A
female
age
51-59,
*ilver925
writes: I need help. My fiance, the love of my life, cross dresses. He only does this at home, mostly alone, yet will often wear dresses during sex. I don't have a problem with this. Lately this seems to be more and more important to him. He has told me of his fantasies to have sex with a man while dressed as a woman, with me involved. Now he wants to act on it, with another couple. In the past I told him I have had fantasies as well. I do not want to act on them at all. He says this is so important to him. He wants to act on this without me if I will not participate. This is unacceptable to me. When he had been drinking last night he threatened to leave if I would not agree to this. I know he resents me for not wanting to do this. I don't know what to do.
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reader, everlast +, writes (29 May 2010):
You should stick to your guns if u dont want to do it he should consider how u feel. U and him should talk it out with just u and him, if that dont help seek profesional help all luck to u.
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