say the usual 'hellos' and ' hi!s'. I ...

Ideas to make my sex life more fun and enjoyable for both of us....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Please help me, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and after that we have been having sex everytime we have a chance but this las time my boyfriend asked me what would I like him to do do for me or that we should try something neew, and that he ...

I know our relationship is more important than sex, but I cant help feeling so horny! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 16 months, and I love her. A lot. She is my first girlfriend. She meens the world to me, we have helped eachother through tons of things including the death of a close friend in a car accident. But the ...

I cannot have an orgasm with boyfriend, should I break up with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Hi All, I hope I can get some advise on this. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. The relationship is fine but I have never once had an orgasm with him, I can by myself but not with him. The sex is just awful and always leaves me...

Could 2 virgins get an STD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Hey everyone. I had a quick question. If two virgins have sex with each other for the first time and they have oral sex and all these other sexual stuff, is there any way you can get an STD? Me and my bf are both virgins and have never done anything ...

Is it bad to play with myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - is it bad to "play with myself"?...

Is it unusual that I'm 18 and have never had sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Is it really that unusual that I'm nearly 18, living in London (UK capital) and have never had sex or done anything close - never even kissed anyone? It doesn't bother me and I don't feel any pressure to do so; nor am I physically repulsiv...