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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Sexual positions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - What's your favorite sexual position and why?...

Why do men like anal sex so much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have a question for the guys. Why do men like anal. And why do men like to play with women's buttholes. ...

My sex life is just one big stress!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I am soo stressed about this. I'm very young but I love my bf. I don't know if I should wait or go for it but I have a feeling that this time is right to have sex but when it comes to this I get very stressed out I tremble and I can't breathe. I ...

What's a 69'r???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has recently asked me to perform a 69er with him but I don't know what to do :S please help ...

I have ED, how common is this over 40? WHY do I have it? Am I the only one?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - How common is erectile dysfunction over 40? I, m having ED since 43,and now,Im 47.. My doctor did not find anything wrong with me medically. He just says,it is aging. I CAN'T ACCEPT THAT.I really don't want to complain, but it is such a bad ...

After a flirting/emotional relationship with someone else, am I finally able to relax in my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I had a flirting/emotional relationship with a committee colleague and his wife found out several months ago. She snooped on his phone and found some incriminating texts he hadn't deleted and he told her it was just a game between us. She rang me ...

What position would be best for first time intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - so me and my gf are goin to have sex for the 1st time. we are both sure we want to do this. i have asked other questions having to do with this, and so far almost no one has said anything about waiting until were legal, and isnt the legal age 16? ...

My wife lacks interest in certain sex acts, I like. How do I convince her to keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - My questions are simple, I have been married for quite a while we always have had a good sex life. I know that as you get somewhat older it will slowdown. We always tried different things had a good mix 3 to 4 times a week when younger, now we will ...

How can I achieve orgasm, while he's on top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Ok here's one for you, How can i achive a orgasm when he's on top? I can only have one when i'm on top of him! he doesn't know, and i'm afraid to tell him, because i've been faking for awhile. But iv'e really never been able to orgasm any other way, ...

My boyfriend and I have a fictitious lover - anyone with similar stories?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I am looking for input. My fiance's biggest turn on is fantasizing about me sleeping with other men. I don't but for the sake of role play have developed a fictitious 'boyfriend' and make it as real for him as possible. So, is there anyone else ...

Should we wait longer to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - hey im 15 and im thinking about having sex with my girlfreind but my penis is 5.5" erect with the girth of 4" is it too small and should i wait longer + will a condom fit ?...

Going to sleep with a man I work with. How can I get over my flaws and be more confident in bed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I met this man a year ago. We work together. We find each other really attractive and have finally decided to sleep together (once). There are no long term plans, we just want to have fun together. What I want to know is how can I make sure I ...

We have gone from a spontaneous fun sex life to ziltch. Is it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 31. We’ve been together for 2 and a half years. At the start of our relationship, our sex life was brilliant, it was fun, spontaneous, sexy and naughty, I would often dress up in naughty outfits/underwear, and we would use ...

What is a swollen thumb trick in ref to viewing a penis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - hey guys, I was talking to my mate who is bi and he said something that i wasn't familiar with. i want to ask u guys because i cant find it on the net. basically he said he was shown a guys penis using the "swollen thumb trick" if anyone can expla...

I got my period twice in a month. Am I pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hey guys i am new to this i am in serious needs of answer... Okay so here the problem I had my period Jan. 14.2010.. Me and my boyfriend started having sex Jan 2nd 2010.... and then we had sex on the jan 12th 2010.. so i got my period a day after we ...

My friends think I am just a booty call. Am I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I've known a guy through a mutual friend for 2 years. We have slept together 4 times. After each time, I would send a general message, from a friend to a friend asking how things were going, but I would receive no reply. From what it seems, he ...

I have had sex 7 times with 3 diff men and don't enjoy it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - So Ive only had sex about 7 times but Ive been with 3 men. But everytime I have sex it doesnt feel good for me at all. Its more uncomfortable than anything. But I dont get that feel good sensation that people keep telling me about. I dont think that ...

Turn out the open realtionship is only kinda ok withher boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - k so i was fooling around with this girl and i knew she had a boyfriend but she said it was an open relationship so i thought it would be cool we went pretty far suffice it to say if we would have had a bed we probly woulda had sex. any way turns ...

Never thought I'd fall for a married man...super confused here!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I never thought I'd fall for a married man! I didn't intend for things to get so heavy.I work in the same building and see him everyday..he just told me he wants to end our affair of only 1 month. Yet on the weekend he texts me and sends me pics of ...

Told my gf I watch porn, and she doesn't understand. What can I say to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - i have been watching porn. i have been with my gf for 4 years so i told her that i watched porn. she got mad and was telling me that i shouldn't be watching those things cause it is all fake so i told her that even if it is fake the sex seems real. ...

Concerns about my clitoris...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have never had an overly sensitive clitoris. I do not masturbate because it does not do anything for me. I have feeling, but it is hardly pleasurable…it is more irritating (not painful) than anything else. Recently, I read somewhere that my ...

Me and my gf are going to have sex...should I shave down there?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Me and my gf are going to have sex. we talked about it before, and i dont know if to shave down there. she said she wouldnt like it if i sis because then it might be prickly and might hurt. or should i just trim really small?...

My wife's sexual fantasy excluded me! Should I feel badly about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - I have a question; my wife and I have been together for 15 years or so. We have talked about sexual fantasies in the past and my wife claimed she never had any, or the ones she did were like me and her having sex in the backyard etc. she said tha...

Wet and dry...what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i regularly attempt to have sex but my vagina one day can be very wet and the next day be bone dry and it can go for periods for example a week being dry and then suddenly the next week completely wet. i jus want it to be ...

I need to reassure my husband who is feeling insecure about his penis size..what should I say?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have a question I have been married for sometime. I have only had sex with 2 guys the first guy I was with was somewhat bigger than my husband and we had trouble. My husband and I were talking about sex and the past and I mention that the first ...

I promised my parents I wouldn't kiss anybody until I was married! Is this stupid?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - well, i know this sounds stupid. but when i was like 5ish i pinky promised my parents i wouldnt kiss anyone till i was married. i am a christian, and proud(: but i kinda think its stupid.what do you think about this. is it stuupid? my friend told me ...

How can I stop being gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - I need help!!..Long story short Im 20yo n have had a pretty normal life..well.. I am gay.. but I hate it..I wish I wasnt gay. I dont know why or at what point in my life I became this way... Id like to know why I turned gay.. think about it all the ...

He doesn't even want a bj! is he not attracted to me anymore?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - hey you guys. ive been wanting to try giving my boy friend **** but he just doesn't seem to want a blow job. he keeps saying he doesn't want my mouth around that thing, but i can't help but think its me. . .is he not attracted to me anymore??...

Why does he lose his erection if I want foreplay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - So. My husband gets hard pretty easily and can stay hard if we have sex immediately once he's ready. But if I need a little more foreplay so that I can get wet and ready, he loses his erection. Why is that/? Is it something wrong with me? Or he has ...

We want to exchange naked pictures to take care of our sex drives

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Should I send my boyfriend naked pictures of myself? I am abroad this semester and he will be abroad next semester, and we are trying to think of ways to deal with our sex drive without being with other people. We are dedicated to doing this. He ...

How do I come out of the closet to my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - hey all, I have known I was bi for about years years but have never really told anyone about it. until i met a really cool guy who was bi as well. i later found out that he had "come out" and told his closest mates and even his parents. but my ...

I'm planning to have sex with my boyfriend on prom night. How can I stay safe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - im planning to have sex with my boyfriend on prom night, i really feel like we're connected because we've been dating for 2 years. im a little nervous any good tips on safe sex, how to satisfy him, and if im making the right decision??? ...

Why are guys insecure when they know a girl has been with a larger penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - The other night my boyfriend and I were talking about sex and he brought up his size, which I said was perfect. He then asked how he fits in size wise with past boyfriends I have been with and if I had been with larger than him. Of course he c...

So, what's the point of being attractive or hot when it just attracts those that notice your physical assets while not appreciating your other assets first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I recalled all of my relationships of the past. I haven't been in just one or two, but a little more than a few. I don't sleep around, and I don't settle for the first thing that comes my way. I feel love, I do not just feel lust. I try to be ...

I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...

I fingered my gf the other day and she said it wasn't as good as she thought it would be.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - I fingered my gf the other day and i asked how it felt. She said it didn't feel any different and that it felt normal. It was her first time and she was expecting more out of it but she said it wasn't as good as she thought it would be. I was ...

Could my harmless flirting lead to sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - I have a long distance email friendship with a woman I used to work with. Every week we exchange emails. I tease her pretty hard just as I did when we worked together. I kind of think she's attracted to me but we often call each other "friend" as ...

How do I get through to him that while he might find it attractive I find shaving my pubic area sleazy and gross and uncomfortable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - My husband keeps asking me (repeatedly) to shave (or at least severely trim) my pubic area. I prefer to just shave the sides to keep everything inside the underwear. If it was up to me (i.e. no embarrassing moments at the pool) I would stop shaving ...

I have had anal sex and now I'm bleeding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - i have had anal sex and now im bleeding when i go to the toilet and im really scared there is something very wrong with me :(...

My boyfriend get mad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) - Me and my boyfriend started getting sexual but not have sex and I gave him a hand job but he asks me all the time to give him one and I just don't feel like it or want to and when I say no and why he gets kind of mad but it's not like he forces me ...

I've lost the urge, and want to get it back again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) - Me and my boyfriend of three months just started "doing things" like I gave him a hand job and he fingered me we did that alot and all of a sudden I lost all interest in doing that and I want to be in the mood again. Anybody have advice on why and ...

Sex is not as much fun for me as it is for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Ok, so here it is I have been in the same relationship with the same guy for over a year now and i get super wet im talkin like really wet drippin wet were if i stand up its drippin down my leg and he thinks its all sexya nd stuff and well it really ...

I really need to spice things up in the bedroom! He refuses to give me oral sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My hubby and I have a great relationship, but need some work in the bedroom department. Two of the things I want the most - to receive oral and to do it doggie style - are not happening at all. EVER. My husband tried oral on me once and did not ...

He thinks I'm a bad girlfriend because my periods are longer than normal and limit sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Should I dump my idiot of a boyfriend? I'm sorry, but I'm just PISSED OFF with him, I could slap him across the face! See, I'm on my period. For some reason I've been bleeding for two weeks already. It's not a cause of concern, since I switched ...

We've started to get intimate and I have lost my sex drive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have just started getting intimate and all of a sudden I lost intrest and I have no sex drive at all. No matter how hard I try I just can't get in the mood. I need help soon and I need good advice. Have any?...

What would be your biggest fantasy that you would want to live out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - If you had a guy/girl that would do anything in the bedroom that you wanted. What would be your biggest fantasy that you would want to live out....

I am a 51 year old male who is having a problem maintaining an erection.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I am a 51 year old male who is having a problem maintaining an erection. I am able to get an erection during foreplay and by stroking myself, when it comes time to penetrate, my erection goes soft. My girl friend who I love dearly, is wonderful, ...

He said he would do oral on a guy if I wanted him to. Does this make hm bi?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Ok need some advice on a few things. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. He has always said that he loves having sex with me but wishes I would get more involved. I had major issues getting involved because of some ...

I don't feel like having sex with my boyfriend any more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend had fantasy sex with his friend (girl) he knows. It looks like every time he is imaging to have sex, he will think about this girl. But he told me he will never have sex with this girl in real life. Is he lying to me? He loves me...

She knows how I feel but keeps talking about sex with other people.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I have a friend who I have strong feelings for. I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way but that we both weren't ready. I said I needed some time away from her. A month later she contacted me and started talking about things like ...