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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Is i ok to fool around with a guy when you are currently not an form of contraception. I know sex is a definite no no. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 May 2010):
It's never a good idea to take a chance.
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male
reader, Honest Answer +, writes (31 May 2010):
Unless you are both willing and ready to raise a child you need to use protection. Take a scroll through the recent questions on this site. Many are woman in your same situation asking for advice on how to tell a parent that that are expecting a child ,or simply stressing out over the possibility of being pregnant.
Do yourself a service by getting some protection. Don't count on him to take care of it. And what ever you do, do not have protected sex. There are a bunch of nasty STDs that are out there (not to mention an unwanted pregnancy).
Good Luck!
Jeff
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A
female
reader, chigirl +, writes (31 May 2010):
Fooling around with clothes on is fine without contraceptives. Being naked you have to be sure his penis is no where near your vagina, and it should be fine too. Just to be safe, always have one partner with underwear on. And if you want to be extra safe, start on birth-control or keep the clothes on.
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female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 May 2010):
It's risky.
The number 1 rule is that if you are both naked, you put a condom on him.
Have a read from all the panicking girls on here that got sperm somewhere near them after messing about but not having sex.
Since you are in the UK you can also buy the morning after pill to keep in your house in chase of emergency.
Good Luck!! xx
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