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female
age
41-50,
*uiltywife
writes:Help... I Just had unprotected sex and i am so scared. He claims hes allergic to condoms. Can someome be allergic or did he trick me me?
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (29 May 2010):
 Here is the litmus test for unprotected sex: If you are in a relationship with someone and are willing and able to bring a child into this world, but all means, have and enjoy unprotected sex. Your reproductive system (and sexual health for that matter) outweights any alledged allergies.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): yes, it is possible for someone to be allergic to LATEX condoms, but its very very rare so most likely he did say that to trick you.Many guys use this to get women to have unprotected sex with them. You should go for a check-up and make sure everything is okay. They also sale lamb skin condoms for those whom are allergic to latex but it only protects you from getting pregnant but not from getting any std's.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 I understand that the diagnosis of several STD's is very quick. If it is AIDS, however, you need to wait for several months. At least where I live.
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reader, guiltywife +, writes (29 May 2010):
guiltywife is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, I will get checked up for STD's... but if I caught something, will I know the results right away? I had an iud so my only concern are STD's.
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (29 May 2010):
 He can be allergic to latex
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reader, loops  +, writes (28 May 2010):
I'm going to question your age as you don't appear to be 30-35. Yes you can be allergic to condoms but you can get latex free condoms so it is no excuse for unprotected sex. Seek advice from your doctor to test for STD's and pregnancy.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (28 May 2010):
 There is such a thing as non-latex condoms. Someone who truly is allergic would know this. Yep, it was a trick.
You should be scared because you're 30-35 and you fell for his excuse.
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reader, raiders +, writes (28 May 2010):
 You should be scare because if he don't like to use condoms he is in high risk of catching an STD please get yourself check. Next time please do not let your self get corner into having sex without protection. Protect your life don't have sex without the party hat.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (28 May 2010):
Some people are indeed allergic to latex. However, I think this would be a good excuse for not wearing a condom. If you wanted protection from certain diseases, you should have made sure he was indeed allergic.
Since you had sex, what's done is done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010): He could be allergic to condoms, but there are hypoallergenic condoms available.
It could be a trick, it's also possible that he doesn't know about them although if he's your age 30-35 and he's always been allergic to them then he should know about the safe ones.
Only you can decide, which is true.
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