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I'm worried I might have got my girlfriend pregnant!

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Question - (30 May 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so one day like two weeks ago me and my gf were playing around and I ended up ejaculating(didn't wash off)..I urinated twice before the next morning when we were messing around again and I was rubbing my penis on her vagina(no penetration) and ejaculated again but nowhere near vagina then end of story...so a day passed and I had been thinking if there is a possibility of her getting pregnant like that..we both went worried and thinking about it..so now lately she hasnt been feeling good and she has been having cramps on her abdomen..So do yall think she might be pregnant or she been feeling like that because her period is/should be coming up in like 7or8 days? I'm worried, help? lol thanks!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010):

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Ok yall thanks. My gf got her period today lol it was good but now starting off again more responsible!

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A female reader, straight to the truth United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2010):

ad yes breasts do become very tender at certain times of the month, just go take a test or sweat it out to her next due date.

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A female reader, straight to the truth United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2010):

it sounds like you dont know know to much about sex and how you can get pregnant because you refer to urinating as though this might have effected it in some way.

unfortunately yes there is a small chance she could be pregnant but the only way to be 100% sure is to do a test.

I think she is just due on soon and getting the regular cramps and you can eve feel like you have morning sickness when you are due on so it is impossible for anyone here to say for certain.

go buy a test and make sure she takes it furst thing in the morning.

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A female reader, SSS. United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2010):

SSS. agony auntit's a possibility.

she may just be overthinking it and therefore feeling the effects.

buy a pregnancy test NOW.

before it's too late, unless you are ready for the child..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010):

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Oh and I forgot to mention how tender her breasts are I have to be so gentle with them lately..I'm not too worried and doubt she id pregnat but yu never know..there might be a slight chance she is..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010):

Urine pregnancy tests work 6-12 after implantation, so if she is worried she can use a retail test kit. Remember to follow the instructions precisely.

Now you are an adult, you need to get into the habit of making good choices. This incident is full of poor choices by yourself.

Firstly, this means not frightening the heck out of your girlfriend by rubbing your penis against her vagina unless you want a child or unless you have contraception. I'm sure you've heard of petting and of oral sex. If you keep up putting your gf through worrying times, she'll look for someone less hassle to be with.

Secondly, this means getting your gf to a doctor for her cramps. What if they are are signs of something severe? And whilst she is there, she can use the cover to ask about pregnancy and contraception.

Thirdly. Should you ask question about medical matters of vital concern of your doctor or of the Internet? Which one has been to medical school? Which one knows your history?

I doubt there is anything too severely wrong with your gf. I doubt she is pregnant. But don't take the word of someone on the Internet for it. Get yourself together, get her to a doctor, and then keep on making good choices.

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