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Sex: Help and advice

Am I a man whore???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - Okay so people keep calling me these names and I'm just sick of it. I'm 17 and I'm gay. The think is I get turned on very easily and am very friendly and flirtatious. So I tend to flirt with a lot of guys... and some girls too. And even when not ...

Every time I have sex it brings on a period!

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31 May 2010 (F) - Every time i have sex with my boyfriend it brings on a period even if i'm not due one?? can someone please explain this?...

She says she's not bothered whether or not she has an orgasm!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - hi there im going out with this girl and we have had sex. she has never had an orgasm ever and i really want to giver her one. i know i can but she says she doenst really care whether she orgasms or not. i respect that but im still going to try. but ...

Is it possible I could have an STD? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I really need to know, ASAP... can you get symtoms of an STD the day after you have sex? It was unprotected and my first time with him... such a huge mistake! I don't know what I was thinking!!!!...

Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...

Are sweaty hands a turn off during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - My hands always sweat really bad, sometimes for no reason. I keep thinking I'm going to saturate somebody with sweat so I don't bother with sex anymore. Is this a turnoff when having sex?...

My boyfriend thinks I am faking it when we have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hey , my boyfriend said i sounded like i was faking it during sex but i wasnt and i told him that. What does faking it exactly mean? Cause the thing is if i keep my mouth shut nothing would come out inless i make my mouth open, is that faking? I ...

Any thoughts...? Sexual frustration!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - My fiancée that I am scheduled to marry within the next couple of months doesn't turn me on the way my exgirl friend use to. My exgirl who I was crazy about was always dripping wet for me day night early in morning and would have orgasms through ...

Deprived of sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I've been with my fiance for three years, we moved in together about 4 months ago he recently lost his job. sex before was not an issue since he has no job sex has gone down the drain. i almost have to beg for sex or masturbate, i am older than him ...

How do I make this into a booty call relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I met ran into an old friend that I picked up in a bar and we had sex. I am not in a position to have a relationship. I travel all over the US for work, and communicated this to him. He made sure to get my phone number. He texed me 30 minutes ...

Why do I get aroused by the stuff on tv?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I am very confused. While I know I am very very much attracted to men, for some reason, I get turned on by thoughts of or watching girl on girl sex scenes and stuff. This is weirding me out a bit. Because I know that I want to be with a guy, kiss a ...

Sexless husband at his limit..

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - My wife and I do not have a sex life. In the past 3 years we have made love once. We don't flirt, no passionate kissing or anything. Pretty much she is like my sister. She is a decent mother and a good friend but the spark is gone. She has g...

I had sex without protection, how do I ask my mum for a pregnancy test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - me and my bf were on a date we went to the movies when it was over we went to his car and we were making out then that leaded to sex i was leting him lead when i got home i was scared cuz i didnt use a condom and if i ask my mom for a pregantce test ...

Is it ok to fool around with a guy when you are not using any contraception?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Is i ok to fool around with a guy when you are currently not an form of contraception. I know sex is a definite no no....

If someone masturbates can it cause erection problems?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - If a person masturbates can it cause you to not have an erection over a period time?...

I don't have an hymen even though I'm not an athelete.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - hii!iam not an athlete..but i dont hav an hymen layer..i found this when me and my boyfriend had sex..from that point of time he is suspecting me a lot..!!i was a virgin when i slept with him..but he is not trusting me b'coz of the absence of hymen ...

Is being with 6 men sexually by the age of 30 a lot?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - okay so this is a very random curious question. I'm turning 30 and have been with 6 men sexually. Is this a lot for a woman of my age to have been with that many men? Sometimes i wonder and feel bad about my sexual experiences. ...

After I masturbate, its hard to pee!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I'm a girl, after I masturbate it's hard to pee...Eventually once I do I have to go a lot. Is this normal? If not, I'm too scared to tell my parents. Please give me an answer....

Am I a tramp?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I've been a very bad discusting person well i think so anyway :( ive had sex with two boys in the space of a month, and other sexual acts with them too spreading over 5 months im just realising now that i feel nasty and horrible, im sucha tramp...

I'm really enjoying masturbation? is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i have had great sex with my boyfriend in the past, i always reach orgasm with him, but recently i don't feel like having sex with him anymore, and im holding out on him but when i get home i masturbate. im really enjoying masturbation? is this ...

She never wants sex anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - K so here's the thing: I'm 18 and I've been going out with my girlfriend for about two and a half years. We started having sex a couple of weeks after we started dating and had it once every 2 or 3 days for a while, but now she never wants sex ...

Is it supposed to hurt after you stop and then start masturbating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have a question: If you masturbate too much then stop. when you start again is it meant to hurt?? (Im 15 by the way)...

Can't get my boyfriend to cum on my own?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I'll give him a blowjob.. handjob and he'll be like making noises and shaking, and he's all wet.. and you can tell it's genuine and he says he loves it + that i'm the best he's ever had but then he goes 'omg i could cum now' so then he takes hi...

Is this still phone sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hey, well i was wondering if some one masturbates on the phone and the other person just listens does that still count as phone sex? Also do you get less nervous the more you do it? Thanks for your time....

How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?

This question has 84 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...

Do women not in a relationship stay on contraception just incase

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (?) - How do ladies who not presently in a relationship but who are in the market for one, handle the question of whether to be on contraception just in case? ...

I'm worried I might have got my girlfriend pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Ok so one day like two weeks ago me and my gf were playing around and I ended up ejaculating(didn't wash off)..I urinated twice before the next morning when we were messing around again and I was rubbing my penis on her vagina(no penetration) and ...

Should I cheat on my sugar daddy with my ex, to satisfy my sexual needs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I broke up wth my boyfriend of 2yrs,who was 3yrs my senior.an orphan,colege graduate and unemployd.i have a grade 11 younga brother that i need to provide for.so i met this guy. 20 yrs my senior!he is rich,very rich.he owns bussineses and drives the ...

Can oral sex be negociated, or will it drive us apart?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Well, I'm not sure where to start. I am very in love with my boyfriend and we have the best laughter together. Everything is good except.. He doesn't seem to care at all whether I orgasm or not. He refuses to give oral, and we've talked about it ...

She makes me stop before I can get her there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - My girl and I have been in a long distance relationship for just under a year. We met in the most romantic way, and fell in love intensely. She is 32, and I am 26. I'm not sure how much of the relationship history I need to give here, but I will...

In Love, Or In Love With The Sex?..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and we have sex about twice a week.. I love everything about my boyfriend and he loves every thing about me.. and were absolutely CRAZY for each other, I feel I am in love with him strongly and I ...

Birth control question!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Okay so I have been on birth control for about 4 months and after the first two months I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend a bunch. A condom is not used AT ALL. Do you think I should have less sex, sex with a condom all the time, or ...

Will asking him about sex ruin our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - hey i need help, i have known my boyfriend for about 3 years but only been together as a couple for a month and a bit but i really really like him and i feel like i want to start being a bit intimate with him, maybe not go straight to sex but start ...

Could I be pregnant after coming into contact with his sperm after he left?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Could I be pregnant if I made out with my boyfriend and later, after he`s gone home I might accidentally put a little sperm close to my vagina while I was sort of fingering myself?...

Its to the point where its painful, but I love it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - This question might be weird.. but when my bf and i are having us time and he kisses and fondles my stomach and breasts i really like it alot and it feels great. but my question is why does the harder he nibbles my nipples feel beter. to point that ...

My wife won't give me a blowjob!!!!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I'd like to start by confirming I m 32 not 21. So this is my problem... My wife don't want to give me a blowjob anymore because she says she doesn't like it. I'm going down on her all the time because that's the only way that she can have multiple...

Might Be Losing Sexual Interest With Boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Ok,so I am in a loveless relationship for little over a year. At times when my boyfriend wants to see me he is thinking about sex and i feel like that is the only thing that gives us an excuse to see each other. If we dont go out somewhere(which we ...

Is it wrong to get excited soon during sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - hi!im in a relationship with a guy for almost 3 years.As soon as he touches me or kisses me i get so excited and wet and our sex goes very smooth!But he tells me that sex should be painful and suspects me a lot.i love him so much and i get hurt ...

Was my hymen broken? Did I even have one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hey . May 7th 2010 iWas with a friend of mines and we were in his room and we were cuddled and iTold him that i was a virgin so he has big fingers and he put 2 fingers inside me and it didnt hurt at all (remind you iAm still a virgin) iDidnt bleed ...

I'm scared of the pain from first time sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - i need help. ive been with my boyfriend for a while and we both want to have sex. he's had sex with four different girls in the past and yes, he's been tested..so he doesnt have any diseases. i on the other hand am a virgin and he knows that...i...

I masturbate 5-6 times a day! Its an addiction!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Hello.. I have addiction with masturbation since i was 13. Im 30 now but still cant stop it, i would masturbate 5-6 times everyday. It really effected my life, my health and confidence. Im jobless and still single. My life is a mess and im falling ...

Pregnant from anal sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! I have a couple of questions to ask and I would appreciate your help! Basically I had anal sex with my bf if 3 yrs and I'm freaking out bout the possibility Of being pregnant! Its been 3 months and I got my period in the first 2 B...

Just wondering what an orgasm looks like and feels like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Ok so I'm a bisexual sixteen year old and I've started experimenting with my girlfriend... Who I just love so much, but recently she ate me out for the first time, and it was amazing. I was nervous at first but then relaxed and it was amazing.. I ...

Can't give myself an orgasm

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hi, i have 16 years, and i have never had an orgasm. i often masturbate, but every time i do that, i need to stop very quickly, because after few pleasent minutes, it starts to feel very unpleasent, so i can't stand it any more. I'm a bit of woried, ...

Husband masturbates to porn when we have sex every day!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Hi I'm 18 years old. My question is why does my husband masturbate watching porn on tv if we have sex every day. Iv seen him masturbating when he thought i was asleep. What can i do. ...

Did he say he was allergic to condoms just to trick me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Help... I Just had unprotected sex and i am so scared. He claims hes allergic to condoms. Can someome be allergic or did he trick me me? ...

My b/f fantasy is to have sex with a man while dressed as a woman, with me involved!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I need help. My fiance, the love of my life, cross dresses. He only does this at home, mostly alone, yet will often wear dresses during sex. I don't have a problem with this. Lately this seems to be more and more important to him. He has told me of ...

I don't know what to think about all this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - My current boyfriend has told me previously that he is not a virgin. He had sex in his last relationship that lasted 3 years. He said that he had wanted to save it for marriage and that when she brought it up a year in he said no, only to give in a ...

G/f very ill and I have lost my attraction to her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - Ok, so here it is...my girlfriend (21) and I (24) have been dating for 4 years now, most of it a long-distance relationship until we moved in together. She suffers from severe ulcerative colitis, and she's had episodes every year we've been together...

What the..? After moving in together, our sex life has died off completely..!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - Hi, I moved in with my Girl-friend about 6 months ago after being together for over 2 yrs and we are having one or two problems. I am 26 and she has just turned 32 We use to spend around 3 evenings a week together, going out regually or ...